came4U -> RE: Water Sports..Girl and Dom Going to the Potty (7/27/2007 8:19:33 AM)
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I don't find it humiliation at all. (well, at first it would no doubt cause blushes and giggles). I think some of the Doms or even a sub who take this seriously is doing the watching or the showing to prove a certain closeness. Maybe some sort of 'you've seen the outside of me, now lets see the inside'. We are taught (in front of God n everybody sometimes) to pee/poo wherever it was convenient ie: potty for a large family might have been in the hallway LOL, and later in life, the more independant we become..the more closed and private our personal grooming habits beget. To view or show the body liquids erupting (crying, pee, etc) is merely a way to invade that 'no touchy, no looky' phase that changed us from a once vulnerable state to a controlled being. This may be the reason why after many years of marriage, when one becomes comfortable, they would pee in front of their partner and not hold it like they were at a mall/restraunt. Yet, if that same person can comfortably (female usually because men aren't shy about whippin' it out for anything lol) open labia for example without batting an eye while peeing, how close is that?? (racheal ray wouldn't like me saying stuff she says here lol). It is closeness, eventual and total, closeness. I 'get' it. NOT saying I would do it, but I get it. I am envious of those that can endure it and become that open.
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