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Looking for suggestions - 8/28/2005 9:52:03 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		Our newest potential is a guy who has to wear a uniform every day to work, and cannot wear any jewelry other than a watch unless he's actually married. I'm looking for suggestions on collar alternatives besides jewelry. Bracelets, rings and necklaces/chains are all out, unfortunately, but we're looking for something that can be worn/carried at all times without notice. Something that would make him feel owned without causing him trouble at work.

Any ideas?
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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/28/2005 9:55:07 PM   
junecleaver


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Status: offline 		are piercings out of the question?

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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/28/2005 10:00:59 PM   
kisshou


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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/28/2005 10:15:36 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		For the longest time, Cell Phones made me felt like I was attached on someones chain. It gave me the thought that I could never be absolutly left alone.

Any how, tatoos can be romoved if and when needed. However, if you aren't ready for tattos, I would suggest India Hena. This type of dye that is drawn on the skin and stains. The drawings can hold up to six months before fading away.

Another idea that comes to mind is an under garmet. I knew a coach who wore a work out vest that weighed 25 lbs under his shirt. If this has to stay professional and keep on his uniform, then that means no one at work will see what's underneath. So be creative and think about vest, corsets, belt straps, somthing around the his cock or testites. I'm sure you can think of something. Toe rings go around the toe attached to foot which has to be conseald in a sock and shoe.

If it has to be visible for everyone to see, I'd sugest that the watch as a special symbol of your choosing where the watch tells time. Underneath you can always have it inscribed "Poperty of ______" or just "PO_"
Other than that, you can always invest in a nice LaBlank Ink Pen to go with his professional uniform with inscriptions as and sympbols as well.

If none of these ideas can work, the message me on my Collar Me account and I'll put on the ole thinking cap just for you.

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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/28/2005 10:39:50 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		You guys are awesome! The India Henna thing is rather ironic, as I happen to love Henna art and one of my nicknames is India LOL.

We'll keep them all in mind as we are moving forward with our relationship with him

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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/28/2005 11:17:57 PM   
kezzo


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Status: offline 		Cock and /or ball rings.that would keep him knowing he is owned ALL day

go for it
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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/29/2005 4:43:41 AM   
Focus50


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ORIGINAL: kezzo

Cock and /or ball rings.that would keep him knowing he is owned ALL day

go for it
Kezz

Interesting topic and though I don't have anything creative to add, this one makes be baulk....

It actually sounds a great idea on the surface but probably not so good as far as safety and health are concerned. Circulation problems down there can have disastrous consequences and too loose a ring can become.... errrr.... "tangled", resulting in the same potential problem as one that's too tight.

Something like a discreet tattoo a possibility? Perhaps one small enough so as not to be a problem should the relationship ultimately not work out....

Focus50.

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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/29/2005 5:14:06 AM   
LadyAngelika


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Cock and /or ball rings.that would keep him knowing he is owned ALL day


That's what first came to mind for me too. I don't collar, but when I need a boy to feel my presence all day long, tying up his cock & balls has a great effect. I usually use one of my hair ribbons or something personal. Sometimes it's a full on cock ring. I got my last boy a ring with *toyboy* engraved on it. He loved it.

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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/29/2005 6:13:52 AM   
LadyKim


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Status: offline 		A chastity tube is great for the feeling of being owned; however, if he is subject to spur of the moment inspections, showering in front of others, or drug testing...... it isn't really very practical.

A small nipple piercing is another alternative if he is allowed to have body jewelry that is not visible when clothed.

Unless you are serious about the boy, I don't know that I would suggest a tatoo unless it was something generic.......... like.......... OWNED ........ or boytoy or something along those lines.

Another alternative would be a keyring that he could carry with him at all times or an inscription on a watchband.

Good luck.
MzKim

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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/29/2005 6:16:41 AM   
Elegant


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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/29/2005 10:50:43 AM   
PassionsHarmony


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Status: offline 		Perhaps you could have slave, and the date etched into the back of the watch.
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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/29/2005 11:57:10 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		anything labeled slave isn't our style ... but I've been calling him "pet" for awhile now ... so that would work.

For the moment, he's carrying the chain that I had him wear all day yesterday ... that will work for now at least.

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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/29/2005 11:59:48 AM   
NakedOnMyChain


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Status: offline 		The henna idea is a very good one. Also consider something small and personal that can be placed in his pocket. Maybe a pocketwatch or a wallet chain. I suppose it depends on how professional his job is.

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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/29/2005 1:07:29 PM   
Cykotica


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

Our newest potential is a guy who has to wear a uniform every day to work, and cannot wear any jewelry other than a watch unless he's actually married. I'm looking for suggestions on collar alternatives besides jewelry. Bracelets, rings and necklaces/chains are all out, unfortunately, but we're looking for something that can be worn/carried at all times without notice. Something that would make him feel owned without causing him trouble at work.

Any ideas?

My boy has a collar he wears around the house, but it is far from appropriate for work. One thing I did once was purchase a cat collar, remove the little bell, and he wore it under his sock, around his ankle.

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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/29/2005 1:09:32 PM   
SadistDave


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Status: offline 		Hmmm... these may or may not be good ideas for your guy, but...

g-string or thong
Mistresses undies
A lock of Mistresses hair sewn into his underwear. (or in a pouch that can be firmly attached)
toe ring
nipple rings (specifically the rubber rings lifestylers buy from farm supply stores used for castrating pigs)
Give him a mullet (ongoing humiliation)

Have fun with it.
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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/30/2005 10:08:53 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		hmmm... mullet won't work - he has to keep his hair buzzed, and while I love the cat collar around the ankle idea, that won't work either because of his boots *pout*

He still has the chain - forgot to grab it when we left work last night (it is one of my chains ... hadn't really intended for him to keep it full time just yet). Now I'm wondering if he put it on when he got home ...

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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/30/2005 11:51:19 AM   
lonewolf05


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Status: offline 		i assume he has a full collar with a tie, with the uniform?
everything underneath is hidden?
or not?


"I" am SO used-to, wearing my dogchain choker collar with padlock 24/7....
i guess try the henna rope and make IT into a necklace under his shirt n tie?

or try the keychain thingy? i dont know here. make a keyfob out of the henna rope?

sorry...really.

wolf

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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/31/2005 6:36:28 AM   
GADomCpl


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Status: offline 		I am guessing that the reason for the restriction is because he is military. Being in the military myself, I can totally relate. Prior to getting into my current Dom streak I was serving a Mistress. She got me a dog tag (that I kept on my key chain that said "Liz's Bitch" If anyone at work happened to ask about it, I would just make a joke about it being a gag gift from my girlfriend.

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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/31/2005 6:41:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		If he has a shirt with buttons on it then maybe put different buttons on it...

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RE: Looking for suggestions - 8/31/2005 11:44:02 AM   
solesta


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Status: offline 		well how about an ankle chain that You can put a small tag on with "PET " on it ?? just a thought.

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