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Fake Dommes - 5/12/2007 12:48:25 PM   
IWantToPunish


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Status: offline 		OMG all you whiny little "subs" need to grow up.  I have seen sooo many profiles popping up with all this whining about "how fake people are on here" DUH its online. You WILL run into a lot of fakes. Have you ever stopped to think that’s why Dommes ( and Doms I'm assuming ) have been on here for so long and haven't met anyone.  Not to mention the fact that its not the best of ideas to run out and meet someone in real life after only a few times talking online.  I realize that there are some instances where meeting someone that soon has worked out, but with My luck, I would meet the crazy ones that will end up stalking you. 

Just because I am not interested in you does not mean I am fake.

I can’t believe ( well I can ) how many subs are interested in Me and say how pretty I am and how smart and unlike all of the other Dommes and all the other BS they say to try and get attention and then the second I tell them I am not interested for whatever reason, I suddenly become a spoiled little girl just playing around on here.  Its neat how quickly that changes.

Like I said to someone ( YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE ).  Maybe you subs should accept the fact that there are a lot of fakes on here and stop demanding that the Domme PROVE TO YOU that they are not fake in the first message.  So what if you waste a little time talking to someone and nothing comes of it?

I'm sure there have been TONS of posts about this and I don’t really have a question… just looking to rant.  Thanks for reading.
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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/12/2007 1:02:14 PM   
MsKatHouston


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From: Houston, TX
Status: offline 		What matters is you know you are not a fake and the person you eventually end up with knows this too.  All the others...who cares?  Don't let it bother you.

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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/12/2007 1:05:17 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IWantToPunish

OMG all you whiny little "subs" need to grow up.  I have seen sooo many profiles popping up with all this whining about "how fake people are on here" DUH its online. You WILL run into a lot of fakes. Have you ever stopped to think that’s why Dommes ( and Doms I'm assuming ) have been on here for so long and haven't met anyone.  Not to mention the fact that its not the best of ideas to run out and meet someone in real life after only a few times talking online.  I realize that there are some instances where meeting someone that soon has worked out, but with My luck, I would meet the crazy ones that will end up stalking you. 

Just because I am not interested in you does not mean I am fake.

I can’t believe ( well I can ) how many subs are interested in Me and say how pretty I am and how smart and unlike all of the other Dommes and all the other BS they say to try and get attention and then the second I tell them I am not interested for whatever reason, I suddenly become a spoiled little girl just playing around on here.  Its neat how quickly that changes.

Like I said to someone ( YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE ).  Maybe you subs should accept the fact that there are a lot of fakes on here and stop demanding that the Domme PROVE TO YOU that they are not fake in the first message.  So what if you waste a little time talking to someone and nothing comes of it?

I'm sure there have been TONS of posts about this and I don’t really have a question… just looking to rant.  Thanks for reading.


Because there are no dominants whining about how fake subs are because we aren't interested in them.

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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/12/2007 2:27:05 PM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		Um....I stopped reading after the OP started whining about subs being whiny....

give me a break

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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/12/2007 11:45:43 PM   
chiaThePet


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Status: offline 		Chablis, Bordeaux, Cabernet, Chardonnay...............what? Excuse me?

It's about what? OHHHH..............Nevermind!

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/12/2007 11:58:14 PM   
MzMia


Posts: 5333
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Status: offline 		Look I do not want whine with the cheese.
Damn it give me a light beer so I don't have to be on the fat thread.

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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/13/2007 12:35:58 AM   
littlesarbonn


Posts: 1710
Joined: 12/3/2005
From: Stockton, California
Status: offline 		If every woman on collarme who was not interested in me was a fake, that would mean at least three...maybe two...would be fakes, and that just doesn't seem right to me. 

I can't give the many different reasons why jerks throw out accusations that you're a fake because they've been rejected (although that seems like a pretty obvious one there), but I think as long as you know what you are and are seeking what is best for you, then who really cares what random people in your inbox say?


