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SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Chastity - Dommes choice? (3/2/2011 12:47:41 PM)

Thank you for the heads up.   I hope I've been helpful in my responses to him.    M




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Chastity - Dommes choice? (3/2/2011 1:56:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: dougie159

From a Mistresses point of view, which device would you choose as the most effective, restrictive and escape proof.
dougie


I agree with those who have said obedience.  For me, it's a matter of control, which is my primary kink.  I also enjoy mental bondage.  So if I say "don't do this," then my sub's obedience pushes those two buttons.  Plus, knowing that he could touch, yet isn't allowed, sets up some torment for him and appeals to my sadistic side.  The more fun I'm having, the more inclined I am to make it fun for him.




AAkasha -> RE: Chastity - Dommes choice? (3/2/2011 2:49:48 PM)


As the responses show, femdoms who desire control above all else are perfectly fine with obedience and honor system if they want to engage in chastity, just as they maybe would get a rush from making a man hold still rather than putting him into restraints....

I am into bondage, I love gear. I love the look, feel and sound of restraints. I would feel absolutely cheated at the prospect of making a man endure bondage without the actual use of bondage gear, and get no rush from "making" a guy hold still with his own willpower. Or telling him "don't say anything" instead of using a gag or my hand over his mouth. The gear is part of the fetish for me.

That said, any femdom who is nuts for gear is nuts for her kind of gear; I don't think you will find any kind of consensus on what type of chastity device is most widely appreciated by femdoms, just as you won't get a consensus on which kind of bondage women like -- rope, leather, chains, latex. It really depends on the woman.

Akasha




enani17236 -> RE: Chastity - Dommes choice? (3/2/2011 9:33:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

I would feel absolutely cheated at the prospect of making a man endure bondage without the actual use of bondage gear, and get no rush from "making" a guy hold still with his own willpower. Or telling him "don't say anything" instead of using a gag or my hand over his mouth. The gear is part of the fetish for me.


I can relate to this very much - from the other side.

The last thing I need when having a good time serving my Mistress is to have to use MY BRAIN to control myself. It simply blocks my emotinal experience and makes me feel stupid, at best. And I know - I will resist it, and feel bad about that too. To much emotional conflict for me to handle. If there is something She does not want me to do, then I will be very helpful accomplising whatever needs to be done to make it IMPOSSIBLE for me to do it.

POWER EXCHANGE to me does not mean that I offer to use MY powers to control me, for Her. It means that I give HER the powers to DO it ad leave me with no choices - and hopefully effectively. It certainly involves more than words on Her part...

If I have choices, I have power. And that defeats the whole thing, in my opinion. It turns it all into a GAME I can choose to take part in or not. That gives ME the power - and I don't want it.




mistressko -> RE: Chastity - Dommes choice? (3/3/2011 11:18:15 AM)

What's wrong with duct tape?

-K




enani17236 -> RE: Chastity - Dommes choice? (3/3/2011 4:43:01 PM)

Nothing - a far as I am concerned. Provided I can't use my hands to get it off...

In fact, being totally mummified in duct tape serves as an effective chastity guard!

One ting, though: directly on the skin, the glue can cause some nasty inflammation, and if the area where it is applied isn't shaved, then you are in for a very painful experience getting it off...




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