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Sensation Slut - 12/10/2005 5:52:30 PM

kyraofMists

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One aspect of me that I am coming to understand is that I am a masochist; I prefer to think of it as a sensation slut, but let’s not mince words. I like pain and get off on it. Different pains/sensations cause different emotional and mental reactions. My Lord made the observation today that when I experience something new it sometimes takes a few days to decide if I have liked it or not.

An example of that is when my Lord used a short sword to hit me on the ass. Personally, I do not like the sensation of getting hit on the ass. It isn’t a pain that I process well. However, the emotions that were triggered from being hit with the sword were powerful. There was an immediate feeling of rage, just this primitive, raw, primal rage that caused me to immediately lash out. It was liberating to be able to express that feeling in a controlled situation and trust that my Lord would accept the reactions for what they are. So even though I do not care for the sensation, I loved that play.

There are other sensations that I love just for the feel. Being flogged on the back with a nice heavy, thuddy flogger centers me and I just sink into the feeling. My Lord uses this to calm me during play.

My favorite sensation though is zippers. I have described it as an exquisite sensation. When clothespins are put on me, I do not feel any pain. I have a type of skin that makes putting them on very easy and I feel little if they are just placed on. My Lord has to put a little effort into making me feel any pain. Typically he does that by grabbing them and twisting them or by pretending they are a drum (it amuses him). But the pain of having them taken off is my favorite and zippers, well the pain is so pure and intense that there is an absence of thought or feelings. It is a struggle just to remember to breathe.

What emotional and mental reactions do others have to play? What sensations are your favorites? And Tops feel free to add your perspectives as well.

Knight’s kyra

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/10/2005 6:10:12 PM

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What emotional and mental reactions do others have to play? What sensations are your favorites?

Hmm, I am going to answer this in direct relation to pain...Like yourself, I am masochist ( though I usually refer to myself as a pain junkie or addict ). I lose myself completly in pain to the point that I become almost catatonic. The rush is just so great that I let it sweep me away ( It has been noticed that if I fight the pain, when I finally do give in to it, the reaction is twice as bad ) During this time, you would be lucky to get any kind of coherent talk or reaction from me...the more pain inflicted, the higher I go. The bad side of this is ... as I start to come down, and the pain starts to take over again ( crashing ), it's so painful for me that its impossible to not scream in agony. At that time, I have been told that I will fight, disobey, anything to get another 'fix' to put me back on top...all of which ends with me crying and shaking uncontrollably because the pain is so intense.

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/10/2005 6:28:36 PM

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IrishMist,

I am curious when do you start to crash? Is it while the play is still continuing and that is why you feel pain so intensely? Or is it after the play has stopped?

kyra

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/10/2005 6:30:20 PM

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IrishMist,

I am curious when do you start to crash? Is it while the play is still continuing and that is why you feel pain so intensely? Or is it after the play has stopped?

kyra

After. Usually about 15 to 30 minutes after it has stopped I will start to come down.

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/10/2005 6:32:26 PM

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Interesting, Kyra. I would also call myself a sensation slut, but define it differently. I do not believe I am a masochist, though I am relatively unexperienced in that area and generally will try things a few times before ruling it out. Perhaps because of this I don't immediately "sensation play" with what I would think of as pain-play. I think of sensation as nice things heat, vibration, touch, texture. And pain is...well...pain. For me pain can be endured if it is required and perhaps even enjoyed, but only when used sparingly and in conjunction with other sensations.

I have watched a zipper being pulled off and my reaction was to cringe and resist the urge to hide behind my hands. I did not think, "Ooo, I can't wait to try THAT!"

I like your typical nicey-nice things like massage, hot wax, buzzy things, light smacks. I do really get off on a physical type of over-powering wrestling resistance type play. To me it is very primal and instinctive. For me it is also very intimate, as it is a back and forth thing that feeds on itself. My partner's action or reaction directly effects my next action or reaction. The intensity builds until it very naturally cycles back down.

I like the typical scratching, hair yanking, gripping, shoving that accompanies semi-rough sex. In the right circumstances a slap across the face is enough to send me over the edge. I also like hands around my neck, but not REALLY cutting off the air supply.

