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Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 1:03:29 AM

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How do you deal with a slave for talking to her master without being spoken to? Would she get punished

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 1:05:06 AM

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My dominant don't believe in the don't speak till spoken to, so he wouldn't " deal with it" I am allowed to talk to him anytime I wish.

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 1:33:13 AM

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I t depends on the parameters that have been set. If the slave is commanded to silence. Then yes the slave i s in trouble. If she just starts talking without asking to be heard she may be in trouble. In the end it is the master that sets the boundries and the consequences for behavior outside those boundries.

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 2:56:03 AM

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Unless I have told her not to for a given period of time then My girl is free to initiate conversation. I certainly don't restrict her from talking to Me.... it is one of the things I enjoy. Geisha trained in the "Art of conversation" because they understood the pleasure that a girl can give in just that manner.

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 3:12:22 AM

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Speaking to me disrespectfully will most likely earn her a punishment and talking out of turn will probably get her "the stare".

Other than that and outside of a scene or specific instruction, she may generally speak whenever she has a need. That's what owning another adult is for - I enjoy conversation....

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 3:12:45 AM

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It depends on how your relationship is set up and what your master's expectations for you are.

For those living as a slave with their owner 24/7 like myself, it simply isn't practical for the master to be asked for permission to speak about the zillion things that have to be done each and every day. "Master, may I ask to tell you that the dog had an accident on the bedroom floor and that wet spot by your side of the bed should be avoided?" "Master, may I tell you that the person on the phone is asking for you?" "Master, may I ask to remind you that it's time to drive the young'un to baseball practice?" "Master, may I beg to be allowed to ask you whether you want pepperoni or Italian sausage on this pizza I'm ordering now?" I mean that would drive someone crazy really damn fast and lose its appeal in no time.

Speech restrictions seem to work better within a particular scene, or if the slave only sees the master on occasion.

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 4:42:50 AM

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depends on what you and yours agreed beforehand. personally i know i would drive Daddy crazy if i had to ask permission to speak every single time. it's not our style - we prefer open communication at all times.

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 5:11:50 AM

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Is this an actual rule he has established or do you just assume this is the way of things?

My take is that if I were to place a slave on silence then I would also have to give them a method of letting me know they have something to say.

All in all... if you have something you feel you need to say.. then you need to say it... if you don't & you keep this bottle up, you will eventually have many more things you will be forced to bottle up & eventually you are going to blow.

Also consider this little story: What if you & your master were walking down the street & he was several steps ahead of you.... you saw the bus heading right for him but he didn't.... would you remain silent & let the bus hit him or would you disobey the rule of silence & yell out a warning to him?

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 5:16:02 AM

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My Master has no issues with me Initiating conversation and we enjoy somewhat lively debates :)

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 5:22:04 AM

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Unless Master says that I may not speak for a period of time, I am free to speak to him (or anyone) as I see fit. That said, however, when I have something that I think may sound more coarse than he would want to hear, I ask to speak freely. It is his right to assent or decline the request. If he declines the request and I do it anyway, it is his right to punish me as he sees fit.

A little background on your question would be helpful. Is the slave in question on "Master silence" at all times? If so, it doesn't seem realistic (although that reality it not for me to determine).

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 5:53:19 AM

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It depends on how your relationship is set up and what your master's expectations for you are.
For those living as a slave with their owner 24/7 like myself, it simply isn't practical for the master to be asked for permission to speak about the zillion things that have to be done each and every day. "Master, may I ask to tell you that the dog had an accident on the bedroom floor and that wet spot by your side of the bed should be avoided?" "Master, may I tell you that the person on the phone is asking for you?" "Master, may I ask to remind you that it's time to drive the young'un to baseball practice?" "Master, may I beg to be allowed to ask you whether you want pepperoni or Italian sausage on this pizza I'm ordering now?" I mean that would drive someone crazy really damn fast and lose its appeal in no time.
Speech restrictions seem to work better within a particular scene, or if the slave only sees the master on occasion.
DITTO........loved this answer! slave luci

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 6:31:03 AM

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"Master, may I beg to be allowed to ask you whether you want pepperoni or Italian sausage on this pizza I'm ordering now?"

ROTFLMFAO!!!

and the master answers: yes you may beg to be allowed to ask me whether I want pepperoni or Italian sausage on the pizza you are ordering now.
slave: Master I beg to be allowed to ask you whether you want pepperoni or Italian sausage on this pizza I'm ordering now.
master: ok. you have my permission to ask me whether I want pepperoni or Italian sausage on the pizza you are ordering now.
slave: thank you Master. Master do you want pepperoni or Italian sausage on this pizza I'm ordering now?
master: no little one. I don't want pepperoni or Italian sausage on the pizza you are ordering now.

one of the things I don't understand is: if the slave is not allowed to speak how she begs to be allowed to ask master? shouldn't she first beg for permission to ask permission to beg permission to ask if she is allowed to ask if she can beg to be allowed to ask master whether he wants pepperoni or Italian sausage on the pizza the slave is ordering?

PD: sorry I think I'm thinking too much

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 6:33:05 AM

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I live with my master 24/7 and i am on about master's silence.

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 7:08:52 AM

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Unless the dom's a mind reader, then yes, she should be able to talk....at least sometimes lol

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 7:19:34 AM

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Lol I have to talk to him on IM if i need anything and I have to refer to him as Master at all times.

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 7:28:58 AM

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How do you deal with a slave for talking to her master without being spoken to? Would she get punished

If put on speech restrictions then yes she would be punished. Punishment would be dependent on how many times she's violated the restriction and in what way she's violated the restriction.

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 7:40:57 AM

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Unless she has been instructed to remain silent, she is always welcome to speak in a respectful manner when appropriate.

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 8:15:01 AM

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Lol I have to talk to him on IM if i need anything and I have to refer to him as Master at all times.

Just curious: if are having dinner or watching TV and you need to ask him something or tell him something, how do you let him know he needs to get on his IM so you can say whatever it is that you want to say? I am assuming you guys have 2 computers, so that you may * converse* in the manner in which he has set up ? Seems very counterproductive to me, but that's just me.

Speech restrictions would never work for me, I am a talker. I Looooooooove, to talk. lol. I have been instructed not to speak for limited periods of time, which is not a problem. But it would be an impossible task for me to take it on as a way of life.

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 8:21:22 AM

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How do you deal with a slave for talking to her master without being spoken to? Would she get punished

We don't use that protocol, but I imagine if you had a good enough reason to speak ("Master, the house is on fire") then it wouldn't be a problem.

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RE: Should a slave talk to her master - 5/12/2007 8:22:44 AM

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It depends on how your relationship is set up and what your master's expectations for you are.

For those living as a slave with their owner 24/7 like myself, it simply isn't practical for the master to be asked for permission to speak about the zillion things that have to be done each and every day. "Master, may I ask to tell you that the dog had an accident on the bedroom floor and that wet spot by your side of the bed should be avoided?" "Master, may I tell you that the person on the phone is asking for you?" "Master, may I ask to remind you that it's time to drive the young'un to baseball practice?" "Master, may I beg to be allowed to ask you whether you want pepperoni or Italian sausage on this pizza I'm ordering now?" I mean that would drive someone crazy really damn fast and lose its appeal in no time.

Speech restrictions seem to work better within a particular scene, or if the slave only sees the master on occasion.

*giggles* Thank you. That made my morning.

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