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mercmjm -> question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 6:46:38 AM)
Now we all know there are a bunch of male subs and slaves, even some female subs and slaves, who pay a domme money tribute or a pro dominatrix for sessions. My question is do any female subs or slaves or switches, go to a pro male dom or pay money tribute to a male dom?

wandersalone -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 8:38:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mercmjm My question is do any female subs or slaves or switches, go to a pro male dom or pay money tribute to a male dom? No and no. I am aware of a few male pro-dom's and they generally seem to have a specific expertise such as whips or rope bondage based upon many years of experience. If you do a search you will find some past threads asking a similar question.

drawntothedark -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 8:44:23 AM)
No. If it was required I would simply find another Dom. A lot of fish in this sea!

childofpain -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 8:51:48 AM)
i agree, i would not pay either...lol

littleone35 -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 9:05:17 AM)
Why pay when there are so many Dom's looking for a real relationship or play with a sub? I know if i did not have my Master i would not pay for play. Matt's littleone

marieToo -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 9:06:00 AM)
All I have to do is open my mouth and men want to beat the hell out of me. Why pay for it?

charismagirrl -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 9:11:50 AM)
my thinking on this is a bit different than the other responders. There was a point in my life some years back (before i was owned) when i really considered trying to find a pro Dom (male). i was in a realtionship, that try as i might to make it a BDSM relationship, just wasn't scratching my itch. i loved the man i was with but he just wasn't capable of being a Dom and could only wrap his head around being a Top on occasion. So during this time i seriously considered finding a Dom to go see just to get some of my perceived needs met. i didn't want a realtionship with one, i just wanted someone to beat me and get into my head. Knowing now what i didn't know then...my needs would never have been truly met that way because whoever i went to would've never really been able to get into my head without having been able to get into my heart (it works in reverse with me too-both elements must be there) my need to serve and alot of my other needs would've still been sadly overlooked as well. But, ultimately it was a very serious consideration on my part at the time.

astarri -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 9:23:12 AM)
no i would not pay for someone to Dom me ...i have thought of this as well ...i know there are Doms who charge but i think there are more Dommes who do. I think it comes down to the differences between men and women more than Dom and Domme

gypsygrl -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 9:23:33 AM)
I've considered seeing a pro for SM stuff. I don't have that kind of spare change to throw around, so I haven't actually given it any serious thought. But I have such specific cravings for physical pain that its really hard to imagine getting them met without doing some serous topping from the bottom which people take offense at.

NakedGirlScout -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 9:31:24 AM)
Hmm, no, I can't get what I need for my fetish from a Pro. My fetish is no-limits real-life control. Hard to get that from a "session".

favesclava -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 9:48:00 AM)
the hardest thing for me to do is hand over all the money on me when we're together. He doesnt meddle in my finances, but i cant take money out to pay for anything .i am his completely everything i have is his for the taking. the money is used for whatever i need and some wants. he provides drinks , food, snacks and transportation. but if i want to dance to the jukebox i have to ask.the money is used for the bottled beer i insist on. he drinks draft, much cheaper. he spends his money on outfits and basic needs. its still very hard to do even though its spent on me . would i hand over my paycheck if told to? yes. would i have been his slave if payment was required when we met? NO!!!!!!

phoenixinchains -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 9:53:37 AM)
no, i would not pay tribute were i single. but if you want something to play with, i did quit working (i gave up my income) at His request. on the other hand, one of my task is setting a budget to paper, to include my allowance...

imthatacheyouhav -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 9:57:59 AM)
no, i personally would never consider going to a "pro Dom" and paying money ....

smilingjaguar -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 10:13:54 AM)
Um, no. Never occurred to me. Never would do it.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 10:19:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mercmjm My question is do any female subs or slaves or switches, go to a pro male dom or pay money tribute to a male dom? no i wouldn't - why? are you a pro male dom?

AquaticSub -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 10:31:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mercmjm Now we all know there are a bunch of male subs and slaves, even some female subs and slaves, who pay a domme money tribute or a pro dominatrix for sessions. My question is do any female subs or slaves or switches, go to a pro male dom or pay money tribute to a male dom? No but if I were single and couldn't get anyone to scene with me for free I'd consider it. Shrug

Mercnbeth -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 10:41:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mercmjm Now we all know there are a bunch of male subs and slaves, even some female subs and slaves, who pay a domme money tribute or a pro dominatrix for sessions. My question is do any female subs or slaves or switches, go to a pro male dom or pay money tribute to a male dom? in the past, this slave has served---physically and sexually as well as supported---financially, the same man. in return, he did whatever he wanted, including fucking off his responsibilities and bringing chaos, destruction and encouragement to engage in unhealthy, life-threatening behavior. he was very dominant in all of his interactions with folks---more often than not in a sociopathic way. we never discussed who was the good/bad slave/sub, Master/Dom or prostitute/client. every now and again he would fly off the handle and punch, kick, choke this slave out of the blue, but they were never referred to as sessions. so, technically, this slave paid a male dom and submitted to him on his terms...until she decided she'd rather live without the fear that the next physical/sexual session would be the last, among other things.

junecleaver -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 10:57:41 AM)
I'm sure there are somewhere out there. I am not one of them. However, I would totally accept tribute in the form of shoes, clothing or tuition money.[;)]

slaveluci -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 11:15:57 AM)
Some do...this one never has or never would......slave luci

GeekyGirl -> RE: question to all female subs and slaves (5/11/2007 2:05:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mercmjm Now we all know there are a bunch of male subs and slaves, even some female subs and slaves, who pay a domme money tribute or a pro dominatrix for sessions. My question is do any female subs or slaves or switches, go to a pro male dom or pay money tribute to a male dom? As a general rule, women have never had to pay men for any sort of sexual service. Men are more than willing to give it for free [:D]

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