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Nothing better to do - 7/19/2013 11:14:25 PM   
TeeJayFlow


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Status: offline 		Got blocked by the malfunctioning spam filter that seems to be a popular problem here...

So here goes.

I consider myself significantly dominant. Never was into this kind of thing before but reading more into the scene I could definitely tell I wanted slaves as I trust my thoroughly thought decisions entirely. I've always wanted a mistress I could trust entirely and whom would also treat me to other women and vice versa. I'm entirely straight so my limits are tag teaming.

That pretty much sums up what I have to say about this topic haha
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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/19/2013 11:53:40 PM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		Welcome TeeJay!

If you've been caught up in the spam filter it's because you've sent a large volume of messages out in a short space of time and the recipients have reported it as spam.

To avoid triggering the filter again, it would be a good idea to ensure that the messages you send are tailored towards the recipient. For example, if I get a generic message such as 'I want a slave. You will kneel at my feet and..." or "hi how r u", then I'll click the 'report spam' button.

But if I get a message which is tailored towards me, for example "ah, another maths geek! I know what you mean about the beauty of numbers. Did you know that the seeds in the head of a sunflower follow the Fibonacci Series? That has always fascinated me".

That last was an actual message from a guy several years ago with whom I eventually had a short, but very sweet, relationship.

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 12:04:42 AM   
TeeJayFlow


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quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself

Welcome TeeJay!

If you've been caught up in the spam filter it's because you've sent a large volume of messages out in a short space of time and the recipients have reported it as spam.

To avoid triggering the filter again, it would be a good idea to ensure that the messages you send are tailored towards the recipient. For example, if I get a generic message such as 'I want a slave. You will kneel at my feet and..." or "hi how r u", then I'll click the 'report spam' button.

But if I get a message which is tailored towards me, for example "ah, another maths geek! I know what you mean about the beauty of numbers. Did you know that the seeds in the head of a sunflower follow the Fibonacci Series? That has always fascinated me".

That last was an actual message from a guy several years ago with whom I eventually had a short, but very sweet, relationship.


I appreciate the detailed response, do you know how long the filter is in effect for?

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 12:14:32 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		There are some threads in the Off Topic section that you can read more about the spam filter. You can find them by using the search feature.

How exactly is the filter malfunctioning?


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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 12:30:28 AM   
TeeJayFlow


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

There are some threads in the Off Topic section that you can read more about the spam filter. You can find them by using the search feature.

How exactly is the filter malfunctioning?



It's malfunctioning because it isn't spam...

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 12:34:15 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Have you read the site's spam policy?


ETA - Here's the section under the "Help" tab. It may explain things better.

quote:

Why am I temporarily blocked from sending messages by the spam filter?
Our spam filter monitors the onsite messages you send to other users and will be activated if it determines that you're sending out a large number of generic messages. To prevent the filter from activating we recommend that you take the time to read the profiles of the other users on the site and send a personalized message to those that interest you. This is also a great way to get good responses back.

< Message edited by LadyPact -- 7/20/2013 12:44:01 AM >

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 12:40:35 AM   
TeeJayFlow


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Have you read the site's spam policy?



I'm pretty sure spam guidelines are universal and anyone with common sense shouldn't have to read them... Am I missing out on something important?

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 12:41:47 AM   
myotherself


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I don't know how long the filter is in place for - I'd suggest doing what LadyPact suggested and doing a search for 'spam filter'.

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 12:45:42 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: TeeJayFlow
I'm pretty sure spam guidelines are universal and anyone with common sense shouldn't have to read them... Am I missing out on something important?

Please see the edit above. If you are sending generic, unwanted mail, the spam filter is actually doing exactly what it is supposed to do.



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Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 1:01:32 AM   
metamorfosis


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< Message edited by metamorfosis -- 7/20/2013 1:04:30 AM >

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 5:55:58 AM   
kalikshama


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TeeJayFlow

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Have you read the site's spam policy?



I'm pretty sure spam guidelines are universal and anyone with common sense shouldn't have to read them... Am I missing out on something important?


If you post a sample first email, I will be happy to advise you.

