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RE: Is romance desired or just dominance? - 5/15/2007 7:04:53 AM

ennaozzie

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It's between the couple, people are different so are relationships no matter what lifestyle they stem from.
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RE: Is romance desired or just dominance? - 5/15/2007 12:39:38 PM

Einzelganger

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Any sort of long-term relationship I'm in must have romance. I need to be connected to her on more than one level if it's going to last; liking her as the dominant to my submission is not enough for me in the long term. What can I say, I'm a sucker for that look in a dominant woman's eye...nevermind, I'll stop before I say too much. *smiles*

Training is another story, as the goal is not to form a lasting relationship; in that case, all that's required of me (in my humble opinon) is respect, obedience, the will to learn, and an open mind (as always). Just my $0.02...

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RE: Is romance desired or just dominance? - 5/15/2007 1:47:09 PM

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I love and care for my Sir very much as does he love and care about me, yet it is not a romantic love. I am not in love with him nor him with me. My love for him goes past that of loving a good friend and is probably very similar to the way I love my family ( mother, father, brother, sister, daughter, son). But it is defiantly not a romantic love. I hope this makes sense.

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RE: Is romance desired or just dominance? - 5/15/2007 2:10:51 PM

temptressofsouls

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Seduction is 100x more powerful then force. 'Nuff said.

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RE: Is romance desired or just dominance? - 5/15/2007 5:20:00 PM

BlindUnknown

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romance first, THEN i decide whether or not i will surrender control to someone outside the bedroom. my free will is my most precious commodity, and i won't waste it on just anybody.

As for "can i take a momentary lapse in it" i'm honestly not sure. The personality type i connect with is generally reticent, and i know i'm loved because i'm there, many people confuse it with simple friendship, it's how i and many of my past partners operate. i assume you are a more open-hearted person, and this wouldn't apply to you. In such case, unless the sub says otherwise, my -guess- would be, as long as at the end of the day the dom/me reminds their sub how much they are loved (and maybe even when you both first wake up), with that umbrella over you, anything done that day, punishment, beating, etc. can be seen under that lense, and overlooked.

Like i said, my best guess, not concrete knowledge.

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