As a top I enjoy much of the same, though I can probably top at a more intense level. I will slap harder than would I want to be slapped, squeeze his throat tighter than I would enjoy, etc. Those are two of my favorite things for the pure adrenaline rush and sense of power/control I get. As a top I can enjoy inflicting humiliation and even limited watersports -- something I have as a soft limit as a bottom.

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/10/2005 7:02:50 PM

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What emotional and mental reactions do others have to play? What sensations are your favorites?

Knight’s kyra

mmmm, favorite sensations is canes, , fiberglass, acrylic. rubber, metal. these ones are my favorite ones. then come the wooden and rattan ones next *ss*. the sensations these give me are not of pain , more a feeling of deep warmth and hot impact.

my reactions range from crying to laughing, quiet sighs to intense screams, soft moans to full orgasms all dependent on the headspace, strenght of the strike and of course where the cane is being used.

emotionally i feel an intense pleasure and very sensual in my body absorbing each strike of the cane, my muscles moving and flexing, working through the impact and hot caress of the cane against my flesh.

My most unusual response mentally, is to be so relaxed as to examine my finger nails to see if they need a manicure while I am being played with a cane

His response to that is to ask if He was boring me. and to change to the suede flogger to get some screams out of me *grins*

Knight's alandra

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/10/2005 7:15:50 PM

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For several years I have always been the dominant person in any bdsm relationships that I've had, but of late I've been choosing to put myself out there to explore my other desires which would mimic your quote of being a sensation slut in this description

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Interesting, Kyra. I would also call myself a sensation slut, but define it differently. I do not believe I am a masochist, though I am relatively unexperienced in that area and generally will try things a few times before ruling it out. Perhaps because of this I don't immediately "sensation play" with what I would think of as pain-play. I think of sensation as nice things heat, vibration, touch, texture. And pain is...well...pain. For me pain can be endured if it is required and perhaps even enjoyed, but only when used sparingly and in conjunction with other sensations.

I haven't any interest in experiencing any amount of real pain beyond candle wax when its being held from its highest peak or having my bottom paddled sensually. I'm hoping, in time, that I will be able to answer your questions with more first hand knowledge, as at this time I'm mostly talk, because most of my exploring is in my fantasies when it comes to recieving. I've done a little of the hot waxing to myself in the past and have had a light spanking here and there, but I do crave to feel it more in depth.

The first time it happened, I wasn't quite sure about my feelings when my lover, playfully, spanked my bottom, it was like, what the heck are you doing, but then later I thought about it and said to myself, I kind of liked it. We never discussed what took place or did it again, but, the scenerio haunted me, in a good way. Years later, someone I dated, did the same thing, took me unwillingly and playfully, over his knees and proceeded to spank my bottom, but this time, (I had to be in control of course LOL), I had him do it just a bit softer and longer than my ex and I loved it. And so, this year I've thought about it on and off so often and have finally accepted that it and other desires are a part of my make up and I'm cool with that. I'm looking forward to the afterglow.

Rosa

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/10/2005 7:20:41 PM

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kyra like you I very much enjoy the feel of a nice heavy thuddy flogger. I love to be flogged all over my back side from my sholders to my knees. To this day I can not look at my coffee table with out fond memories of my first real flogging...*weg*. And the feeling I get it is the closest I have been to subspace. I have never felt so relaxed or free as I do durning a good flogging.

I still have not figured out if it is the pain that I truely enjoy or knowing that I have taken the pain and pleased the one inflicting it . But my experiances are still very limited so hopefully in the future I will finaly get to figure it out.

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/10/2005 7:33:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sensualips

Interesting, Kyra. I would also call myself a sensation slut, but define it differently. I do not believe I am a masochist, though I am relatively unexperienced in that area and generally will try things a few times before ruling it out. Perhaps because of this I don't immediately "sensation play" with what I would think of as pain-play. I think of sensation as nice things heat, vibration, touch, texture. And pain is...well...pain. For me pain can be endured if it is required and perhaps even enjoyed, but only when used sparingly and in conjunction with other sensations.

