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fairerthanshe -> RE: responsibilities of a Gorean Free (5/9/2007 4:48:03 PM)

Greetings jenny,

fairer applauds your description of Gorean slavery and the relations between the Free and enslaved.  well done!

well wishes,

fairer than she



cjenny -> RE: responsibilities of a Gorean Free (5/9/2007 4:49:32 PM)

Hi fairer , when I saw that you'd posted I gulped and wondered just what corrections would be here lol.

*laughs*

Thank you.



fairerthanshe -> RE: responsibilities of a Gorean Free (5/9/2007 4:54:27 PM)

Greetings jenny,

Goodness! Is fairer really that scary?  lol

See you in a couple of weeks -

well wishes,

fairer than she



cjenny -> RE: responsibilities of a Gorean Free (5/9/2007 4:56:00 PM)

[sm=flowers.gif] Ya, you are terrifying.



dawntreader -> RE: responsibilities of a Gorean Free (5/9/2007 8:40:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

                 Any way, as someone els said dont Goreans take pride in how well they take care of their slaves, I mean any Master Gor or not can pretty much treat a slave however the slave allows them to treat them, so if you dont like the way you are beeing treated the answer is Gor or not you dont have to stay with him you have the right to leave and find someone who will treat you as you wish to be treated. I dont think it makes you less Gor to be unhappy and want more after all even Gorean slave chose their Masters based on if how those Masters treat them are how they want to be treated, but you cant expect others to tell you how your Master is treating you is wrong seeing as it is Gor he can treat you how he wishes if you allow it and you are allowing it and agreeing to it by staying with him. Just my thoughts on the situation.


Magik's slave


As with many situations like this, we only have one side of the story...



WillowRain -> RE: responsibilities of a Gorean Free (5/10/2007 4:27:09 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ehmCB

greetngs Masters
greetings Mistress's



m has been a bit confused as of late and m has a question if she may. does an Owner have any responsibilites to what is His?

well wishes

m


Dear ehm,

Okay, bottom line is, you aren't getting your needs met. Your aproach here to get advice this way probably isn't going to be all that helpful. I am going to recomend a book to you, "Non violent communication." GO, right now, and order or buy it and read it. Do not stop to whine, or complain further about your Master.

There are many ways to ask for what you need, but trying to guilt or shame anyone into meeting your needs is not going to go well for you. What is the point in getting what you want from someone if it's not freely given, if you have to bully them into it??

Define your emotions. Define what you want. Then ask politely for those needs to be met, if he cannot meet those needs, or doesn't want to meet those needs than so be it. It is up to you as a responsible adult to find other avenues to nurture yourself. If the core of this is that you are lonely and need more caring attention, there are lots of ways to do that. Getting attention from your Master is one way, but there are other options too. You could get a local mentor or teacher  either D or s with your Master's aproval, join a slave chat group or local community group, join a local charity, go hold preme babies at the hospital, go swing a hammer at your local Habitat for Humanity. Heck, take up martial arts, or get a really bossy trainer at the gym, if what you are missing is someone regularly telling you what to do. You'll end up with a  rocking bod, and your need to be told what to do, and do what is told will be more met.

Define your need girly. Take it to the real world, and take responsibility for your own happiness.



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