|
HellsMichelle -> RE: Someone finding out about your lifestyle (5/10/2007 8:26:22 AM)
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: zindyslave
Well, I don't use this nickname unless I am on a kink site so how she found out if she did I don't know. She said she wasn't the one that found it that it was a friend of hers. So, I don't know what all she knows. I put a pic up because I think it is fair if others have pics up that I also have a pic up. Maybe I am wrong and maybe I could change it probably will now that this has happened will have to change it just in case it gets around to others.
I am an advid myspace user. One thing that might help is if you get the code to remove your friendslist from showing and request your friends do the same. It is soooooooo easy to backtrack over there to find out about others.
Folks are right about posting your pix and the chance you take. You could also set your profile to "friends only can view my pix" and put on your quote, "if you want to see my photos you must request to be my friend". That way you have the option to choose who sees what. They have many variances of security levels under personal settings.
You might try removing your city location too. for all you know, she could have just searched her zip code when you came up. these are factors in the search engine that people use all the time to find me.
I don't have my children on my friends list so that their friends can't find out their mommy is a kinky prodom pornstar. Funny part is that I am out to damn near everyone except some of the PTA. [and one of the head bitches in charge over there knows because of my classmates profile! but you think they'd guess since I wear leather to the meetings -- it makes me feel protected from their innane antiquated opinions!]
My theory is simple though, I own up to who I am. I see no reason to be ashamed. Sexuality is an innate quality we are all born with. Some of us are naturally drawn to kink, some of us like both genders, some of us ARE both genders, and some are full on gay. I come by mine genetically, so when I started bondage modeling I wrote to my biological father and warned him to not join the sites I work for. My mother knows and when asked by outsiders how she can accept this she just replies, "You've known us her whole life. Have I ever had any control over what Michelle does?"
If the guy who headed the search team for weapons of mass destruction in Iraq could admit he is also the host of Black Rose when they tried to out him, then wtf have the rest of us to be ashamed of?
If you need further assistance with myspace you can find me over there at /michellefromhell
I will gladly help when I can...oh and I have the code, if you should need it.
M
|
|
|
|