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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/13/2007 12:40:08 AM   
merrysbrat


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From: Minnesooootah
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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: IWantToPunish

OMG all you whiny little "subs" need to grow up.  I have seen sooo many profiles popping up with all this whining about "how fake people are on here" DUH its online. You WILL run into a lot of fakes. Have you ever stopped to think that’s why Dommes ( and Doms I'm assuming ) have been on here for so long and haven't met anyone.  Not to mention the fact that its not the best of ideas to run out and meet someone in real life after only a few times talking online.  I realize that there are some instances where meeting someone that soon has worked out, but with My luck, I would meet the crazy ones that will end up stalking you. 

Just because I am not interested in you does not mean I am fake.

I can’t believe ( well I can ) how many subs are interested in Me and say how pretty I am and how smart and unlike all of the other Dommes and all the other BS they say to try and get attention and then the second I tell them I am not interested for whatever reason, I suddenly become a spoiled little girl just playing around on here.  Its neat how quickly that changes.

Like I said to someone ( YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE ).  Maybe you subs should accept the fact that there are a lot of fakes on here and stop demanding that the Domme PROVE TO YOU that they are not fake in the first message.  So what if you waste a little time talking to someone and nothing comes of it?

I'm sure there have been TONS of posts about this and I don’t really have a question… just looking to rant.  Thanks for reading.


Because there are no dominants whining about how fake subs are because we aren't interested in them.




Haha, you said it.


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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/13/2007 2:11:18 AM   
slaveish


Posts: 1086
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Status: offline 		Life lesson:

When you come and point a beranted finger at a certain section of the population (in this instance, subs and slaves) prior to being generally known or at least properly introduced, one must expect a rather large segment of said section to meet your general rant with opposition and hostility.

In other words, bitchin' at the whole crowd is neither winning you any friends nor validating your point.


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If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other. ~~Mother Teresa

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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/13/2007 5:03:38 AM   
KatyLied


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quote:

OMG all you whiny little "subs" need to grow up. 


Will you please pass this message to the whiny doms, as well?  Thanks in advance.



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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/13/2007 11:41:06 AM   
Najakcharmer


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Joined: 5/3/2004
Status: offline 		HELLO MISTRES.  I AM REEL TOTAL SLAVE.  I WILL SERVE U IN ALL WAYS.  I WILL GIVE U ORAL SEX 4 HOURS AND U WILL MAKE ME LICK UR SHOES.  U WILL ALL WAYS WEAR SEXXY CLOTHES LIKE HIGH HEELS AND STOCKINGS 2 DOMINANT ME.  U WILL B PUNISHING ME ALL TEH TIME ON WEB CAM BY MAKING ME LOOK AT UR HOT PUSSIE.

I CANNOT TELL U MY REEL NAME OR GIVE MY PHONE AS I AM MARRYED, AND I M NOT LOOKING FOR PRO SO I WILL NOT PAY.  U MUST ACCEPT MY REEL TRUE SLAVERY BECAUSE U R REEL TRUE DOMME.

IF U DO NOT RESPOND WITHIN 30 MINUTES SO WE CAN HAVE OUR FIRST HOT NAKED WEBCAM KINKY SEX SESSION, THAN U R NOT REEL.  U MUST BE FAKE.  I HATE ALL U FAKE BITCHES.

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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/13/2007 12:00:36 PM   
Sicarius


Posts: 180
Joined: 2/26/2007
From: New Orleans
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quote:

ORIGINAL: IWantToPunish
Have you ever stopped to think that’s why Dommes ( and Doms I'm assuming ) have been on here for so long and haven't met anyone.


Well, I haven't been here for very long, but my partner and I have idly explored the "online scene" for several years and have had no such luck.  I've met a lot of interesting people and made a lot of friends, but in terms of finding someone for a relationship ... no.