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 6:56:04 AM   
Rawni


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Status: offline 		I don't think it is only a numbers thing, though I am sure that is part of it when someone quickly puts out a lot of email. I've done enough in a day to hit a filter and expected I would, but I didn't because I was just talking to a number of people and they were responding maybe. I don't know.

When you open an email there are a lot of little buttons and some of us love clicking them. When we get emails that look like spam... or it seems you may have addressed that to anyone... just anyone and maybe lots and lots of people... we click. You click with enough women and... well... you get de filter.

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 7:36:59 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TeeJayFlow


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Have you read the site's spam policy?



I'm pretty sure spam guidelines are universal and anyone with common sense shouldn't have to read them... Am I missing out on something important?


Yeah. You are sending out a lot of messages that recipients are reporting as spam. It doesn't matter what universal guidelines say. Just quit sending out messages that are obviously not personalized.

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 7:55:32 AM   
TieMeInKnottss


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TeeJayFlow


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Have you read the site's spam policy?



I'm pretty sure spam guidelines are universal and anyone with common sense shouldn't have to read them... Am I missing out on something important?


Hey, my definition of SPAM may be your definition of pâté....Problem is if you "serve" 12 women that identical dish...it doesn't matter WHAT you call it...if they all think it is SPAM and report it as such..it is spam

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 8:24:12 AM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		Ya, since I say "local guys only" and if someone I don't know from the forums is states away and sends me a generic letter, I'm likely to report it as Spam. Or if I specify an age range and the writer is well outside it. Etc.

(I do always respond to well written letters, which is subjective, which is why I asked the OP to post a sample letter.)

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 9:56:02 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Hate to tell you, op, if you're looking for a mistress then you aren't dominant.
And no, women here don't have endless amounts of friends who are willing to fuck you.

If what you wrote above is what you're putting in your emails, then I'd report you as spam also.

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 11:43:43 AM   
TeeJayFlow


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Hate to tell you, op, if you're looking for a mistress then you aren't dominant.
And no, women here don't have endless amounts of friends who are willing to fuck you.

If what you wrote above is what you're putting in your emails, then I'd report you as spam also.


Hate to tell you, DesFIP, if I control the mistress then I AM dominant.

Also, fucking is one piece of the puzzle, try not to be so ignorant in your belittling of someone you don't know a thing about.

And to sate your blatantly indecisive curiosity, no, that isn't what I put in my emails.

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 11:48:23 AM   
TeeJayFlow


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Ya, since I say "local guys only" and if someone I don't know from the forums is states away and sends me a generic letter, I'm likely to report it as Spam. Or if I specify an age range and the writer is well outside it. Etc.

(I do always respond to well written letters, which is subjective, which is why I asked the OP to post a sample letter.)


I can't write a sample letter when it isn't directed towards a specific person, as it is quite a subjective thing don't you think?

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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 12:13:57 PM   
JstAnotherSub


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And welcome to the forums.



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RE: Nothing better to do - 7/20/2013 12:40:37 PM   
Rawni


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ORIGINAL: TeeJayFlow


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Hate to tell you, op, if you're looking for a mistress then you aren't dominant.
And no, women here don't have endless amounts of friends who are willing to fuck you.

If what you wrote above is what you're putting in your emails, then I'd report you as spam also.


Hate to tell you, DesFIP, if I control the mistress then I AM dominant.

Also, fucking is one piece of the puzzle, try not to be so ignorant in your belittling of someone you don't know a thing about.

And to sate your blatantly indecisive curiosity, no, that isn't what I put in my emails.



LOL You don't know many dominant women do ya? Just a heads up here. A dominant woman worth anything at all won't fall for that and you can assume I know what I'm talking about. So called dominant men think its a challenge to win over the dominant woman and often email stating that we could go see who comes out on top. Most of them secretly want to lose. We know that. I specifically address these men in my profile right from the start.

NO THANKS.

If you can't handle a submissive woman telling you... then I will. NO, we have no desire to supply you with women. Hell, I wouldn't even do you, much less offer you to a real friend. An enemy... maybe. lol

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