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Introducing me - 5/9/2005 5:21:57 PM

URmine1

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Hi one and all
I thought I would drop a line to let you all know about a new guy in town, me!
I have had a fascination with D/s lifestyle for many years but until VERY recently and by chance meeting with a wonderful and most enlightening sub and now good friend (thisgirl). I realised the full potential that a D/s relationship could bring.
Im very hungry for all the knowledge I can get and would be happy to chat on any and all issues BDSM related, but not exclusively( do like to keep a balance).
I have already discovered that this will be a life choice that will be a lifetime in learning and an eternity to enjoy.
I am in no rush to meet and share my new life with the first sub who comes along. (I have tried this already with disastrous consequences, mainly for me fortunately). In saying this I have also discovered that one personal experience can out weigh a lifetime of reading. (So good did come from it.)
So I would value your experiences as much as if they had been mine.
I have read and digested a number of the introductions on the message board as you do when your a little unsure of proceedings and protocol. One in particular caught my eye and gave me an insite in to myself and I now know I have made the right choice. (haloscorned).
After seeing someone else's words before me which have summed up pretty much all my feelings in the first paragraph. With the second paragraph forming the basis of my goal and beliefs.It also made me realise I have already been part living the life with every relationship I have had (all Vanilla). I have been drawn to the lost soles or helpless and discovered great comfort in nurturing and guiding them to a strength where they can stand for themselves. Sadly not understanding fully what or why I was doing this and my need to continue was surplus to requirements in the vanilla relationship, I lost or gave up my partner.
I hope now to build on this both to satisfy my craving to "Father" and care for a sub, but also sustain it for decades rather than years.

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RE: Introducing me - 5/10/2005 4:51:51 AM

darkinshadows

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Greetings and welcome to the forums, URmine1 -

I hope as you read and inhale the words of others and their ideas and thoughts, that we will see yours applied also.

Looking forward to your words.

Peace and Love

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.dark.

...i surrender to gravity and the unknown...

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RE: Introducing me - 5/11/2005 7:07:03 PM

theroebabe

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Hi and welcome to the forums at CM!

Well welcome to thw wonderful world we live in! It takes a while to figure out what is right for you. And how you want to live this part of your life. So each time something happens it is a learning experience, some better than others!

good luck on your journey! I would suggest finding a good mentor and seek out those with skills you wish to learn and get out there! Go to demos munches and meetings!

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Roe

People always ask me why I do these things . . .
It's because I can!

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RE: Introducing me - 5/12/2005 5:32:36 AM

haloscorned

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URmine1, Thank you kind Sir for your words! In reading your introduction, you are well versed and have great potential. I look forward to exchanging conversation with you in the future, and any help I may be able to supply is yours. Good luck in your path towards realizing your potential. You have many great years of enjoyment ahead of you. To give and yet to recieve.

Your fellow Dom,
~Brickland

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