I think that anyone on this thread would probably agree with the statement that being that this is the internet, this sort of thing is to be expected.  It's a lot easier for someone to confess their interests in this lifestyle while comfortably anonymous ... even if they're far too terrified to actually step forward and try it or otherwise prove their identity.

That's not alltogether a bad thing, though.  Hopefully one day these people who are curious but not willing to "take the plunge" will have enough exposure to communities like this that they will take their first brave steps into the larger world that these lifestyles offer.  If it does eventually bring new people in, I guess it serves some constructive purpose.  I don't know about anyone else, but myself and my partner don't really actively 'look' anymore online.  We'll put the profile up and if someone genuine happens to come our way, great ... but the zeal with which one pursues it tends to wane (at least in our experience) the longer one looks online.

For the rest of the posters, I assume that this is ultimately what the OP meant, save for venting frustration at the subs who are demanding instant real-life contact ... as Najakcharmer humorously illustrated.  I imagine there are probably just as many Dom/mes who are guilty of the same thing, though.

-Sicarius

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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/13/2007 1:06:01 PM   
HutchGarahl


Posts: 562
Joined: 1/10/2007
Status: offline 		You want some cheese with that wine?

It's a fact, there are fakers. What do you expect on a place like this? And dear, there are just as many fake doms as well.

But just because someone has been on here for sometime without finding their match, doesn't mean they are fakers. It just means they are cautious.

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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/13/2007 1:06:19 PM   
robertolapiedra


Posts: 520
Joined: 5/3/2007
Status: offline 		Hello IWantToPunish, Let's see... I understand 'whining sub', I understand 'rant'. Do subs whine  and dommes rant? I have a hard time understanding why dommes rant? What for? Feels good? RL.

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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/13/2007 1:21:48 PM   
AquaticSub


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Joined: 12/27/2005
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

HELLO MISTRES.  I AM REEL TOTAL SLAVE.  I WILL SERVE U IN ALL WAYS.  I WILL GIVE U ORAL SEX 4 HOURS AND U WILL MAKE ME LICK UR SHOES.  U WILL ALL WAYS WEAR SEXXY CLOTHES LIKE HIGH HEELS AND STOCKINGS 2 DOMINANT ME.  U WILL B PUNISHING ME ALL TEH TIME ON WEB CAM BY MAKING ME LOOK AT UR HOT PUSSIE.

I CANNOT TELL U MY REEL NAME OR GIVE MY PHONE AS I AM MARRYED, AND I M NOT LOOKING FOR PRO SO I WILL NOT PAY.  U MUST ACCEPT MY REEL TRUE SLAVERY BECAUSE U R REEL TRUE DOMME.

IF U DO NOT RESPOND WITHIN 30 MINUTES SO WE CAN HAVE OUR FIRST HOT NAKED WEBCAM KINKY SEX SESSION, THAN U R NOT REEL.  U MUST BE FAKE.  I HATE ALL U FAKE BITCHES.



Naja.... I love you

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/13/2007 1:24:01 PM   
MadameDahlia


Posts: 2021
Joined: 8/11/2004
From: SoCal aka Hell
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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

HELLO MISTRES.  I AM REEL TOTAL SLAVE.  I WILL SERVE U IN ALL WAYS.  I WILL GIVE U ORAL SEX 4 HOURS AND U WILL MAKE ME LICK UR SHOES.  U WILL ALL WAYS WEAR SEXXY CLOTHES LIKE HIGH HEELS AND STOCKINGS 2 DOMINANT ME.  U WILL B PUNISHING ME ALL TEH TIME ON WEB CAM BY MAKING ME LOOK AT UR HOT PUSSIE.

I CANNOT TELL U MY REEL NAME OR GIVE MY PHONE AS I AM MARRYED, AND I M NOT LOOKING FOR PRO SO I WILL NOT PAY.  U MUST ACCEPT MY REEL TRUE SLAVERY BECAUSE U R REEL TRUE DOMME.

