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ORIGINAL: asubmissiveheart

Sucking another man's cock?
That is a hard limit for me.

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ORIGINAL: aidan

Oddly enough, I think I'd have a harder time going down on a man than kissing him.

Now, I don't WANT to go down on a man. Never been a fantasy of mine, never liked the idea. I don't like the idea of being intimate with a man in anyway, but in some weird circumstance where I had to choose between cocksucking or kissing, I'd go with kissing. At least then, I can try and trick myself into thinkng it's not a man. With a cock, that'd be a bit harder.

I love the idea of going down on a dildo, but that's because it's an inanimate object or something that's being used as an extension of a Lady. In my mind that's an entirely different matter.

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

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ORIGINAL: aidan

Oddly enough, I think I'd have a harder time going down on a man than kissing him.

Now, I don't WANT to go down on a man. Never been a fantasy of mine, never liked the idea. I don't like the idea of being intimate with a man in anyway, but in some weird circumstance where I had to choose between cocksucking or kissing, I'd go with kissing. At least then, I can try and trick myself into thinkng it's not a man. With a cock, that'd be a bit harder.

I love the idea of going down on a dildo, but that's because it's an inanimate object or something that's being used as an extension of a Lady. In my mind that's an entirely different matter.

I'm not sure how you would confince yourself it was a woman when kissing a man. Having kissed both, I think women feel distinctly different in a deep kiss.  :)

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

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I always wondered why people just sucked cock. Such a waste of time. Now if you were asking if anyone had a problem enjoying themselves while licking, sucking, holding, feeling, tasting, etc... I could see the responses. But to just wrap your lips around a cock..slide up and down a few times to get them hard or off.. boringggggggggggggggg.

I've seen enough men on men films... and been to parties and watched long enough to get bored with all that. Same as 2 women. Some films.. parties i've been to, everyone has seemed tight... not really interested. Just going thur the motions. That's boring too. But to see to 2 of the same gender... really enjoying... wanting .... being into each other....... OMFG!!!... It's not about the action. It's about the outcome.

Kissing is very intimate. But It's the same as oral. If you're not into it,  it's not there. So why even bother.

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Many submissive men are willing to suck another man's cock, but how many are willing to kiss a man full on the mouth? As in -- making out.  I'd like to hear from subs who consider this a hard limit, but are willing to either:

* Suck a dildo/strap on and/or
* Suck a real cock

Do you think there are more submissive men with a limit of kissing the same sex on the mouth than female submissives?  Any female subs consider kissing another woman a hard limit, and why?

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For both genders, if you are willing to do the act, does the physical appearance of the person you are made to kiss matter to you at all?  Are you more willing to do it if the person is considered attractive to you? If you were not able to choose the person or have input regarding their appearance, then what?

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ORIGINAL: eveningtwilight

Although I'm not bisexual, kissing another woman would not be a hard limit for me. If I knew it turned him on and he really wanted it, I would do it...but not on any regular basis, and not for very long sessions. I would hope he would end it within a few seconds, and not have the session last too long. As for why... I would know that, for me, there was nothing sexual between myself and the other woman. I would be doing it strickly for him, while thinking of him and watching his reactions.

Appearance definately plays a role for me. I would never be able to kiss someone I found repulsive. It would totally ruin the event and I would never care to breach that boundary for him again.

If I couldn't pick the person or offer any input whatsoever...well, that would suck. But, I would hope that he would know me well enough to know what I would be able to tollerate. Good hygene, good dental care, no gross pimples starring at me...things like that. But also preferably a woman who was not better looking than myself. Can't have insecurities start over something like that.  :P

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ORIGINAL: canupleaseme

I love my boy sucking my strap on off but I dont think I would want to see him actually suck a real cock off.  I know it would be one of his extreme hard limits so its not even an issue for us.  I have to admit though that since Ive been with him I have gained a bit of a "he's mine" streak so I wouldnt enjoy it at all.

When I worked escorting back in the day kissing was one of the most requested services and I admit I did find it a limit for me I was there to do a job and kissing didnt feel right in it.    I think kissing is such a strong thing to do so much can be said in a kiss and they can be simple or full on or down right dirty. I guess for me kissing is just special and not something I like to give out readily and wouldnt want to see my boy doing it even though I love gay porn and watching men get it on.