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new to the life - 9/7/2006 9:29:36 AM   
tastejuslikcandi


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Status: offline 		hello i am new i would like to know some sites i could go to learn more about being submissive or if ireally am one just  site the tell more about the lifestyle
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RE: new to the life - 9/7/2006 9:41:33 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Don't make any commitments to anything for at least six months.

And read all of these.

My advice for Novice Female Submissives

Newbie!

At a loss

I'm a new domme seeking advice

Does a slave also have to be a fool?

sub: totally new concept

Questions for other newbies

The Journey

Starting Out

New to the Life, Help

How to deal?

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Advice please: Relationships, bdsm, love and boundaries

First time sub seeking you advice- how to find the right master?

First time sub seeking advice

a newbie seeking advice

How can I be a great sub?

Brand new life

Help needed

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RE: new to the life - 9/7/2006 11:05:39 AM   
Casie


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Status: offline 		As far a websites I LOVE  castlerealm.com I think it's an amazing website. With great information. I also enjoyed the book Screw the roses send me thorns by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon.

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RE: new to the life - 9/7/2006 6:14:38 PM   
bigandboldnnc


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Status: offline 		I tend to agree with Casie, but I'm thinking that I learned most by actually just watching discussions in forums (such as these), viewing stories on various sites, and by actually visiting a local lifestyle party.  Find a trusted Dominant and take their advice to your head (NOT YOUR HEART). 

I sincerely agree with LA about not getting involved for at least six good months.  See what's out there, get your feet wet, just don't dive head-first.  Be leery of the wannabe's....there are WAY too many wonderful Dominants that are the real deal.  In my experience, Female Dominants share a lot more information and consideration for a newbie.  I'd totally recommend all the ones that I've met/seen first and foremost (sorry fellas). 

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RE: new to the life - 9/7/2006 6:18:22 PM   
justheather


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

And read all of these.



Very clever, LA. It will take her six months to read all of the homework you gave her.
You're good. Oh, yes. You're good.

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I want the scissors to be sharp
And the table perfectly level
When you cut me out of my life
And paste me in that book you always carry.
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RE: new to the life - 9/7/2006 7:45:26 PM   
tastejuslikcandi


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Status: offline 		well i have no way to go to no parties then none any where near me. i have checked into it i live in a small town in kansas

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RE: new to the life - 9/7/2006 8:46:45 PM   
babysburnin


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"The highest proof of virtue is to possess boundless power without abusing it."
- Lord Macaulay

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RE: new to the life - 9/7/2006 9:10:10 PM   
Owned1


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ORIGINAL: tastejuslikcandi

well i have no way to go to no parties then none any where near me. i have checked into it i live in a small town in kansas


Near your small town is another small town and probably a city or a larger town,  I would bet dollars to donuts if you look hard enough there is a group, munch, few people who are into this lifestyle and meet or at least talk.

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