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ansger -> Mistresses using pressure points? (9/17/2012 9:52:49 AM)
I'd like to ask if there are any Mistresses here who use pressure points (like in martial arts) to punish, subdue or control their subs. There are a couple of workshops for BDSM people that teach pressure points. But as far as I see the huge majority of BDSM-practitioners who use that stuff are male. In my opinion pressure points are awesome. If someone can use them correctly they work like magic. And it is humiliating to be forced to the ground or receive pain if the dominating part can do this with very little effort using only her hands. So I´m curious if there are any women in this forum who practice pressure point techniques.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/17/2012 12:05:25 PM)
Still learning. But yes.

PeonForHer -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/17/2012 1:22:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Still learning. But yes. Oh really? Why would you need them, if you could "squash a man like a fly"?

RumpusParable -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/17/2012 1:32:50 PM)
They've never worked on me or Chael and I've never been interested in doing it to someone. I've seen them work great and be a fun tool by some female doms Ina couple workshops, though. There are definitely those out there into it.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/17/2012 2:59:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Still learning. But yes. Oh really? Why would you need them, if you could "squash a man like a fly"? I find it useful to have an array of skills at my disposal. It's not EVERYONE that rates being squashed, after all. [;)]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/17/2012 3:01:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ansger I'd like to ask if there are any Mistresses here who use pressure points (like in martial arts) to punish, subdue or control their subs. There are a couple of workshops for BDSM people that teach pressure points. But as far as I see the huge majority of BDSM-practitioners who use that stuff are male. In my opinion pressure points are awesome. If someone can use them correctly they work like magic. And it is humiliating to be forced to the ground or receive pain if the dominating part can do this with very little effort using only her hands. So I´m curious if there are any women in this forum who practice pressure point techniques. The people who were most brilliant at this, who of course have left my area, were massage therapists who were expert in fascial relase.

PeonForHer -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/17/2012 3:07:01 PM)
What's 'fascial release'?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/17/2012 3:10:41 PM)
The fascia is that thin tissue that covers the muscle, which can get bound up in itself. I cannot begin to describe the pain of that sort of bodywork. Normal massage has me ready to scream. But evidently it helps certain issues like MS. Linky: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myofascial_release

PeonForHer -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/17/2012 3:19:46 PM)
Fascinating - ta for the link!

Titaniya -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/17/2012 3:39:16 PM)
I don't have a submissive at the moment, but I do a wide variety of martial arts and would definitely use those skills on victims open to it. :D

Tantriqu -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/17/2012 4:41:06 PM)
Yes, and I have a couple of particular favourites that are in 'vanilla' spots. THERE == and THAT one: ooh, yes, awesome-o indeed! And yeppers, down on their knees in a blink of my eye, once in public :-)

ansger -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/18/2012 6:51:48 AM)
Thank you very much everybody for your kind answers. It's great that there are women who like to use these skills. quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I find it useful to have an array of skills at my disposal. It's not EVERYONE that rates being squashed, after all. [;)] That's exactly the point that captivates me. That a woman has the skill to do this. The knowledge that a female vis-a-vis (especially a domme) is able to bring me down to my knees with a few tricks is thrilling even if she does not use her skills at the very moment. quote: ORIGINAL: Titaniya I don't have a submissive at the moment, but I do a wide variety of martial arts and would definitely use those skills on victims open to it. :D That's great. What a pity that your residence is overseas. quote: ORIGINAL: Tantriqu Yes, and I have a couple of particular favourites that are in 'vanilla' spots. THERE == and THAT one: ooh, yes, awesome-o indeed! And yeppers, down on their knees in a blink of my eye, once in public :-) Awesome. May you tell us more about that experience in public. I guess it must have been very humiliating but also very exciting for your sub.

Tantriqu -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/18/2012 9:22:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ansger quote: ORIGINAL: Tantriqu Yes, and I have a couple of particular favourites that are in 'vanilla' spots. THERE == and THAT one: ooh, yes, awesome-o indeed! And yeppers, down on their knees in a blink of my eye, once in public :-) Awesome. May you tell us more about that experience in public. I guess it must have been very humiliating but also very exciting for your sub. No, I won't about that one, but I will about a vanilla one. A sub of mine was in a wedding party, and we were at a nice restaurant for the rehearsal dinner. One of the ushers, a 'friend' from school, was acting like a little prick, getting drunk and yelling completely dick-y things in front of the bride's parents, so I, sitting across the table from him, did THAT. Dropped him out of his seat and onto his knees. My subbie laughed so hard he almost choked, then helped him up. The jerkwater was nice and quiet after that.

CougarRick -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/19/2012 6:47:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Titaniya I do a wide variety of martial arts and would definitely use those skills on victims open to it. :D I don't doubt it. Women seem more equuipped for violence than men do. I am starting to wonder if the whole helpless female routine is just a ruse to let us guys harbour the illusion that we are the stronger sex.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/19/2012 7:53:03 AM)
I have always thought women were the more aggressive species. I tried to convince a dear friend of that, but he never believed me.

Titaniya -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/19/2012 3:19:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CougarRick quote: ORIGINAL: Titaniya I do a wide variety of martial arts and would definitely use those skills on victims open to it. :D I don't doubt it. Women seem more equuipped for violence than men do. I am starting to wonder if the whole helpless female routine is just a ruse to let us guys harbour the illusion that we are the stronger sex. During Hapkido today, I definitely played that role before breaking out of a hold and throwing my partner. ;) (He was expecting it, as that was the drill, so perhaps it's not a perfect example...)

BambiBoi -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/19/2012 8:22:40 PM)
Pressure points are magic. I don't like to hit very hard when I top. Since I borrow, not own, I try not to leave marks. Nothing makes me feel more masterful than basically doing a Vulcan neck pinch to drop a bottom to their knees, whimpering and squirming. BUT ITS DANGEROUS. Most (all?) pressure points are where an artery or vein can be pressed against something unyielding (bone) because there is little flesh to absorb the squeeze. If I have to explain the hazard, then you're not ready to use them in BDSM. Maybe self defense.

Tantriqu -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/19/2012 9:21:23 PM)
That's why I use nerve points, not blood vessels.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/19/2012 9:35:22 PM)
Yes, I am not a fan of carotid takedowns. :

ansger -> RE: Mistresses using pressure points? (9/20/2012 3:42:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tantriqu No, I won't about that one, but I will about a vanilla one. A sub of mine was in a wedding party, and we were at a nice restaurant for the rehearsal dinner. One of the ushers, a 'friend' from school, was acting like a little prick, getting drunk and yelling completely dick-y things in front of the bride's parents, so I, sitting across the table from him, did THAT. Dropped him out of his seat and onto his knees. My subbie laughed so hard he almost choked, then helped him up. The jerkwater was nice and quiet after that. That´s a funny story. I bet the jerk and also some onlookers had a lot of respect of you after that.

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