Part of it is the mind-set, I think. I do not think of pain as pain, just really instense sensation. Interestingly enough, when my Lord hands alandra a vibrator and says I want to hear her scream, I have a harder time processing that sensation than I do those that are identified as pain. I have vocalized just as much, if not more, during those times than when he has snatched clothespins off my breasts. Of course the sadistic bastard (said with deep love and affection *g*) combined the two of those the last time we played.

kyra

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/10/2005 7:38:40 PM

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One aspect of me that I am coming to understand is that I am a masochist; I prefer to think of it as a sensation slut, but let’s not mince words. I like pain and get off on it. Different pains/sensations cause different emotional and mental reactions. My Lord made the observation today that when I experience something new it sometimes takes a few days to decide if I have liked it or not.

I deal with a lot of people who are just getting into the SM/DS world and use the word 'sensation' and go on to describe that there are different levels & types of sensation rather than 'pain' in order for them to grasp the concept witout being scared off.

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/10/2005 7:56:29 PM

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I deal with a lot of people who are just getting into the SM/DS world and use the word 'sensation' and go on to describe that there are different levels & types of sensation rather than 'pain' in order for them to grasp the concept witout being scared off.

D (owner of j)

There are many things my Lord does that others would find painful but I do not. Kicking is one them. Alandra and I both love a really heavy kicking scene but neither of us find it painful. So calling it sensation rather than pain is not really a way for me to not scare myself. It is just a word I can use to describe all aspects of SM play without having to say, this one hurts and this one doesn't. I am always reminded of a scene in a movie where the actor says, "Pain don't hurt" when I describe a sensation that many would think painful but for me it is not.

kyra

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/10/2005 8:20:57 PM

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Like you, I've referred to myself as a sensation slut not because I don't care for the word masochist but because, to me, masochist doesn't encompass the broad range of sensations I enjoy. Masochist is ok too. Some have called me a pain slut but I'm not sure about that one yet

Initially it was the more pain oriented forms of play that drew me but as my play experiences expanded I realized that there were so many other forms of sensation that were very enjoyable.

One of the main reasons I do enjoy more intense sensations is because I am undersensitive to tactile stimnulation. Most people find feathers ticklish. The sensation imparted by a feather is imperceptible to me except for a couple of very small, hard to find places on my body. Weird but true. I need more intense sensations to be able to perceive and process them.

It's also not all about pain (although I do like pain). I don't find abrasion painful, for example, but I LOVE various types of abrasion simply because it's a more intense sensation. Sandpaper, fingernails, dental probes and blades/knives in particular are some of the non-painful sensations that I adore. One thing that I never thought could be used as a form of abrasion is baby powder but a former play partner proved me wrong. After an intense flogging, caning or abrasion session when the skin is nice and pink and sensitive he would rub baby powder on his hands and then ever so slightly run his hands over the abraded skin. It was one of the softest yet most exquisitely intense sensations I've ever felt.

The emotional and physical reactions can vary a great deal depending on my headspace, who I'm playing with and a host of other factors (ie warm room, cool room, noisy play party, quiet play in private) but it's always enjoyable in some way or other.

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/11/2005 1:26:15 AM

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I love the physical act of causing pain, but it is always done with a purpose. Usually the purpose is to get her and myself into a higher state of consciousness where the inner peace fills us and the universe seems simple and magical. Both are able to see and feel the world precisely and beautifully.

The painting on the wall that I haven't noticed that much becomes a magnificent work of art. We find meanings in what was previously ordinary. We become aware of the force-like power of D/s. The world is different, better, more in tune. Harmony. We have removed the clouds that usually mist around normal times. She has spaced and I have in my own way.

The pain is used to take her to this consciousness. It can’t be too much at first. It has to build with whatever instrument is used in a rhythm that is ever increasing.

So faintly I came tapping, tapping at her chamber door.

Once she has spaced, the pain is meaningless and I use it carefully and only to keep her there. Interestingly enough, her skin rarely will mark when she is in this state. She feels no pain and her body does not process lashes as pain. Emotional/physical poetry. Forevermore.

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/11/2005 9:01:12 AM

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MsIncognito,

How could I have forgotten about abrasion play? What I love most about it is the wide variety of contrasts, from the soft and sensual to the things that can leave your skin feeling very raw and sometimes just a bit bloody. My favorite toys for this is a pair of fish cleaning gloves that my Lord has and a BBQ brush.

Thanks for the idea with the baby powder; I will have to share it with my Lord.

kyra

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/11/2005 11:35:39 AM

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Wow this could be a long answer.

