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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/10/2007 3:52:00 PM

joyinslavery

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quote:

ORIGINAL: darchChylde

quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

I LOVE fucking hot women. I love it when they're sadists and I go nuts when it's "sick." To all you crazy Bitch Women out there having fun with this leather/BDSM thing... Thank you for allowing us the chance to cross your paths!

i'm really not intending to ruffle feathers here; but after seeing all the glowing and positive responses from the Dominants here, i can't help but wonder what the responses would be like if a male sub or switch had posted the exact same post

He would be slammed.

And rightly so.

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/10/2007 4:29:43 PM

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This posting wasn't meant to offend. Crazy Bitch is a title I happen to value in my life. And if one cannot tell that by the posting then oh well. Also yeah men get slammed because of their predecessors. Not my problem or my issue. I identify as a masculine identified female. And if some people still get "girl" out of that they're dead wrong. I'ma boi. I'm cuter than the average puppy and I was being nice. Still am as far as my natural inclination to say stop yer whining...not meaning to ruffle feathers and all.

Let's get back to the positives Ladies...cuz this is about You...not me. So again thanks for those who have responded in positive light and having taken the post for it's original intent!

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/10/2007 5:43:35 PM

LaMistressa

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It was a great post, and it gave me a big, crazy, bitchy smile. So, back at ya, bitch!

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/10/2007 6:44:08 PM

LadyClaudiaVan

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I must say thank you very much for your post to us beautiful dommes. You're beautiful as well.

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/11/2007 12:11:33 AM

joyinslavery

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

This posting wasn't meant to offend. Crazy Bitch is a title I happen to value in my life. And if one cannot tell that by the posting then oh well. Also yeah men get slammed because of their predecessors. Not my problem or my issue. I identify as a masculine identified female. And if some people still get "girl" out of that they're dead wrong. I'ma boi. I'm cuter than the average puppy and I was being nice. Still am as far as my natural inclination to say stop yer whining...not meaning to ruffle feathers and all.

Let's get back to the positives Ladies...cuz this is about You...not me. So again thanks for those who have responded in positive light and having taken the post for it's original intent!

Just for the record...

I'm being nice too.

Have fun.

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/11/2007 2:13:54 AM

FullfigRIMaam

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This posting wasn't meant to offend. Crazy Bitch is a title I happen to value in my life. And if one cannot tell that by the posting then oh well.

I'm not even a little bit offended or ruffled by this, as it means nothing. I was just admiring the fact that you must be very well liked or are getting a free pass because you are a boi Jen since I've never seen women on here, especially the dominants take well to being called out of their names, even as a joke. So it's actually good so many have developed a sense of humor. I just hope we're this kool when some submissive man jokes in this manner, lol. M

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/11/2007 4:43:47 AM

NovelApproach

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Hugs for the boi! "Spank you" very much for your kind words...and might I add, you're one of the cuter things I've seen in awhile.

Adding on to the discussion going on, I'm not offended in the least. Coming from another female... no, scratch that. Coming from anyone but a dominant or vanilla male, I consider "bitch" to be a compliment. I think my reaction would be the same regardless of the poster's sex so long as they were a sub or switch. But then again, I consider myself a pansexual - other people's genders don't matter all that much to me.

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/11/2007 6:20:59 AM

MadameMarque

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quote:

ORIGINAL: darchChylde

quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

I LOVE fucking hot women. I love it when they're sadists and I go nuts when it's "sick." To all you crazy Bitch Women out there having fun with this leather/BDSM thing... Thank you for allowing us the chance to cross your paths!

i'm really not intending to ruffle feathers here; but after seeing all the glowing and positive responses from the Dominants here, i can't help but wonder what the responses would be like if a male sub or switch had posted the exact same post

Yes, it's true that when you use normally derogatory terms, you need to strike just the right chord. If you, as a male, can't get away with calling a group of females "b_tch," even good naturedly, you'll have to take it up with other men.

Normally, them's fighting words, due to how demeaning males have made the use of the term, toward females. For this reason, I rarely refer to another female as a b_tch, so that she must have really worked for the title. Usually, the only people I call by that name are male. In either case, I'm usually only thinking it.

Still, when such terms are used admiringly and joyously - and somehow, when in combination with the word, "Crazy," in a happy sense - they can have their place. I think Boi has left no doubt as to the tone in which it's used, here. Unreserved, earnest adoration is always sexy and charming! And yes, Boi Jen's being female gives Boi an added pass to use that term admiringly, and be well received.

Yeah, "Crazy" is good, too, if it's in the right way.

"Well I shake all over and
you know why
I'm sure it's love, honey,
it's no lie
'Cause when you call my name,
I burn like wood in flame
You
leave me
...breathless."
- from Breathless, lyrics by Jerry Lee Lewis

Snoop Dog:
"And to all you middle-class suburban white ladies, out there, who come up to me and say, "Fo' shizzle, my nizzle," - 'nizzle' does *not* mean 'neighbor'."

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/11/2007 12:07:13 PM

darchChylde

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i want to make it clear, for the record, that i was not attempting to slam the post or the responses to it; i simply wanted to satisfy my curiosity... i was able to guess the intent behind the OP, i have no problem with it and understand that even if i did, it wouldn't matter at all to anyone but me

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/12/2007 7:43:55 PM

GuidingLite

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girl dont even bepaying attention to these mens hating up on the ladies up in here. they just jealous at the ladies coz they dont want the ladies to get any nice treatment. lady haters is all they are. tell them to fuckin rain on someone elses parade so you keeps on gving the ladies props and thank yous coz these bitches deserve it like no otha!

