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pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 9:46:15 AM   
DavidLee44UK


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for awhile only ever heard terms online

and why r they only women

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 9:50:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		I know a couple of pro-subs who have been doing it 2 or 3 years here in the North. One is male, the other female. But from what they tell me, females are more in demand for some reason.

Pro-Dommes are pretty much universal all over the UK. Very few pro-Doms though - we submissive/masochist/bottom ladies tend to find it pretty easy to get casual play for free if we want it. It seems like guys find it a bit trickier - hence the demand for pro-Dommes.



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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 9:55:37 AM   
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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 10:14:24 AM   
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sounds a new name for the oldest profession to me (just my opinion no offence meant)

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 10:24:32 AM   
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Pro-Dommes are pretty much universal all over the UK. Very few pro-Doms though - we submissive/masochist/bottom ladies tend to find it pretty easy to get casual play for free if we want it. It seems like guys find it a bit trickier - hence the demand for pro-Dommes.


What she said...I am on another homepage as a pro sub (though also do vanilla meetings) but was more active in 2005-2007 than I am these days...personally I couldn't care less about nsa, just not interested...if I would have been "that" desperate I would meet my ex over here and not indulge on an nsa level with a stranger...now as a pro sub at least both get something out of it, the Dom who wants a service as well as me who is at times a bit short on cash...cause quite frankly on a nsa level with a stranger I would not really get anything out of it than just a sour taste...

In regards to lack of men...yep, there are more men looking for services than women, heard that one often and on a personal level I don't see a reason why I should book a man for that reason...seeing how easily men from cm try to convince you to "test drive" you, there would never be a need to pay



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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 10:36:55 AM   
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the whole dynamic intrests me and confuses me at same time

do pro subs and dommes get out of it the same thing , i can see the domme side of it controlling but isnt the pro sub controlling the situation

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 11:00:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		what they seem to get out of it is money. It's a business.

None of the pro-subs I know have sex or any kind of 'fluid exchange', even of the 'safer' variety - they are there to follow orders and (in their cases) do pain play. But it's all negotiated in advance, and in reality the sub is in charge.

Ditto with the pro-Dommes, I guess, although on the other side of the kneel.



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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 11:07:06 AM   
DavidLee44UK


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and dommes maybe in charge but really arent they doing it for attention and self indulgence

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 11:12:43 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		for these sessions they're 'bottoms' and 'tops'.

Both pro-subs I know are actually sub to their partners, but they bottom for clients.

Same deal for the pro-Dommes - all in relationships as a Domme, but they top their clients.

While there may be some element of enjoyment involved, mostly it's just plain old hard work, rewarded with money. Pretty much the same as any other job.

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 11:21:36 AM   
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then really are they subs

and dommes maybe in charge but really arent they doing it for attention and self indulgence


If you are good enough to earn money with a hobby you enjoy, wouldn't you do it? I don't know what you do for work, but I can tell you I love mine, and getting paid for doing what I like doing is just the icing on the cake. I don't have to accept clients, but if I do they are clear that they will submit to me. What's wrong with that?

Do you work? If so you are submitting to a boss, does that make you a lifestyle submissive?

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 11:21:38 AM   
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each to their own but for some reason when i see pro it kinda makes me think the logic is screwy

interesting convo

thanks

i guess ladys of the night were most ladys

so things havent changed at all in hundreds of years

germaine greer prob burning here bra in digust lol

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 11:25:48 AM   
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germaine greer prob burning here bra in digust lol


Unlikely, as Germaine Greer is a great proponent of the sex industry.




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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 11:33:05 AM   
DavidLee44UK


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and if you chose to have no clients in a week

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 11:49:05 AM   
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is this a new thing been active london scene
for awhile only ever heard terms online

and why r they only women

You've been active on the London scene for a while? Bullshit.

If you were active on the London scene there's no way you could possibly not have come across Sir Stephen. Nobody (and I mean nobody, he's a 6ft something noisy redhead who talks to, like, everyone) could miss the guy or not be aware that he's a pro.

I flat out don't believe you. There are plenty of (pretty vocal) professionals on the London scene. Either you're really bad at observing things, or you're a liar.

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 11:55:56 AM   
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Either you're really bad at observing things, or you're a liar.

He has said things on other threads that cannot possibly be true.  He is probably used to being able to say anything on the internetttttt.


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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 12:01:00 PM   
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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 12:02:10 PM   
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He is probably used to being able to say anything on the internetttttt.

Well not when he's chatting shit about my endzzzzzzzzz!

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 12:04:00 PM   
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... and don't you think Angelica's icon is frikkin hot?


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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 12:05:42 PM   
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Oh, do please tell me more about your endzzzz.

Do not make innuendo from my innocent and beautiful city.

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... and don't you think Angelica's icon is frikkin hot?

Those ashtray gag things freak me out. I have to pretend it's not there, but otherwise? Smokin'.

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/18/2011 12:07:19 PM   
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lol here it goes again attention whores

How does questioning your blatantly false attempt to establish credibility count as attention whoring?

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