The soft sliding and tight compression of rope as it glides into and secures over my skin.

The dark empty nothingness of a box, thuds slowly closed around me, shrouding me in my own awareness.

The slick warmth of tongues and soft waves of skin gliding over my own, compressing tightly and making me possessed within themselves.

The cold press of metal on flesh, the snick of locks and heaviness of chain weighing me down.

The slow tingle of electricity that tightens into an arc of blue jolts and fills the air with the dreamy scent of ozone.

More and more and more...

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/11/2005 1:38:32 PM

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quote:

There are many things my Lord does that others would find painful but I do not. Kicking is one them. Alandra and I both love a really heavy kicking scene but neither of us find it painful. So calling it sensation rather than pain is not really a way for me to not scare myself. It is just a word I can use to describe all aspects of SM play without having to say, this one hurts and this one doesn't. I am always reminded of a scene in a movie where the actor says, "Pain don't hurt" when I describe a sensation that many would think painful but for me it is not.

I love being kicked and also having his knee driven into parts of my body extremely hard. It is a different kind of pain but it releases a primal response in me, it is the hottest thing to me.

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/11/2005 1:39:42 PM

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What emotional and mental reactions do others have to play? What sensations are your favorites?

I rarely get to experience being in the position where I can receive the pain that I crave, but when I do, I love it. As a result of this, I do not have a very extensive list of likes or dislikes. I would like to change that, however.

My emotional and mental reactions always vary depending on the activity. Sometimes it makes me so angry I feel like I could explode and other times it makes me relaxed and I feel like I could just float away. And on the odd occasion I also end up smirking and smiling. ( That one stilll confuses him)

One of my favorite sensations is of hot wax. It just feels so nice with the anticipation as I watch it getting closer and closer to the edge of the glass and then watching it fall through the air and then finally the heat of it as it splashes on my skin.
I enjoy pain that is a little bit deeper, so just spanking isn't very satisfying for me. I like to feel it deep inside of me.
Biting was one of the first things that I ever experienced when I began to play with pain. He started out gently of course and I soon learned that I absolutely loved it and could take quite a lot. Especially on my shoulders. It's wonderful. There is nothing else that can get me off like a good chewing over my shoulders.

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/11/2005 3:29:15 PM

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You're most welcome. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do. I have to agree with you on the metal brushes. Hardware stores are wonderful places

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MsIncognito,

How could I have forgotten about abrasion play? What I love most about it is the wide variety of contrasts, from the soft and sensual to the things that can leave your skin feeling very raw and sometimes just a bit bloody. My favorite toys for this is a pair of fish cleaning gloves that my Lord has and a BBQ brush.

Thanks for the idea with the baby powder; I will have to share it with my Lord.

kyra

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/11/2005 3:31:39 PM

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Thank you for bringing back a wonderful memory. Being bitten on the shoulders on that tender muscle just next to the neck is something that will almost instantly bring me to my knees. Lovely stuff that is.

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Biting was one of the first things that I ever experienced when I began to play with pain. He started out gently of course and I soon learned that I absolutely loved it and could take quite a lot. Especially on my shoulders. It's wonderful. There is nothing else that can get me off like a good chewing over my shoulders.

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RE: Sensation Slut - 12/11/2005 5:58:14 PM

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Before I walked into Knight of Mists dungeon I never would have classified myself as a masochist, adrenaline junkie yes but I never thought pain could take me to the places it has. I love floggers, I also like steele. At a play Party He ones used my fencing sword, an epee. It has a four foot blunt blade that stings as well as can draw blood when hit hard enough. Impact play,floggers,canes,hands,paddles,sword *g* take me to a very primal place. My head space gets very basic when the adrenaline flows. Flight or Fight syndrome takes over and I very rarely take flight. It is an emotional release to let loose pent up rage,frustration sometimes even sorrow. I swear, I hit back, kick, sometimes there are even tears involved.

Biting if done right can take me down quicker than a flogger, if done in the right place it can take your breath away. When it does come back I need all my air fro screaming. It is also incredibly erotic. I have a vampire fetish ( I know they are not real!) but to be bit, to have blood drawn on my flesh with a knife or anything else He can get His hands on (or teeth *ss*) makes me relax and let go.

Fire on the other hand, is one of the few things that will put me in Flight mode.

denika

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