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DomM&SubK -> The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/29/2009 1:15:00 PM)
I was sent this after i kept asking questions at a dinner this weekend and i think it is really something we all should have handy The D/s Cheat Sheet The Rules: There aren't any. How to be a submissive: Submit How to be a dominant: Be a leader. How to Choose a Dominant or submissive: The same way you would choose anyone to share your life. Carefully. The difference between a submissive and a slave: Whatever you want it to be. You're going to believe what you want to anyway. (see The Rules) How to get your submissive to submit: If you have to ask, consider this is not for you or you've chosen the wrong person for you. Physical pain and D/s: No, you don't have to. No, it doesn't make you less submissive/dominant. Submission is a gift: Keep in mind we've all gotten crap gifts over the years. Gifts we've thrown away or exchanged. Like beauty, submission is in the eye of the beholder. The mindset that submissives should be cowed to 'or else', is absurd. "Do what I want or I won't submit"? Get over yourself.

crazyredhead1957 -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/29/2009 4:15:06 PM)
Wow. Aint it the truth.

Miyani -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/29/2009 4:58:11 PM)
Yes! Thank you! Bookmarked and copied for dissemination (with your permission, and appropriate credit).

IrishMist -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/29/2009 5:56:19 PM)
LMAO Now THAT is cute. [:D]

lovingpet -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/29/2009 6:47:41 PM)
Cute and way too necessary! Thanks for sharing! lovingpet

DomM&SubK -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/29/2009 6:57:21 PM)
No prob guys i honestly do not know where the person got it from but i knew it was helping me so i thought i would share.

MsDDom -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/29/2009 9:47:21 PM)
i like...lol! especially the first and last items...

peppermint -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/29/2009 10:08:22 PM)
Heck...if we went by the Cheat Sheet, 90% of the forums posts wouldn't exist.

corsetgirl -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/29/2009 10:56:16 PM)
[sm=yourock.gif] Very good points to consider for a dominant and submissive.

cpK69 -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/30/2009 1:34:27 AM)
Bummer; I like asking questions. Kim

littleone35 -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/30/2009 8:09:07 AM)
This was a good posting. No more FAQ's you covered a lot of them. Now if anyone askes me no tedious explations anymore just show them this. Matt's littleone

Mercnbeth -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/30/2009 8:59:42 AM)
quote: ...How to be a submissive: Submit. oh, come on, now...that is WAAAAY to simplistic. haven't you heard it's just plain crazy to submit-period-end of sentence? *and* totally irresponsible to suggest that there are sane folks who do just that. someone is sure to come along and make you rob a bank or chop off your own arm if you go about just plain submitting without boundaries and safewords and limits and earning it and it being inspired and such....sheesh.

Msnaughtykitten -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/30/2009 9:12:56 AM)
Thats not what i think it was ment to do i think it was more on a "Am I normal" Since that is waht i had asked when i was sent the D/S Cheat sheet. Ps this is K I am closing out the couples profile and just going to use this noe from now on since i am online a lot more than M is

IrishMist -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/30/2009 11:22:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth quote: ...How to be a submissive: Submit. oh, come on, now...that is WAAAAY to simplistic. haven't you heard it's just plain crazy to submit-period-end of sentence? *and* totally irresponsible to suggest that there are sane folks who do just that. someone is sure to come along and make you rob a bank or chop off your own arm if you go about just plain submitting without boundaries and safewords and limits and earning it and it being inspired and such....sheesh. Dayumit Miss Beth....warn us next time please...I spit water everywhere. [8D]

lovingpet -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (3/30/2009 5:01:33 PM)
It's only crazy cuz us simpleminded subbies will just drop to our knees at the word of a complete stranger with no regard for our own safety so we have to have some standards in place! Sheesh, beth! You want me to actually take responsibility for my life???? That's the mostest insanest thing I've heard all day long!!!!!! twue subbie lovingpet

MirrorrirroM -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (4/2/2009 2:32:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DomM&SubK I was sent this after i kept asking questions at a dinner this weekend and i think it is really something we all should have handy The D/s Cheat Sheet The Rules: There aren't any. How to be a submissive: Submit How to be a dominant: Be a leader. How to Choose a Dominant or submissive: The same way you would choose anyone to share your life. Carefully. The difference between a submissive and a slave: Whatever you want it to be. You're going to believe what you want to anyway. (see The Rules) How to get your submissive to submit: If you have to ask, consider this is not for you or you've chosen the wrong person for you. Physical pain and D/s: No, you don't have to. No, it doesn't make you less submissive/dominant. Submission is a gift: Keep in mind we've all gotten crap gifts over the years. Gifts we've thrown away or exchanged. Like beauty, submission is in the eye of the beholder. The mindset that submissives should be cowed to 'or else', is absurd. "Do what I want or I won't submit"? Get over yourself. LOL! Thanks for sharing this :)

Mikalsheart -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (4/2/2009 5:48:57 PM)
LOL........this is great.....i think it should be given to everyone who boldly states i am a new submissive and i will do anything for a Master.....on their profile.......

puppypauer -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (4/9/2009 5:42:32 AM)
Thanks for sharing this, something I will save and show to Sir later on today.

SimplyMichael -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (4/9/2009 7:10:12 AM)
I had listened to that cheat sheet when I first started doing this, I would have quite because I couldn't...at first.

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: The D/s Cheat Sheet (7/11/2009 3:46:05 PM)
And don't forget the idea that some have that submissives that submit for the pure joy of it and need to submit to someone are some how weaker than those who're not naturally submissive, and want submission because it inspired them. quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth quote: ...How to be a submissive: Submit. oh, come on, now...that is WAAAAY to simplistic. haven't you heard it's just plain crazy to submit-period-end of sentence? *and* totally irresponsible to suggest that there are sane folks who do just that. someone is sure to come along and make you rob a bank or chop off your own arm if you go about just plain submitting without boundaries and safewords and limits and earning it and it being inspired and such....sheesh.

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