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Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/7/2006 11:33:06 PM   
slavebeth22


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Hi. I am looking for examples of slave contracts. The few I have found on line were pretty poor. Does anyone have examples of good ones?
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Elizabeth
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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 2:14:04 AM   
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quote:

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Hi. I am looking for examples of slave contracts. The few I have found on line were pretty poor. Does anyone have examples of good ones?
Thanks
Elizabeth


We have a very detailed one. If you would like, I will email it to you privately.

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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 2:55:03 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavebeth22

Hi. I am looking for examples of slave contracts. The few I have found on line were pretty poor. Does anyone have examples of good ones?
Thanks
Elizabeth



This one looks fairly complete but not knowing just what Y/you're looking for, it may not be suitable.....



100% SUBMISSION CONTRACT BETWEEN

_____________________ AND _____________________


_____________, hereinafter referred to as "Owner", hereby binds this contract with [his/her] signature and the signature of _____________, hereinafter referred to as "slave" in this Submission Contract. Said Contract refers to total dominance and control of Owner in [his/her] relationship with said slave.


Purpose

The purpose of the servant contract is very important to instill the security of Ownership and all that such servitude implies. The contract is a measure of control. This contract is written to make clear the expectations of Owner and the consequences for failure to live up to this agreement. The contract is a reminder of the many duties and responsibilities of a live-in slave.

Symbols of Ownership include _______________ upon signing this Contract, and any other future marks or tokens Owner may wish to bestow. Symbols of Ownership are visible reminders of status and should be worn with pride. They signify control and the lifestyle chosen by slave.


Duties of Servitude


Above all, it is the duty of the servant to please.

Personal Duties: Physical/emotional needs of Owner, amusement, sexual toy/plaything, physical comfort, obedience, honesty, loyalty, waiting on Owner as desired and needed.

Household Duties: Cleaning and keeping the home straightened, laundry, shopping, cooking, care for children when requested, run errands as needed. Any task assigned is considered permanent.


Daily Routine
The established daily routine includes:

Arise 7-8am

Morning coffee and breakfast

Work

Serving as Owner needs

Household duties as needed

Dinner duties

Recreation with permission from Owner

11pm Bed-time


Recreation

If slave wishes to enjoy the use of the computer [he/she] will ask for a specific time [he/she] wishes to do so. Permission will be by grant of Owner and slave will stop using the computer within 10 minutes after that time set by Owner unless an extension is asked for and granted. If Owner is not at home or unavailable, slave may be permitted to engage in this or other recreation activities. Any chores, commands or cleaning that need to be done will take preference over recreation activity except in the case of a need for break.


Expenditures

All requests for major expenditures will be submitted to Owner for approval. Any expenditure over $10.00 will be completely subject to the approval of Owner prior to purchase unless said item may be returned for a full refund.


Allowance

Allowance will be set by Owner and distributed to slave as [he/she] sees fit.


Exclusions

Slave will be allowed _____ hours per day [or ____ days per week] for time off, if requested in advance and if Owner agrees.

Owner will not injure, permanently scar or change either slave or [him/her]self, or anyone, or any part of any body.


Stipulation

Slave hereby acknowledges that Owner's authority supersedes [his/hers] in any decision including but not limited to travel plans, visitations, activities, chores, recreation, monetary expenses or expenditures, obligations, managements, diets, readings, processes, consumptions, priorities, communications or any otherwise alternative decision.

Owner will solely determine the residence, including city, county, state and/or country of residence for said slave.


Behavior

Attitude: The servant should show an attitude of respect at all times. Disrespect is a serious offense and will be punished severely.

Respect includes: manner of speech, promptness, kneeling to serve, proper answers, obedience, loyalty and honesty.

Respect and obedience are the two most important aspects of attitude the servant shall show at all times. Failure will be punished.


Friends and Relatives

All friends and relatives of Owner will be treated with the utmost respect. No anger, argument, condescension, criticism, insult or lack of courtesy will be tolerated. Owner will voice [his/her] compliment, respect and love for same at all times.

Slave hereby agrees to refrain from any insult or criticism of any of Owner's friends or relatives, their culture, attributes, background, class, heritage, or nationality, or any conceived notion detrimental to their status.

Owner may provide lodging for any friend, relative or partner [he/she] wishes. Permission is required from Owner if slave has the desire to provide lodging for any friend, relative or partner. Any disobedience from this rule will be the cause of serious punishment


Behavior in Private

Slave shall address Owner as _____________ at all times without fail. Slave shall pay full attention to Owner when spoken to.

Owner is more important than any other activity the slave may be engaged in. The slave shall sit, stand, walk, kneel, and lay where, when and how Owner desires.