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/12/2007 8:15:16 PM

darchChylde

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ORIGINAL: GuidingLite
girl dont even bepaying attention to these mens hating up on the ladies up in here. they just jealous at the ladies coz they dont want the ladies to get any nice treatment. lady haters is all they are. tell them to fuckin rain on someone elses parade so you keeps on gving the ladies props and thank yous coz these bitches deserve it like no otha!

your inadequate skills of observation are only surpassed by your attrocious language

yes, i'm going to take your comment personally as i am the only "mens" in this thread... for your information, there was nothing in my posts that can identify me as a "hater"

if you look at my profile or my many, many posts; you will see that i am ever respectful of anyone who does not give me due cause to take offense.. my first post in this thread was an observation only and coached in the most polite and considerate of terms and the second was to apologize for any unintended offense that i may have caused

go in love and peace

darchChylde

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/12/2007 8:21:36 PM

GuidingLite

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take what evr you want seriously or personally. get a clue ass. you mean nothing to me.

puppet.

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/12/2007 8:27:10 PM

GuidingLite

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and funny how you all monitor the boards and run to the boards like a puppet to defend yourself when i wasnt even writing to your sorry ass.

you must KNOW your guilty of raining on a parade thats why you wrote to me when I didnt even write to you. guilty conscience makes you be a puppet boy and run up in here to defend yourself. mind your own biz.

passive aggression er parade ruiner.

< Message edited by GuidingLite -- 8/12/2007 8:28:45 PM >

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/12/2007 8:35:09 PM

GuidingLite

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90% of the men in these boards dont even like the womens. yall just want them to do you. do you. do you. like this and that way. and thats all its ever about!. yall know it so quit the fronting. if you dont like dommes dont come in here and rain on their parade whens someone says something nice to them.

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/12/2007 8:44:09 PM

MySweetSubmssive

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Um, when boiJen said bitch, I don't think that's what was being aimed at. (boiJen, I feel like an ignoramus asking, but would you prefer to be referred to as he or she?)

And now back to our regularly scheduled love fest.

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/12/2007 10:14:05 PM

hardbodysub

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quote:

ORIGINAL: darchChylde

quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

I LOVE fucking hot women. I love it when they're sadists and I go nuts when it's "sick." To all you crazy Bitch Women out there having fun with this leather/BDSM thing... Thank you for allowing us the chance to cross your paths!

i'm really not intending to ruffle feathers here; but after seeing all the glowing and positive responses from the Dominants here, i can't help but wonder what the responses would be like if a male sub or switch had posted the exact same post

The cynic in me is still waiting for BoiJen to respond with "Thanks for all your replies, but my comment was aimed at HOT women!"

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/13/2007 9:19:04 AM

ocilla

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There are some male subs that I think could pull off a sassy post - for instance Chia has a way with words that are funny, adoring, witty and perhaps even backhanded at the same time. Little Sarbonne is super sub and a writer - check out his Dom profile in the general BSDM forum to see an edgy post by a sub - so very funny and the responses all appreciative. Politesub has his consistency and there are quite a few others whose particular ways, hearts and intentions are known by all well enough to always appreciate their posts. Yall all add so much to the forum - wish more subs would post. I meet subs on the other side, who I know would be a great addition to the dialog but who never chime in.

And too, I must admit that fondness for BoiJen likely does have a lot to do with that she is undeniably genuine and consistent in her language, enthusiasm and approach so there is no question of her intent which is admiring. Plus she is adorably cute - so hard to not dote on that sweet face and evil little grin. Sorry fellas you're just not in the same category as our Boi. But...... you each have you own special ways, and those are much appreciated too. And don't think this is just to patronize you - your praises are being sung sincerely.

< Message edited by ocilla -- 8/13/2007 9:36:14 AM >

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/13/2007 8:41:51 PM

slaverosebeauty

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Hmmmmmmmmmmm I hear hypocrytes. Its okay for a female bottom types to call top type ladies 'bitches' but NOT for male bottom-types??

I think your letter is showing or at least your stones are slipping.

{all 2 people who may understand the above inferances}

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/13/2007 9:53:41 PM

MySweetSubmssive

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I don't see that as hypocritical.

I have never greeted an African-American friend with "Hey niggah." It's just ... so not right! Or my gay friends (except my best friend), or my ... I think the guideline here is if you are in the group, you can use the slang/slur to describe that group with impunity. If you're not in the group, you may or may not get the high five of approval.

You have to have a certain amount of campiness and willingness to not take things seriously to transgress that boundary (domiguy does this all the time and it works for him). If a submissive man wasn't taking things (ie Dommes) seriously, he'd get a lot of flak. I'd be interested to see a submssive man who could pull it off, though!

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RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... - 8/14/2007 7:14:29 AM

rhythmboi

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quote:

Hmmmmmmmmmmm I hear hypocrytes. Its okay for a female bottom types to call top type ladies 'bitches' but NOT for male bottom-types??

that's not hypocracy. that's the cost of living in a world that doles out male privilege.

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