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Aimtoplease101 -> Extreme grooming (5/10/2007 6:30:39 PM)
Several Dommes seem to provide instructions for a sub's grooming requirements before a meeting. Some of these are pretty simple and obvious-- i.e., be clean and not intoxicated. Others are a bit more subtle-- no cologne, be clean shaven, etc. Some can be more extreme-- the "remove all hair from the waist down" variety. Do you have particular requirements for your subs before you'll engage with them? If it's something out of the ordinary, please share why. Regards, ATP

mp072004 -> RE: Extreme grooming (5/10/2007 6:42:07 PM)
Define "engage," please. My requirements for playing with someone differ significantly from my requirements for meeting someone for coffee or dinner, and too, a ninth or tenth meeting with a submissive with whom I have an established d/s relationship is very different from a first play date with a pain bottom.

earthycouple -> RE: Extreme grooming (5/10/2007 7:43:54 PM)
Well "engage" for me is a "session" so yes I have requirements. But you at first asked about a "meeting" that to me means "our first public meeting". For a session I want what I want when I want it, so do it, darn it. By session time I have expectations and believe that is fair. For meeting I have no expectations beyond the sub is buying and I don't travel. I simply will not go farther than my local Panera to meet because so many people "no show" and I haven't time, energy or money for long trips to meet half way. Oh...does "call if you can't come or will be late" count?

Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Extreme grooming (5/10/2007 9:49:20 PM)
I was being delicate and perhaps a little too obscure in my word choice. Let's focus the discuss to a session, or D/s play, to make it more precise.

Misstoyou -> RE: Extreme grooming (5/10/2007 9:58:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101 Several Dommes seem to provide instructions for a sub's grooming requirements before a meeting... Do you have particular requirements for your subs before you'll engage with them? If it's before a first meeting, I don't tell him anything whatsoever, since 1) he's not mine, and 2) part of the evaluation is how he looks/acts when left to his own devices. **Edited to say the OP's clarification came after my post. [:)]

Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Extreme grooming (5/10/2007 10:19:21 PM)
That's clever Misstoyou-- It works an additional testing element into the process. ATP

earthycouple -> RE: Extreme grooming (5/11/2007 5:28:42 AM)
So the question now becomes what is it I want when I want it? I'm easy...too easy maybe. No heavy scents (give me headaches), be clean and neat, and be well trimmed or completely shaved in peri area as my intensive and intricate rope work tends to pull pubes. The only othe requirement I can think of is that any other body hair (chest, legs) is to remain in place. I love hairy chests! Of course on occassion, I might want other things, certain clothes, etc....but each and every time the above must be in place.

MstrssPassion -> RE: Extreme grooming (5/11/2007 5:35:31 AM)
if this is purely about meeting with a lady for a physical interaction (session) & she states she has specific criteria as to your hygiene or body hair.... she is completely within her right to ask you to comply-- just as you are completely within your right to refuse

LadyPact -> RE: Extreme grooming (5/11/2007 6:17:19 AM)
Being the hair fanatic that I am (the hair on top of the head.... the one above the shoulders), I almost always give instructions that special care is required. Special conditioning is in order, to ensure that it is soft. If there are any problems, such as dandruff, that needs to be rectified. Not especially for a first meeting, but a certain hairbrush might be told to be brought, if a reward is in order. It most certainly must be neat, with the split ends trimmed.

MamaDomme -> RE: Extreme grooming (5/11/2007 6:32:36 AM)
at a first, public meeting all I ask is them to be themselves. Nothing more and nothing less. If we decide to go further and session, then I have requirements-- trimmed or shaved pubs being the most important. Sometimes I ask for them to wear certain articles of clothing (or not wear them)....... sometimes just a little thing to test obedience. I sometimes give a second chance if orders are not followed for a specific and valid reason--- I never give a third chance.

malloves69 -> RE: Extreme grooming (5/11/2007 10:30:34 AM)
always take multiple enemas for my mistress because she wants me clean inside as well as outside [:)] figures thats the least i can do for her as she first takes my ass with her strapons and then her fist [:)] and yes she has shaved my pubes clean well and told me thats how she wants to see me from now on ..her shaving me was alot of fun and i even got a chance to shave her and those sexy legs of hers ..love being smooth for her to play with ..it seems i am more sensitive to her touch when im that way [:)] have fun mal

Celeste43 -> RE: Extreme grooming (5/11/2007 3:38:32 PM)
No heavy scents should be considered as politeness unless you know that she has a fondness for a certain cologne. But if you haven't asked if she has allergies to perfumes it is always wise to be careful and not use any. Of course, it's better if you say that your aftershave is such a brand and is that acceptable to them? Setting off an asthma attack is not what either party aspires to.

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