Slave shall stay in bed at night unless permission is granted to do otherwise. The slave shall not remove any restraint device for any other reason than an emergency.


Behavior in Public

The slave shall address Owner as [Sir/Ma'am] at all times when there is not enough privacy to use the afore-mentioned title __________. The slave shall remain within eyesight of Owner unless permission is given to do otherwise. The slave shall be courteous and prompt at all times, showing Owner full respect.

The slave shall dress as Owner desires.

The slave shall not argue or complain when in public with Owner.


Training

Training activities include: daily discipline, offering bed cuffs, proper answers, spending the night in bondage.

Slave will be given a weekly training scheduled for Friday night. Slave shall keep [his/her] Friday evenings free so as to have plenty of time for discipline training.

Discipline includes: bondage and restraint, leash training, implements of discipline, training, body and foot worship.

Punishment will be given for the following offenses:

Going anywhere without permission and/or threatening to do so

Cockiness or rudeness

Drinking without permission

Disobedience

The slave shall perform the confession ritual once a month and be punished accordingly. Failure will be punished.

Explicit Permission: Slave will continually be trained and tested in explicit permission technique.

Special training activities include: Owner's complete control in [his/her] use of humiliation, surprise discipline, cage/bondage time, gags, hoods, etc., cleaning, servant feeding, retraining.

Progress Reports: Owner will prepare progress reports on the training of the slave as [he/she] desires.


Orgasm Control

Slave is to achieve orgasm ONLY by permission of Owner.

Slave's orgasms will be controlled for proper training of slave, teaching slave good habits, providing motivation, physical and sexual energy. Owner will allow slave reward upon permission.


Punishments

Mild Punishments can include: slapping, ear or nipple pinching, cropping, hair pulling, going to bed early, time-outs

Medium Punishments can include: multiple slapping, genital pinching, intense bondage time, clamps and weights.

Severe Punishments can include: panty or ball gags, leg chains and/or handcuffs, caning.


Drinking and Drugs

Slave is allowed to drink alcohol or use ______ drugs only with explicit permission from Owner, when and where and how much [he/she] permits.

Drinking [will/will not] be permitted when going out to eat, [limited to 1 or 2 drinks with permission]. Slave may attend bars, etc., only with Owner, or with [his/her] permission to go with anyone else. Slave must ask permission for each and every drink.


Social Contact

Slave is allowed to write, visit and talk to any family member as long as it does not interfere with [his/her] servitude.

Slave is allowed to write, visit and talk to friends as long as it does not interfere with [his/her] servitude. All such contact will be monitored by Owner.

These are privileges, not rights, and should be appreciated.


Duration

This Contract is valid from this day until 6 months has passed, and then it may be renewed or renegotiated if Owner and/or slave feel it needs to be reviewed and updated. At that time, the servant will receive a new contract.



Accepted, understood and agreed to
this _____ day of ______________, 20__:

By:

__________________________, Owner

__________________________, slave


edited to remove signature.....

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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 5:30:21 AM   
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This has a good resource for different contracts. You'll probably find different aspects of different ones of interest that you can combine to form the one that suits your relationship the best. Good Luck, Master Buckeye

http://www.milism.net/contract.htm

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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 5:31:10 AM   
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forgive me for beeing open
but i think that slavecontracts r pretty stupid
they have no mean legaly, and most often just serve the *selfmade* dominant to point on a paper and force u to shut up.
if u want a contract that binds u than create one.
put in the things that u and ur dominant find important
dont forget the liabiltiy and responsibility from the dominants part.

u should be clear about the fact that its just a symbol - a symbol between the two of u.
and it should grant the submissive also safty from emotional, financial and physical harm.

i think very low of ppl that take a premade contract out of the internet and make their sub beelieve that they have to sign it in order to bee called *real* slaves.

bdsm is a roleplay before all. u pick a suitable role and act upon it (live upon it).
if u really want a contract , than u and ur partner should sit down and make the contract urselfe, so it will fit all needs and ideas u two have about the kind of ur relation. make sure the contract does not only state the duties of a sub, but also his/her rights and reminds th dominant of his/her responsibility
Bee

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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 5:41:19 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BeeQueen

forgive me for beeing open
but i think that slavecontracts r pretty stupid
they have no mean legaly, and most often just serve the *selfmade* dominant to point on a paper and force u to shut up.
if u want a contract that binds u than create one.
put in the things that u and ur dominant find important
dont forget the liabiltiy and responsibility from the dominants part.

u should be clear about the fact that its just a symbol - a symbol between the two of u.
and it should grant the submissive also safty from emotional, financial and physical harm.

i think very low of ppl that take a premade contract out of the internet and make their sub beelieve that they have to sign it in order to bee called *real* slaves.

bdsm is a roleplay before all. u pick a suitable role and act upon it (live upon it).
if u really want a contract , than u and ur partner should sit down and make the contract urselfe, so it will fit all needs and ideas u two have about the kind of ur relation. make sure the contract does not only state the duties of a sub, but also his/her rights and reminds th dominant of his/her responsibility
Bee


In a sense this is true but a contract is like ritual, it instills a sense of being, symbolizes a purpose & for some this is a statement of purpose, so to speak.

