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sydneypig -> Gaining weight. (5/11/2007 11:35:59 PM)

I was reading a Dommes profile and she stated that she enjoyed making slim/athletic men overweight/ fat.I found this quite unique.Are their any other Dommes who have this type of interest?
Thank you.



TexasMaam -> RE: Gaining weight. (5/12/2007 6:55:17 AM)

We've all heard about 'feeders' who love making women fat.
I suppose it comes as no great surprise to find out there are 'feeders' who love to make men fat, too.

TexasMaam



undergroundsea -> RE: Gaining weight. (5/12/2007 11:02:30 AM)

I once read about this interest instead from a man who wanted to be forced to gorge food, and a domme obliged. The diet described seemed very unhealthy for the heart.

Cheers,

Sea



MsKatHouston -> RE: Gaining weight. (5/12/2007 12:40:21 PM)

Yes, I am sure there are those who enjoy it.  I prefer directing diet and activity level to enhance the slave, though.  I would not want someone who was not reasonably fit and healthy and would not direct diet and exercise to be counterproductive to that goal. 



Elorin -> RE: Gaining weight. (5/12/2007 12:45:34 PM)

~using fast reply~
I can't say that I have that interest, but I have been approached by male subs who wanted me to force them to gain weight.

~E



cloudboy -> RE: Gaining weight. (5/12/2007 1:14:11 PM)


It wouldn't be hard for me to gain weight. I think I gain weight just looking Ben & Jerry's ice cream.

I've never heard the term "feeders" before. Outside of zoos, that is....



fer0l -> RE: Gaining weight. (5/12/2007 1:41:49 PM)

This is the first time I've heard of this... is it common?  Do the Doms do this because they like bigger subs?



sydneypig -> RE: Gaining weight. (5/12/2007 6:00:50 PM)

So it is more common for men to be "feeders" than woman?I wonder why that is?



sydneypig -> RE: Gaining weight. (5/12/2007 6:12:21 PM)

MsKat
I suppose if i Domme wanted to make a sub fat and flabby, they could always change their mind and then put them through a strict work out regime.The television show "biggest loser"could be an example,some of those trainers look like they enjoy what they do.[:)]



LightHeartedMaam -> RE: Gaining weight. (5/13/2007 3:33:05 PM)

There are several links if you Google "feeder feedee"

This is one of them:  http://www.xmag.com/archives/13-01-jul05/feature3.html



sydneypig -> RE: Gaining weight. (6/27/2007 12:55:39 AM)

There seems very little information  about the male feedee.I can only  guess that the male feedee has the same desires as the  female feedee. 



MisstressNboytoy -> RE: Gaining weight. (6/27/2007 2:59:50 PM)

I don't understand why someone would want to be forced to gain weight. Is there anyone here interested in this who could explain it? Is it like forced homosexuality? It's something you want but are embarassed about it so having someone force you to do it makes it easier?



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Gaining weight. (6/27/2007 3:05:50 PM)

Well for people who're chornically to skinny, unhealthily so it could be benifitial to have someone force a healthy weight to stay on.

Other wise it's a kink and a fetish like everything else, why is as vast as the world.



ocilla -> RE: Gaining weight. (6/28/2007 1:21:41 AM)

I am a large sized woman and belong to 2 BBW sites that get a lot of attention from those who are kind of obsessed with women of size.  I have only heard metnion or seen one person ever claiming to be a feeder.  I don't think that it is that common, consicously anyway - although there was a hysterical Malcome in the Middle episode where the husband was getting turned on by the wifes' growing roundness and so starts sneaking sugar and such into everything to sabotage her efforts at dieting. 



sydneypig -> RE: Gaining weight. (6/28/2007 1:37:11 AM)

I have found  profiles which  relate it to humiliation ........so i believe that would be the main desire.....



sydneypig -> RE: Gaining weight. (6/28/2007 1:43:05 AM)

I believe that this type of  "scene" would be ok, until it reached a certain  weight....then when it becomes unsafe,it should stop.I do not believe that someone who is already very overweight should   engage in this type of play.



Rastimmipitwax -> RE: Gaining weight. (6/28/2007 1:52:52 AM)

Like any BDSM activity, the Dom/me is responsible for the health and safety of the sub. Otherwise, do what thou wilt.




maledave7 -> RE: Gaining weight. (6/28/2007 3:54:24 AM)

I feel that it would be very unhealthy. Being over weight will lead a person to heart and other health problems. I desire to be involved in activities that would be healthy.



DiannaVesta -> RE: Gaining weight. (6/28/2007 9:41:00 AM)

 
I think that being plus size and a BBW is one thing because beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes, HOWEVER the epitome of self respect is to respect your body no matter your size. Purposely harming your body IN ANY WAY, IMO is a crime against nature. I could never support this.

I get calls on Nite Flirt from men that want forced intoxication and I just won’t do this. If he wants to play a fantasy where he had too much to drink and I took advantage of him while drunk, that’s another thing, however I would never want to harm a persons health or sanity.

A person that takes an overweight person and forces or manipulates them to gain more weight should be arrested for abuse.




subitodolce -> RE: Gaining weight. (6/28/2007 10:15:41 AM)

Forcing somebody to gain weight (unless they were dangerously underweight) seems to be cruel and unusual punishment. Leaving a mark is one thing, but sending a sub to an early grave because of health problems is wrong in so many different ways.

I luck out in having a Sir who is trying to help me lose weight for the betterment of my health. He keeps me on track in making sure I get my exercise (and volunteers to go out walking with me during our visits) and keeps up with me on my weight progress. He's holding me to my own personal summer goal, but has set a very realistic long-term goal (and reminds me that while I am incredibly beautiful now, 40 pounds less of me would be that much more ravishing [:D]).

Fettish or no fettish, the Dom's primary responsibility is to the well-being and safety of their sub. We subs trust that anything that you do is not only to your wishes, but that you will keep us safe in the meanwhile. With the problems caused by obesity/sudden weight gain, I think the Dom needs to do a priority reevaluation.



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