NHDomsubcouple
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From my experience, too much play in public or semi-public “dungeons” lack heat. Are the partners “playing” you coupled (as in a relationship already)? If so, there is an answer. The limits are imposed by the couple, not by you. Those are not available.
However, with a proper dominant, with proper play, you ought to be orgasming, even without penetration--after all, isn’t that a big part of kinky sex play? But a “proper” dominant (for you) will be attracted to you, as you are, and there, as it is for everyone, is the catch.
Remove the “coupled” available doms from the list of your play-partners. Then consider that there is an age factor to deal with (as there is with anyone over well….forty or so--or under 25), and then consider that you are a voluptuous woman and you desire a male that enjoys a succulent woman. I suspect that if you have had ten play partners, that the adjusted list, after removing the “taken ones,” and those whose desires do not mesh with your attributes, becomes much smaller.
Dovemagic…you are a beautiful woman. You are erudite…and you want your pussy spanked. Gosh! Even with the adjusted list, when looking at all available males within driving distance of you, this most certainly leaves many, many men who would be delighted with reddening your mons and then fucking you silly. Ah….but to find one good one…
I suggest turning as you have done here at collarme, also to alt, or bondage.com, or adultfriendfinders, and advertise. Be open about finding a “friend with benefits,” and with similar kink. Be prepared to wade through the field of bufus (toads) though. Finding a “friend with benefits” offers some health protection also over frequent, short lived partners. Consider that HPV (Venereal Warts) and Herpes are transmittable even with a condom and both are “for life.” Beware of players, and remember that when you engage in genital/genital or oral/genital (or anal) regional skin contact you potentially link to each and every partner that your chosen partner has had.
Be selective. Make your needs known at the local groups…network with doms and subs…let them matchmake. Print a “business card, perhaps with just an email address and hand them to guys that you think might work. If they say, “not available” then so be it. If you think this is “unsubbly” deliver the card, on your knees at parties. You clearly have the intelligence to be creative. A submissive can certainly be appropriately assertive in getting her needs met.
A relationship based upon similar interests that has the attraction and chemistry leads to intimacy and for most, though not all, emotional intimacy is the foundation of satisfying sex. If emotional intimacy is not what you seek, on not what you can find…then find a real high quality friend.
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