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He's Gone - 11/11/2007 9:15:30 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		For four days.  Of course, these are also the same four days our roommate will be in Brazil for a research conference.  Figures.

I packed the mini cooler for him- 4 Dr. Peppers, a Vanilla Coke and a Fanta Orange, a dozen mini Milky Ways, 5 piece of fruit, and a baggie of triscuits.

I put the CDs he'd laid out for the trip into the CD book, I found the squirrel to take along, I ironed his shirts.

Not because I was his good submissive girl, but just because I love him and wanted him to have an easier trip and know I was thinking of him.

Of course, I also threw his keys in his suitcase and slammed the door when he wanted to put the freshly ironed shirts into the suitcase rather than let me hang them in the car.  Nothing like misplaced annoyance.

His dad just called me to ask how he was doing.  We talked twenty minutes ago and he was just outside of his destination. 

Four days alone- working late to get stuff done, cleaning to prepare for hannaukah.

I've never lived with someone before, it's been a LONG time since I had to deal with the Sunday Going Away Blues.  I bet all you long distance/non live-ins know what I mean.  I should shut up before someone who only gets to see their partner every three months punches me.

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RE: He's Gone - 11/11/2007 9:24:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Let's all hope he comes back safely and very horny from missing you.

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RE: He's Gone - 11/11/2007 9:30:46 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		I wouldn't punch you, I would just hug you and cop a feel...

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RE: He's Gone - 11/11/2007 9:48:06 PM   
Mercnbeth


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Coincidently beth leaves for a trip back east to visit her mom in the morning and I've got a smilier 4 days solo to get through. It's not a good time, and there is no good side to the time apart. It is a time to benchmark how much you should appreciate, have fun, and take advantage the time when you are together.

Good luck - may the time pass quickly for you!

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RE: He's Gone - 11/11/2007 9:58:14 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Let's all hope he comes back safely and very horny from missing you.

Thanks :)  Likely more just tired and relieved.  But I'm taking at least part of Friday off so maybe by then he'll be recovered enough...

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RE: He's Gone - 11/11/2007 9:59:27 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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I wouldn't punch you, I would just hug you and cop a feel...

HA I'd probably be annoyed if you didn't.

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RE: He's Gone - 11/11/2007 10:01:26 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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LA,
Coincidently beth leaves for a trip back east to visit her mom in the morning and I've got a smilier 4 days solo to get through. It's not a good time, and there is no good side to the time apart. It is a time to benchmark how much you should appreciate, have fun, and take advantage the time when you are together.

Good luck - may the time pass quickly for you!

Funny on the timing.  I definitely appreciate it- he told me to enjoy the things I don't get to do as often when we're together.  Of course, it's not as fun when I'm not sharing it. 

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RE: He's Gone - 11/11/2007 10:04:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Awww, LA you are so in love.
We will keep you company here, until he comes back.

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RE: He's Gone - 11/11/2007 11:45:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
I should shut up before someone who only gets to see their partner every three months punches me.


Nah, it's all a matter of perspective and what you're accustomed to.  When you're use to waking up to someone every morning, it's an adjustment not to, and adjustments can be difficult.  Watch a bunch of movies you want to see that you know he won't like :) 

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RE: He's Gone - 11/12/2007 8:43:20 AM   
RCdc


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I swear Em, I am going nutsoid just contemplating this approaching christmas as I will probably not see Darcy for nearly three weeks as we both have things on and stuff has to clash and the whole thing just sucks - the one thing keeping me going is that new year gets us back together again.
 
But hey, you get to do the shirt ironing - I miss that part when we are apart.  Urgh, now wheres my hot chocolate and a blanket...
 
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RE: He's Gone - 11/12/2007 8:48:11 AM   
pahunkboy


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Status: offline 		I am stingy toward my solitude.

I been on the other side- which ended up to be juvenile fighting for which there could be no winner.

The temp is how I like it. so on and so forth.

Anyhow- time apart can grow you closer. A time to reflect. Look forward to being together once again. Love can be wonderfull-

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RE: He's Gone - 11/12/2007 2:22:41 PM   
HaveRopeWillBind


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Have some fun with the situation. Take all the furniture out of the front rooms and then strip them down to bare walls and floors. Then put a "For Sale" sign out in the yard just before he is due home. Wait across the street and film his reaction as he drives up and tries to figure out what happened. Bet he won't leave you alone again.

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RE: He's Gone - 11/12/2007 2:28:52 PM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: HaveRopeWillBind

LA,

Have some fun with the situation. Take all the furniture out of the front rooms and then strip them down to bare walls and floors. Then put a "For Sale" sign out in the yard just before he is due home. Wait across the street and film his reaction as he drives up and tries to figure out what happened. Bet he won't leave you alone again.


Oh now that is evil. Sounds like something I would do!


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RE: He's Gone - 11/12/2007 2:30:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		LA... chocolate, porn, and masturbation are good distractions(from what i hear).

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RE: He's Gone - 11/12/2007 2:42:02 PM   
pahunkboy


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ORIGINAL: HaveRopeWillBind

LA,

Have some fun with the situation. Take all the furniture out of the front rooms and then strip them down to bare walls and floors. Then put a "For Sale" sign out in the yard just before he is due home. Wait across the street and film his reaction as he drives up and tries to figure out what happened. Bet he won't leave you alone again.



you are devious!  i wonder if he would notice some other guys shoes left behind?

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RE: He's Gone - 11/12/2007 3:45:45 PM   
kyraofMists


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
I should shut up before someone who only gets to see their partner every three months punches me.


Hmmm... I'll punch you but only if we both enjoy it  *g*

He says I hit like a girl, but I have been lifting weights!

I find the time apart is getting easier... especially since I know that this might be the last significant time apart.  He finds that it gets harder each time and this one has really made him restless.  Spring can't come soon enough.

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RE: He's Gone - 11/12/2007 4:45:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I've never lived with someone before, it's been a LONG time since I had to deal with the Sunday Going Away Blues.  I bet all you long distance/non live-ins know what I mean.  I should shut up before someone who only gets to see their partner every three months punches me.


nope, not gonna punch you.  i got to see Daddy in october and it was wonderful, and i dont know when i'm going to see him again. 

right now....i'd settle for any snuggly type human contact that i could get.  *smiles*

i think i have 6 stuffed animals on the bed right now.  and my collar and bracelet have been polished till they glow in the dark almost.

so yeah....tis hard when the one you want to be with isnt around.  i'll hug ya though.  *hugs*

kitten

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RE: He's Gone - 11/12/2007 6:39:49 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Thanks guys.  Day One went pretty well- gym, hanging out, he did send me two emails but haven't had a chance to talk on the phone yet.

Since we live in a second floor apartment I really don't intend on doing the for sale scare, but it would be funny and he'd find it amusing as well.  Instead I'm getting out all the holiday decorations and having them all ready for when he gets home.

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RE: He's Gone - 11/15/2007 9:54:16 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Woohoo!  He's back!  Exceeding my expectations, he arrived at about 7 tonight- and indeed was fairly tired.

It was a good few days apart actually, got stuff done, gained perspective, and honestly slept better than I have in a long time.  But as I thought of him coming home today, my tummy fluttered more and more and I realized that it just felt right to be together- to so naturally and easily touch and talk to eachother and how I missed even his smallest facial expressions.

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RE: He's Gone - 11/16/2007 4:07:35 AM   
pahunkboy


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Status: offline 		He is a lucky man to have you.   :-) 

Smile.

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