Its also sexy and clearly defines intentions without misunderstanding.




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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 8:02:16 AM   
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I would like to be owned by you and give you access to all that I am and have for your use and will work my hardest to live to your expectations and my commitments. You rock my world.

Simple, short, vague.

If you really want a contract, think a bout the real day to day stuff issues. Also, do a search here, there's lots of threads on contracts and petitions.


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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 9:34:47 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BeeQueen
forgive me for beeing open
but i think that slavecontracts r pretty stupid
they have no mean legaly...



While generally this is true, it is important to note that a contract does have some relevancy outside of symbolism. While a slave contract will not be viewed as a contract with legal binding, it does manage to show the state of mind of both parties prior to signing, and helps to illustrate just what form of relationship the couple in question were in. Reliable witnesses and videotaped signings help back up the document as well.

Regarding pre-made templates on-line; I don't think it's too far a stretch to imply that any template provided is merely an example—a starting body which will be customized according to the requirements of the users.



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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 9:40:00 AM   
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Here's a good slave contract:

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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 9:53:16 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BeeQueen

forgive me for beeing open
but i think that slavecontracts r pretty stupid


I recommend they to those who are interested as a chance to deeply examine their needs and desires and how they wish to interact with their partner. The contract format makes them think about this in concrete terms rather than just "I want to serve"/"I want to be served" and can expose discrepancies that might take some time to appear and might well appear at an emotional vunerable time.

Of course, once they are written you can throw them away since they've served their purpose

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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 10:03:37 AM   
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Amayos!!!!!!! FGS!!! I thought this thread was going to be about Western Corporate relations with Chinese production foundraries. Given that its more personal, salacious, and voluntary than all that, C'mon MAN ----- PONY UP.

Show us the ole Amayos, no-free-will-here, crush-em-into-stone/work-em-to-the-bone, spank-em-into-oblivion, no-shit, , I-control-the-finances & pubic-hair shaving special, slave-signs-HERE contract of all contracts.

Hell, I'm sure your model's gotta be shorter than thirty four (34) pages! Am I right? Don't fret over which forum --- BDSM General, Polyamory, Ask a Master.... to give us a look --- just send it out to us, the starving, neglected, bored, porrage eating, rarely-to-be-trusted, lying-in-our-profiles, desparate readership.


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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 10:12:17 AM   
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I like what thetammyjo said:

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Ownership contracts are more personal for me and tend to get shorter over time through experience.


http://www.collarchat.com/m_212413/mpage_1/key_contract/tm.htm#212663

The better you know and understand someone, the more solid your relationship is, then the less need there is for any form of written agreement.

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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 10:30:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: cloudboy


Amayos!!!!!!! FGS!!! I thought this thread was going to be about Western Corporate relations with Chinese production foundraries. Given that its more personal, salacious, and voluntary than all that, C'mon MAN ----- PONY UP.

Show us the ole Amayos, no-free-will-here, crush-em-into-stone/work-em-to-the-bone, spank-em-into-oblivion, no-shit, , I-control-the-finances & pubic-hair shaving special, slave-signs-HERE contract of all contracts.

Hell, I'm sure your model's gotta be shorter than thirty four (34) pages! Am I right? Don't fret over which forum --- BDSM General, Polyamory, Ask a Master.... to give us a look --- just send it out to us, the starving, neglected, bored, porrage eating, rarely-to-be-trusted, lyning-in-our-profiles, desparate readership.



Sorry, cloudboy, if I showed you, I'd have to kill you.

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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 10:38:56 AM   
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Sorry, cloudboy, if I showed you, I'd have to kill you.


You could try, but I have a one paddle while you're still in handcuffs!!

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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 10:41:06 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: cloudboy


quote:

ORIGINAL: amayos

Sorry, cloudboy, if I showed you, I'd have to kill you.


You could try, but I have a one paddle while you're still in handcuffs!!


...crap.

