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Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do you lo... - 5/7/2005 6:38:34 PM

notlooking

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Hi fellow Subs!

Do you love your Master or Mistress?

Do you love her or him for what they do for you ?
Do you love her or him for who she is minus the sex?

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 5/7/2005 6:53:32 PM

trooperlv

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I am an unmarried slave who loves Master completly. As for loving him without sex. Yes. I have had two surguries sence ive been collared and he has nursed me through them, without looking elsewhere for sexual fullfillment. He is not a fair weather Master.

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 5/7/2005 7:06:57 PM

EmeraldSlave2

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Yes I love the Owner.

I love him for many things, including what they can do for me and minus the sex.

It might help that even if we had absolutely no sexual contact with eachother, the Owner encourages as much sexual contact as I want with others, so I wouldn't be deprived overall (though I would indeed miss the contact with the Owner).

I guess just remember- love generally has very little to do with a relationship working long term.

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 5/7/2005 7:11:30 PM

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That's sweet trooperlv. You found a good person.

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 5/8/2005 12:34:28 AM

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(My partner and I intend to get married, so maybe we don't qualify...)

I love my partner with everything that I am. I love him independant of his ownership of me. Still, I'd love him if he -just- owned me and wasn't in a romantic reltaionship of me, because of the person he is.

I love him as a man, and I love him as the person I belong to.

The sex is really really nifty, too, but I think our relationship has incredibly little to dowith sex. That just happens to be something else we enjoy together.

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 5/8/2005 4:28:30 AM

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I am interested why the question to only unmarried subs/slaves?

*pouts all left out like*

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 5/8/2005 4:36:17 AM

BobcatsLilMinx

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I definitely feel I love my Master, although at the moment, I guess it's still too new a relationship for it to be much more than a very deep affection... (and thats my rational mind trying to keep tabs on my romantic lil heart...)

The sex really isn't a cornerstone in our relationship... it's a tricky one, I have major issues regarding sex, and there are times when it really isn't an option for me, because I can't stand to be touched. But he is so supportive, and patient with me. And I love him for that, I suppose part of the reason I am so very very fond of him is because I don't feel the sex IS the reason he's with me.

Though of course, when my head's in the right place, it is darn good!!

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 5/8/2005 8:33:49 AM

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Well I don't have a Master yet. That kind of committment can only come after the wedding ring in my mind. I do have a dom. In a few month's I should have a Master.

Do I love him? Yes..of course. Or he would not be my dom. Sex does not have to be part of the equation. We have literally gone for month's without sex due to family issues and what not.
We always make a good comeback. For me love must be paramount in any long term relationship. It is the glue that holds you together so you can fight. If for without that glue you would give up and walk away much sooner.
It is harder to say goodbye to someone you love.

There are many different people in this lifestyle who want many different things. So, not all will agree there must be love. Myself, I want a committed monogamous relationship.

So, yes he has my unconditional love.

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 5/8/2005 9:37:06 AM

littleone35

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i am married but i am gonna ost anyway. My new Master i care deeply about and fell deep affection for . we have not benn together long enogh for me to say i love him. My Late Master whom i was with for fur years i was deeply in love with, but he was also in love eith me. the sex is great but no necessary i loke the cuddling.

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 5/8/2005 5:51:57 PM

gretchen

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I love him since I didn't know how dominant he was. So, I love him for the person he is, not for the Dominant he can be.

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 5/9/2005 6:15:49 PM

liltxsubby

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I love him for him. I would love him without sex, or BDSM though it sure wouldn't be nearly as much fun.

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 5/12/2005 1:07:40 PM

Lepidoptera

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When I was collared, I loved my Master and Mistress (well... I still do...), and yes, I loved them regardless of the sex- in fact, the D/D/s aspect of our relationship was only part of it- we were great friends otherwise.

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 6/14/2005 4:13:10 PM

asissyforher

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there is no romantic love for me....NO!

but i am learning there IS a FORM of luv...<<<see the spelling? that is induced..a dedication to...luv.

a sissy
and no sex........i am celebate.

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 6/14/2005 4:46:05 PM

sub4hire

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quote:

but i am learning there IS a FORM of luv...<<<see the spelling? that is induced..a dedication to...luv

Luv written that way looks like lust to me.

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 6/14/2005 4:52:08 PM

asissyforher

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Luv written that way looks like lust to me.
sub4hire?

i am sorry you think it that way!

it separates love romance from luv respect for ME.
a sissy

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 6/14/2005 4:54:42 PM

sub4hire

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quote:

it separates love romance from luv respect for ME.

Thank you for the clarification.

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 6/14/2005 6:40:48 PM

perfection20005

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I love my Master for everything He is and does for me. We are long distance and don't get together too often, so sex isn't the reason for this love.

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RE: Questions for unmarried single Subs/Slaves--- Do yo... - 6/14/2005 8:50:36 PM

pygmalionsub

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Well, I am only seeking a trainer, and there is one i am getting to know now. There will be no sex in our relationship, so thats not a factor for me. I am very fond of him, and care about him. But i dont "love" him nor do i plan to.

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