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MissLeslie -> How Can I Create A New Chatroom For Dominant Women Here At Collar Me? (9/23/2009 7:06:04 PM)
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Hi there! I am a 48 year old lifestyle Domme who has had a couple of exceptionally bad experiences with crossdressers over the course of the past two weeks, and it has risen to the level where I want to do something about it. I am absolutely sick with all of the people that have recently started coming to Collar Me, who feel that they must deceive others, in the manner and form that they represent themselves. The vast majority of these newbies that are rankling My nerves are not transgendered persons, but old-fashioned male transvestites, or crossdressers. In many years past, most of the crossdressers that I came across were absolutely up front about the fact that not only were they men, and proud of that fact, but that they enjoyed wearing women's apparel; for their pleasure and the pleasure of others. In 2009, at Collar Me, it appears to Me that this is no longer the case.
A little bit about Me before I continue: Although I am technically a genetic female, I did suffer with birth defects that come from a birth circumstance that happens once in every 400-450 million births. For most people, it is simply easier to describe Myself to them as a genetic transsexual. With 100% female RNA, and a cellular chemistry requirement of any other normal female, I do totally self identify female, have a committed marriage with a male, and conduct My life completely as an other woman normally would.
In the past, I have had friendships with, and known, crossdressers who either lived in My area, or that I worked with. Not all of them were out of the closet, but all that I knew were honest about themselves and their lives with Me. The days of honesty, it appears, for most male transvestites, as a group, here on Collar Me, appears to be all but gone now. I have seen at least 20 profiles THIS WEEK here at Collar Me where the person represented themselves to be a female, when they were not female at all; all were crossdressing males. A female is a genetic female; not someone who pretends to be one. And my frustration with this situation came to a head today when I was banned from a chat room here at Collar Me for stating that it had become rather frightening to Me that so many crossdressers had no problem being dishonest with everyone that they interacted with; not just here at Collar Me, but in their own lives as well. I went on to state that even the premise that a male crossdresser lives with is that they are men who try to make others believe that they are women. I stated that this was deceptive behavior, and was summarily and immediately kicked out of the chat room, then banned from it when I attempted to re-enter the room so that I could clarify My comment. I never got the chance to say that although the behavior is inherently deceptive, crossdressers could not be, as a group, said to be totally dishonest with others in their everyday lives. After this happened, I tried to find out what the rules were concerning the actions that room operators could take, and the reasons that they could take them, and the response I received from customer service was that the people who setup the chat rooms at Collar Me have total control over who gets to come in, who gets to stay, and who gets banned. This particular chat room, called "subs for Dommes" is routinely populated with about a 50% ratio of cross dressing males to all others; so it makes sense that the person in charge, who is also a crossdresser, would ban Me. But the room's title is "subs for Dommes", not "TV subs for TV Dommes", So, I would like to offer an alternative chat room for Dommes (female Dominants) at Collar Me where male transvestites are not welcome. I am also tired of the nasty attitude and rudeness of the majority of these crossdressers here at Collar Me, and I want to give the legitimate NON-TRANSVESTITE FEMALE DOMINANTS a place where they can come and chat, without the nonsense that I saw happening in that particular chatroom.
In short, I want to create a new chatroom here at Collar Me, specifically to do what I have outlined above. How can I do this? Your response telling Me how to achieve this would be GREATLY APPRECIATED!
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