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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 10:53:55 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BeeQueen

forgive me for beeing open
but i think that slavecontracts r pretty stupid
they have no mean legaly, and most often just serve the *selfmade* dominant to point on a paper and force u to shut up.
if u want a contract that binds u than create one.
put in the things that u and ur dominant find important
dont forget the liabiltiy and responsibility from the dominants part.

u should be clear about the fact that its just a symbol - a symbol between the two of u.
and it should grant the submissive also safty from emotional, financial and physical harm.

i think very low of ppl that take a premade contract out of the internet and make their sub beelieve that they have to sign it in order to bee called *real* slaves.

bdsm is a roleplay before all. u pick a suitable role and act upon it (live upon it).
if u really want a contract , than u and ur partner should sit down and make the contract urselfe, so it will fit all needs and ideas u two have about the kind of ur relation. make sure the contract does not only state the duties of a sub, but also his/her rights and reminds th dominant of his/her responsibility
Bee


I can understand your point of view.

I've used contracts as a way to negotiate and clarify the type of relationship. Its also been a good guide for me to return to time and again as I check over progress and limits for people I've trained.

That being said, as the years have gone on, Fox and mine contract has gotten shorter and shorter because 24/7 just is and he's willing to trust me that much. I'm not sure its a good idea frankly cause now I could say almost anything and he'd have no recourse but to walk away. Of course, I'm not that evil....

Right?


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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 10:57:26 AM   
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Hmm, browsing the internet for something that should come from your own mind...
My Mistress laid out a set of rules wich I have yet to write down,, you could call it a contract, or not.

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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 11:21:19 AM   
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You could try, but I have a one paddle while you're still in handcuffs!!


Pssst.. hey, you. In case ya didn't notice, Amayos' handcuffs are unlocked. He's holding 4 of them. He could snap those cuffs on you so fast it'll make your head spin, take that paddle away from you and then NOT use it on you.. so mind yer P's and Q's there.

Perspective.. gotta love it. ::chuckles::

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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 11:28:37 AM   
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The better you know and understand someone, the more solid your relationship is, then the less need there is for any form of written agreement


cloud,
Very true. But usually contracts are generated at the start of a relationship. We have one. It was a combination of some on-line, some original content; all of it was and is meaningful. I required it. My reason was so there could be no misunderstanding of what was expected in the relationship we were contemplating. That would be my main reason for recommending a "contract" to a couple considering a 24/7 M/s relationship.

It's a given that it isn't legally enforceable. It's a given that should some tragedy occur and beth got seriously injured or died during "play" that I couldn't use our contract as a "get out of jail free" card. Our contract wasn't meant to serve any of those purposes. It was meant to, in detail, define our relationship.

When discussing the pluses or minus of contracts I pose this question to those collared without one; what are the responsibilities that went with your collar? That applies to the dominant side too; what responsibilities did you take on when offering your collar? Asked together and it's something esoteric; "I've pledged myself to my Lord", "I own every part of my slave." Pledged what? Owned exactly what? Asked separate and often the answers are completely different.

A contract helps define the relationship. It's a reminder to what was important, what was considered, what was fantasied, when the passion and newness of the initial encounter evolves into something deeper. Practicality calls for amendment. Always crawling in a 500 square foot apartment works - crawling in 5500 square foot house doesn't. But she still wears cuffs on ankles and wrists to bed and as often as possible in public, and has for three years. We are one our third set. her neck has worn many different types, but she has never been without a "collar" for all that time, with the exception to the chest x-ray during her annual physical.

Marriages fail because so often the role definitions believed prior to the wedding day are different for the bride and groom. M/s relationships have a great way to avoid that pitfall, a contract. The mere exercise of creating one together may determine that you make better playmates than Master/slave. Better for both parties, I'd say. That is how I determined the depth of lifestyle relationships I had prior to beth. My personal goal was to have a slave, as I defined it, 24/7 living with me under a contract. If it's represented and there is confidence that it will be enforced, there is not doubt that signing it is a serious personal commitment. In the past, it separated those that wanted a play partner versus a Master. beth was the only one who, like me, wanted more.

Obviously a contract isn't a requirement. It's not a panacea to a happy long term relationship. It's simply a tool. A nice reminder of how important you are to each other, along with defining behavior rules - at least that is what ours is. I find having a contract easier. Seeing the framed signed version by our bed or where it is now in the dungeon; is comforting and assuring to both of us.

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RE: Slave contracts. Good examples needed. - 3/8/2006 12:01:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

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You could try, but I have a one paddle while you're still in handcuffs!!


Pssst.. hey, you. In case ya didn't notice, Amayos' handcuffs are unlocked. He's holding 4 of them. He could snap those cuffs on you so fast it'll make your head spin, take that paddle away from you and then NOT use it on you..
Celeste


That is just TOO CRUEL...

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