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Gifts for my mistress - 5/8/2007 5:32:59 PM   
LuckySub


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Status: offline 		I'll get right to the point: I'm dying to cum. I find myself getting hard at really embarassing moments, just thinking about my mistress.

She's told me that I have to wait until Friday unless I can find something she really wants.  We're just really starting to explore our BDSM relationship, so that's what she wants.  Any ideas?

My thoughts thus far:
1. A new strap on.  Hers doesn't fit that well and she really likes using one.
2. Maybe a femdom dvd we could buy
3. She's been enjoying putting me in panties, but doesn't like me stretching hers out.  Maybe  a few pairs of my own?

I'm not really sure.  She told me to buy something that might please her, but wouldn't give me the word if it is good enough until after the item is bought.

Any ideas?

Thanks
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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/8/2007 5:50:42 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		LOL my guess is that no matter how great what you buy her is she isnt gunna give let you cum till she wants you to on friday, since she wont tell you if its good enough befor you buy it Im thinking this is just her way of haveing her cake and eating it to she gets you to buy her something and still has you wait to cum till friday, because if she doesnt tell you befor hand what your buying is good she wont have to keep to anything if she told me buy me "this" and you can cum then she would have to let you cum after buying it for her, if she doesnt tell you she isnt bound to that.

just my thoughts

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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/8/2007 5:54:01 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Luckysub, nope.  You're not getting any help from Me.  Sounds more like your Mistress (congratulations) is going to put Her own spin on things and you are just going to have to be patient.
 
On a personal note, I just love the effects of putting one on masterbation restriction.  It's just too much fun.

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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/8/2007 5:54:22 PM   
LuckySub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

LOL my guess is that no matter how great what you buy her is she isnt gunna give let you cum till she wants you to on friday, since she wont tell you if its good enough befor you buy it Im thinking this is just her way of haveing her cake and eating it to she gets you to buy her something and still has you wait to cum till friday, because if she doesnt tell you befor hand what your buying is good she wont have to keep to anything if she told me buy me "this" and you can cum then she would have to let you cum after buying it for her, if she doesnt tell you she isnt bound to that.

just my thoughts

Magik's slave


I know, but I have to try.  I'm being driven mad.

I think I've pretty much decided on the new strap-on.  I'm going to look for suggestions as to which ones are the best.  Hers is terrible; it doesn't fit at all.  Excuse me - it doesn't fit her at all.  It fits in me just fine.

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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/8/2007 6:09:32 PM   
Ericus1


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Status: offline 		LuckySub,

Just sit back and enjoy it.  Your Mistress is enjoying watching your reactions.  You aren't gonna cum till friday.  My best advice is give in to it and learn to enjoy it.     I have been there many times

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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/8/2007 7:46:59 PM   
AlderTheKitty


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Status: offline 		thats a good point she might just want stuff just suffer through it

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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/8/2007 7:56:05 PM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		First, I have zero desire to help you because I think your predicament is funny as hell.  I just adore orgasm control.

Anywhoo...if I did have an inclination to help you, how on earth would I know what she wants better than you?  You are the one seeing her, yea?

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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/8/2007 8:30:10 PM   
LaMistressa


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Status: offline 		I won't help you, because as others have said mentioned, your predicament is amusing.  However,  I will point out that all of your presents actually focus on you as well:

1. Strap on. Well goodness, where is the business end of that going to end up, I wonder?
2. FemDom dvd. No way you'd be interested in seeing that with her.
3. Your own set of panties. 'Nuff said.

So, take her to dinner, maybe get some flowers.....and enjoy your wait until Friday.



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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/9/2007 7:12:38 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		How about a nice handwritten letter or poem telling her what meaning she has brought into your life, or how she has touched you deeply. Then attach it to the stem her favorite flower. Maybe along with some small personal gift for her that would have some meaning to her. I know I Love it when my sub writes me love letters or poems, I keep them and read them from time to time. Especially when I can't see him and I am missing him badly, those letters come in very handy.

~Lashra


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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/9/2007 7:30:09 AM   
MsSonnetMarwood


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Status: offline 		LaMistressa is dead on.   A gift "for her" that is ultimately going to be used "on you" isn't really a gift "for her", now is it?

Sure, it's great to buy things that you'll both enjoy - at times.   However if you want to buy something as a gift for her - make sure it's for HER and not for HER to use on YOU.  Duh.




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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/9/2007 7:39:13 AM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		I agree with LaMisstressa and MsSonnetMarwood.  If she is looking for a gift for herself, why focus on things you will enjoy?  Those can come later.  I think you should get her something utterly fabulous and totally for her.  I bet you'll still be waiting til Friday though...or even later.  How fun :)

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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/9/2007 8:15:13 AM   
stockingluvr54


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Status: offline 		seeing as how you are focusing on something for you ...why not get yourself a vaccume and put that sumbitch to work! lmao...

Or get her something special for HER.... maybe even something simple like flowers or some small jewelry and personalize it somehow......

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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/9/2007 2:17:48 PM   
LuckySub


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Status: offline 		You were all right.  I was focusing on myself.  In the end, I got her the dvd of a couple of seasons of the Golden Girls.  She was happy with it and told me I could cum. 

But in the end, I decided that she'd only given in because I was whining.  So I told her that I was sorry for even trying to bribe her and decided to wait.  It seems like the thing to do. 

We're both quite new at this and still learning.  I can't wait to learn more. Thank you all for your guidance.

< Message edited by LuckySub -- 5/9/2007 2:20:35 PM >

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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/9/2007 5:40:00 PM   
maledave7


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Status: offline 		My thoughts is to give her something special from yourself.  Offer to give her feet and back a massage.  A few long stem roses would be great too.

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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/9/2007 9:42:57 PM   
ready4srvce4all


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Status: offline 		After once buying my mom a vaccuum cleaner for her birthday (I know, I know, that's really more of a Mother's Day kind of gift) I realized, Mom is a role....what she is, is a Woman.  Coming to this realization, I found Mom really enjoyed getting things I made for her, or did for her, or something just for her, flowers, letting her beat me in Scrabble, something personal.  She appreciated those so much more, and I saved a fortune not having to buy vaccuum cleaner bags. 

You didn't say much about your relationship, other than you are starting to explore your BDSM relationship.  Get her something that shows your heart towards Her as a Woman.  If you can only think of Her as Mistress, than all you have done is objectify Her solely in Her role.  And honestly, those choices of yours...those are gifts for you.

Good luck, and just between you and I, don't get the vaccuum.  That may become a strap on after all.

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RE: Gifts for my mistress - 5/10/2007 2:04:03 PM   
yugla


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Status: offline 		Thinking of an episode from the Sopranos that used an old joke -Get her pink fuzzy slippers and a dildo. If she doesn't like the slippers she can go fuk herself- So get out then if you don't like the lack of intimacy. You did not say how long you two have been an item but maybe she is bored with you, time to move on.


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