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Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:22:16 PM   
mystickoolaid


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Status: offline 		I'm not sure if this is the correct place for this  thread or not... but anyhow... I was talking to a potential sub and he told me he was 'sunstrapped'. I had never heard of this before, so I asked what it was. This is the response I got:

that is where i was made to lay out in sun till i was sunburned...then my owner took a thin leather belt and whpped my back FULL FORCE over the sunburned back, about 100 lashes usually...it was for SEVERE punishments ...i hated it, but i admit it has humbled me more

What do you guys think? Reasonable punishment or abuse?
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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:24:30 PM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		I once told a sub to use sun screen, he didn't and got burned, so I applied deep heat to teach him...

Risking skin cancer is a bit too much in my opinion, but that's just me...

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:26:38 PM   
persephonee


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Status: offline 		yeah..i cropped a switchy friend of mine at the club one nite when i found that she had gone to Pride and hadnt used enough sunscreen...but i didnt hurt her...much.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:26:57 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		Is "fantasy" an option?

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:29:55 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

that is where i was made to lay out in sun till i was sunburned...then my owner took a thin leather belt and whpped my back FULL FORCE over the sunburned back, about 100 lashes usually...it was for SEVERE punishments ...i hated it, but i admit it has humbled me more

What do you guys think? Reasonable punishment or abuse?

I don't view it as punishment or abuse.  I do however see it as an idiotic way to try and prove my 'dominance' over someone; or even worse,  I see it as pure stupidity on a submissive's part as a way to 'be more humble'. But hey, that's just my thoughts on it, based on what you said here and the question that you asked.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:30:57 PM   
KatyLied


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quote:

Reasonable punishment or abuse?


I also vote for an answer not provided:  stupidity (especially on the sub's part)


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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:32:54 PM   
RainydayNE


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Status: offline 		stupid.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:33:24 PM   
mystickoolaid


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Status: offline 		OK more info: I asked why he didn't leave and he said both this domme (who belongs to CM) and her mother threatened to blackmail him.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:34:24 PM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid

OK more info: I asked why he didn't leave and he said both this domme (who belongs to CM) and her mother threatened to blackmail him.

Ahhh...ok...now things are much  clearer.

Fantasy was not one of the options that you had listed.


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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:34:48 PM   
persephonee


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Status: offline 		is this some sort of joke?

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:35:50 PM   
mystickoolaid


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quote:

ORIGINAL: persephonee

is this some sort of joke?


No, I am not lying. Or making this up. Do you think he is? 

< Message edited by mystickoolaid -- 11/21/2008 12:36:43 PM >

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:36:51 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		I don't think she meant you are lying, but perhaps the submissive is relaying a fantasy story.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:37:44 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

No, I am not lying.

If that's the case, and you actually believe what this 'submissive' is telling you....then I feel sorry for anyone who comes into contact with you.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:38:11 PM   
mystickoolaid


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I don't think she meant you are lying, but perhaps the submissive is relaying a fantasy story.


I edited the post when I realized what I had said didnt really fit.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:39:51 PM   
cinmin


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Status: offline 		Sounds like fantasy to me too...but just out of curiousity what did the Domme's mother have to do with it and what were they blackmailing him with?

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:41:32 PM   
mystickoolaid


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cinmin

Sounds like fantasy to me too...but just out of curiousity what did the Domme's mother have to do with it and what were they blackmailing him with?


Apparently the domme's mother jumped in to help punish him and also made him do things like lick her feet. I do know in this same state, there is a mother/daughter supremacist duo who has the son/brother enslaved in their house. Could be the same girls...?

Blackmailing with "outing" him to family, friends, co-workers about being a slave, pictures, etc.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:41:44 PM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		It sounds like a wheelbarrow load of bs to me, from the sunburn to the blackmail it all sounds like one guys fantasy spanning the generations.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:43:16 PM   
mystickoolaid


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quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65

It sounds like a wheelbarrow load of bs to me, from the sunburn to the blackmail it all sounds like one guys fantasy spanning the generations.


Ok... might be BS, but could be real. I'm going on the off chance it is, and wanted opinions on the punishment... not the story itself.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:44:50 PM   
lucyNEEDSaDaddy


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Status: offline 		i personally have experienced abuse at the hands of a "Master" who is on this site. He also threated to black mail me when i asked to leave. fear can make people do some crazy stuff...

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:44:54 PM   
mystickoolaid


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Status: offline 		I didn't even say I necessarily believed this particular story, although several other dommes have already admitted doing the same thing, only less harsh. I just wanted commentary on the act, not whether it was believable or not.

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