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What do you look for? - 5/12/2007 12:21:35 PM   
littlespicyone


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Status: offline 		I see that this is posted on the "Ask a submissive" board, and wanted to read the other side of it.

What attracts You to a submissive?

What qualities do You want Your submissive to have?

What qualities completely turn You off?

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RE: What do you look for? - 5/12/2007 12:47:23 PM   
Milivoje


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Status: offline 		What attracts:
Ambition, be it at work or in private. Let's face it most submissive girls are very ambitious, at least the ones I have met. To see that she is becoming a stronger person gives me great pleasure.
Willingness to serve and to disregard personal needs.
Eloquence.

Qualities:
Ambition,
Eloquence,
Servility,
Open-mindedness.

Turn offs:
Politics
Disrespectfulness
Jealousy         

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RE: What do you look for? - 5/12/2007 2:50:59 PM   
earthycouple


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ORIGINAL: littlespicyone

I see that this is posted on the "Ask a submissive" board, and wanted to read the other side of it.

What attracts You to a submissive?   Real want and desire to serve me. 

What qualities do You want Your submissive to have?  Intelligence, honesty, humor, honesty, integrity, willingness to learn, honesty, need to be controlled, did I mention honesty?

What qualities completely turn You off?  Can a quality be a turn off?  hm.....dishonesty turns me off.  Which I certainally don't consider a quality.


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RE: What do you look for? - 5/12/2007 7:21:11 PM   
littlespicyone


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Status: offline 		Oops ... you're totally right. I guess a quality, by definition, can't be a turn off. Sorry!

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RE: What do you look for? - 5/12/2007 7:35:07 PM   
playfulotter


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Status: offline 		i am seeing a man 15 miles from me at this time..he is my best match in two years...but he isn't quite separated in his life...hard for me but okay for now.

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RE: What do you look for? - 5/13/2007 7:42:48 PM   
Damocles809


Posts: 532
Joined: 7/12/2006
Status: offline 		Attractions:  Surprises, eyes, ass, sick sense of humor. 

Qualities:  Ambitious, fearless, rude, thick skinned, wicked smart. 

Turn offs:  "Does this make my ass look fat?"

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RE: What do you look for? - 5/13/2007 10:29:11 PM   
SimplyMichael


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quote:

What attracts You to a submissive? 


Presence.  A combination of how they carry themselves, physical appearance, style, grace, consideration of others and of course intelligence

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  What qualities do You want Your submissive to have?


Style, confidence and an ability to go from ball gown to seven days hiking without a shower.

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  What qualities completely turn You off?


Smoking, rudeness, button noses, shallowness, Republican values, body image insecurity (which of course is a double standard I am working on), and cheating.

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RE: What do you look for? - 5/14/2007 4:33:21 AM   
HeavansKeeper


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Status: offline 		What attracts You to a submissive?
When I get a feeling that my guidance and teaching will help her in all facets of her life.

What qualities do You want Your submissive to have?
Smart, in the sense that she'll learn quickly.  Outgoing, in the sense that if I say "go fetch your schoolgirl outfit" she might come back with a boy's sized tie and ask if it fits my liking.  She makes it easier to be her Master, instead of harder.

What qualities completely turn You off?
Lack of trust, obviously.  Fear of admitting she belongs to me.  Having to dance around the tulips at a family event because she can't say "I am proudly the pet of HeavansKeeper."

edit: apparently there isn't an "n" in "the"

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RE: What do you look for? - 5/14/2007 6:15:23 AM   
HutchGarahl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlespicyone

I see that this is posted on the "Ask a submissive" board, and wanted to read the other side of it.

What attracts You to a submissive?

The willingness to serve and desire to learn which they don't know.

What qualities do You want Your submissive to have?

Honesty, sense of humor, some smarts, trust, confidence in herself

What completely turn You off?

Lying, cheating, stealing, insecurity, rudeness, lack of trust

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RE: What do you look for? - 5/14/2007 7:41:47 AM   
Mercnbeth


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What attracts You to a submissive?
Self knowledge, and the confidence and strength that derives from it.
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What qualities do You want Your submissive to have?
Integrity.
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What qualities completely turn You off?
Emotional clingy-ness, 'do-me' requirements, paranoia, jealousy.  

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RE: What do you look for? - 5/14/2007 8:10:17 AM   
MstrssPassion


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From: West Palm Beach, FL
Status: offline 		ORIGINAL: littlespicyone

I see that this is posted on the "Ask a submissive" board, and wanted to read the other side of it.

What attracts You to a submissive?
SINCERITY

What qualities do You want Your submissive to have?
I have a great deal of qualities I seek in a submissive, but initially I look for integrity, sincerity, consistency & honesty

What qualities completely turn You off?
Just flip those I listed wanted around... lack of integrity, insincerity, inconsistency & dishonesty


< Message edited by MstrssPassion -- 5/14/2007 8:11:14 AM >

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RE: What do you look for? - 5/14/2007 12:16:36 PM   
MadRabbit


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Status: offline 		I look for...

Similar philosophies on what this "lifestyle" is
Compatibility in vanilla interests
Physical attraction
Respect and devotion despite the fact that I am just simply me without my many flaws.

Turn offs...

Hippies
Vegetarians
Complete lack of an appreciation for good food
Lack of a degree of "down to earthness"
Telling me what to do

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