IF U DO NOT RESPOND WITHIN 30 MINUTES SO WE CAN HAVE OUR FIRST HOT NAKED WEBCAM KINKY SEX SESSION, THAN U R NOT REEL.  U MUST BE FAKE.  I HATE ALL U FAKE BITCHES.



Naja.... I love you


Seconded.

Too funny.


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Insanity -- a perfectly rational adjustment to an insane world.
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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/13/2007 7:25:04 PM   
Damocles809


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quote:

ORIGINAL: earthycouple

Um....I stopped reading after the OP started whining about subs being whiny....

give me a break


Why do you have to whine so much about someone whining about how whiny people are! :-P

I mean, it's soooooo annoying!

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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/14/2007 12:27:31 PM   
Kitte9


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Joined: 11/26/2006
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

HELLO MISTRES.  I AM REEL TOTAL SLAVE.  I WILL SERVE U IN ALL WAYS.  I WILL GIVE U ORAL SEX 4 HOURS AND U WILL MAKE ME LICK UR SHOES.  U WILL ALL WAYS WEAR SEXXY CLOTHES LIKE HIGH HEELS AND STOCKINGS 2 DOMINANT ME.  U WILL B PUNISHING ME ALL TEH TIME ON WEB CAM BY MAKING ME LOOK AT UR HOT PUSSIE.

I CANNOT TELL U MY REEL NAME OR GIVE MY PHONE AS I AM MARRYED, AND I M NOT LOOKING FOR PRO SO I WILL NOT PAY.  U MUST ACCEPT MY REEL TRUE SLAVERY BECAUSE U R REEL TRUE DOMME.

IF U DO NOT RESPOND WITHIN 30 MINUTES SO WE CAN HAVE OUR FIRST HOT NAKED WEBCAM KINKY SEX SESSION, THAN U R NOT REEL.  U MUST BE FAKE.  I HATE ALL U FAKE BITCHES.



*sicker*

oops...*snicker*

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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/14/2007 12:37:31 PM   
ShadowMster


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Joined: 7/14/2005
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

IF U DO NOT RESPOND WITHIN 30 MINUTES SO WE CAN HAVE OUR FIRST HOT NAKED WEBCAM KINKY SEX SESSION, THAN U R NOT REEL.  U MUST BE FAKE.  I HATE ALL U FAKE BITCHES.



I guess in his world, many of us would be out of place.  After all, I know I'm able to check and respond to every email message I get within 30 minutes just to prove to some confused moron that he should learn what the caps lock key is (note: Sarcasim here).


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RE: Fake Dommes - 5/14/2007 12:46:06 PM   
amaidiamond


Posts: 1793
Joined: 2/6/2006
From: Watford / London
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

HELLO MISTRES.  I AM REEL TOTAL SLAVE.  I WILL SERVE U IN ALL WAYS.  I WILL GIVE U ORAL SEX 4 HOURS AND U WILL MAKE ME LICK UR SHOES.  U WILL ALL WAYS WEAR SEXXY CLOTHES LIKE HIGH HEELS AND STOCKINGS 2 DOMINANT ME.  U WILL B PUNISHING ME ALL TEH TIME ON WEB CAM BY MAKING ME LOOK AT UR HOT PUSSIE.

I CANNOT TELL U MY REEL NAME OR GIVE MY PHONE AS I AM MARRYED, AND I M NOT LOOKING FOR PRO SO I WILL NOT PAY.  U MUST ACCEPT MY REEL TRUE SLAVERY BECAUSE U R REEL TRUE DOMME.

IF U DO NOT RESPOND WITHIN 30 MINUTES SO WE CAN HAVE OUR FIRST HOT NAKED WEBCAM KINKY SEX SESSION, THAN U R NOT REEL.  U MUST BE FAKE.  I HATE ALL U FAKE BITCHES.



Oooh more please, you make me so hot, damn you make me want to switch *winks*

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