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My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:04:23 PM

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I am a new slave to a Mistress that does not allow me to masturbate or release myself in anyway. Mistress believes my penis is her penis and the sperm inside is her's as well. I do not have a problem with that but I do feel I have a physical need to release myself occasionally.
I also realize that I may not have sex with my Mistress as I am not worthy of that but why can she not allow me to release myself? I also have offered to kneel before her and masturbate while kissing her feet. It is the most humiliating act I can think of and I wonder why she does not see it that way. Please help me understand.

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:09:09 PM

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I can think of far more humiliating things for you than letting you masturbate and kiss her feet at the same time
if you dont like the rule, why are you still in the relationship,
You dont have to understand
you obviously need to obey
or not.
Release or not is non negotiable? then why ask others to explain what it means to YOUR dominant
Ask her...

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:13:13 PM

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Question the woman you are with as to how much she knows, and understands, about male chastity and prostate health. If she is well educated then she will understand why you question her. If she is not than she is not doing anything good for you and you should not stay. Speak to her and then do what is right for yourself.

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:15:05 PM

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Always they are expecting us to read the minds of people we don't know. Can we make "ASK YOUR DOMINANT" a sticky?

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:19:06 PM

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The funny thing is, Hibi, I bet I could answer his question...just the way he wants it answered. But I'm not going to do it it. If he really has a domme the answer is ask her. If he doesn't well then a sticky wouldn't help

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:20:13 PM

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Yes, I could too! But I'm not going to either. She either knows what she's doing to him health-wise, or she doesn't. The rest is just the awesome mindfuck that chastity can be.

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:34:54 PM

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Dear Miss ImmortalPain,
Thank you for your answer. You focused on the problem. Mistress is unaware of male chastity and health. I knew this but you reassured me in moving forward and questioning her knowledge or confronting I should say. I will ask her if we may discuss it again.

Thank you

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:38:56 PM

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Buddy, you and her get to figure out the rules of your relationship. I'm assuming you just dedicated yourself to her, without communicated together expectations, limits, and so forth. I'm also assuming you're paying her and going to a pro.
But I could be wrong of course.

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:40:42 PM

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Oh for the love of christ. Since you're paying her a thousand bucks a month, you should be able to cum all over her feet, face, plants, whatever the hell you want to.

"This slave knows he must TRIBUTE his Mistress."

"This slave kneeling will submit 1000 monthly $igns of his devotion to his Mistress at the beginning of each month. My desire is to please my Mistress."

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:41:41 PM

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Jesus palomino!! A grand a MONTH?

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:42:49 PM

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Where does it say that?? That is hilarious!!!!! $1000 a month not to cum. OMG, where do these people come from?

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:44:14 PM

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I'm in the wrong damn business.

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:45:40 PM

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Me too. Hey, OP, I will tell you not to masturbate or release yourself in any way for only $750 per month. What a deal!

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:45:59 PM

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Damnit, Forni, you gave me a reason to look at his profile. Now I want to know if he is seeing a pro because his profile says he is looking for someone. If he is looking for someone why is he asking about why he can't do something now. Op, either update your profile(if you are in a realationship) or make it clear that you are asking questions about a realationship that is not real.

ETA- If this is a realationship with keyholder point that out too.

< Message edited by MissImmortalPain -- 1/26/2012 2:47:34 PM >

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:53:07 PM

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Nevermind.

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 2:58:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slave2tribute
I am a new slave to a Mistress that does not allow me to masturbate or release myself in anyway. Mistress believes my penis is her penis and the sperm inside is her's as well. I do not have a problem with that but I do feel I have a physical need to release myself occasionally.
I also realize that I may not have sex with my Mistress as I am not worthy of that but why can she not allow me to release myself? I also have offered to kneel before her and masturbate while kissing her feet. It is the most humiliating act I can think of and I wonder why she does not see it that way.

You posted this in Ask a Mistress, but I'm gonna give a response. Like yourself, I'm a male sub.

You said that your Mistress "believes my penis is her penis and the sperm inside is her's as well". Okay, that's nice that your Mistress believes it, but do you? Your message certainly makes it sound like you don't. It sounds like your focus is completely on your dick, and on your desire to cum.

I see male subs who have been placed in chastity whine like that all the time. They act as though they're undergoing waterboarding at Guantanamo Bay. But the problems is that they're too focused on their own penis, and that focus prevents them from ever actually submitting.

Your Mistress told you that you are not to masturbate. So what's the problem? Do what she says. The longer you resist, the longer she'll keep you in chastity.

BTW, MissImmortalPain is right that prostrate health can become an issue if kept in chastity for too long. But I think she was totally off-base in her reply. How long have you actually been in chastity. My guess is that it's probably been a few hours at most.

You can go a long time in chastity. I've been kept in chastity for months with no ill effects. When the time comes when you've been chaste for months (instead of days or hours), then your Mistress can use a technique called "milking" that will leave you in chastity, but keep your prostate nice and healthy.

So stop thinking about masturbation and release. The more you think about it, the worse it gets. Try to focus on her. Once you do that, I think you may find that she rewards you by giving you the release that you crave.

Side note: And for the record, if masturbating at your Mistress' feet is the most humiliating thing that you can think of, you must not have a very good imagination. Hell, many/most male subs would consider that to be a reward, not a punishment.

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 3:25:33 PM

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You do realize that communication is one of the most important factors in D/s, right? So ask her, and talk to her about it if it's bothering you that much. On a side note, if you want someone who cares about your well being, I'd drop the tribute stuff and look for someone who likes you for who you are and not your wallet.

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 3:56:50 PM

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Where does it say that?? That is hilarious!!!!! $1000 a month not to cum. OMG, where do these people come from?

He got a bargain. My ex wife's getting more than that to not have sex with me.

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 5:47:42 PM

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lmfao Steven!!

MIP~ You're welcome! ;)

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RE: My physical need for release - 1/26/2012 6:16:35 PM

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"This slave kneeling will submit 1000 monthly $igns of his devotion to his Mistress at the beginning of each month. My desire is to please my Mistress."

Jeez, for me, if he bought me a pair Louboutins, I'd let him have an orgasm.......

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