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effects of anal - 5/14/2007 3:02:14 PM

masterofslaves13

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I just had a quick question to all the sub/slaves out there.
Does anal i.e. butt plugs for prolonged periods and anal sex effect the defication process?
I have a subbie who is really concerned that it is going to effect her bowl movements in someway.
Anyone who experince please comment.

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RE: effects of anal - 5/14/2007 3:20:25 PM

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If its her first time, it will actually make her want to go! Its a natural reflex to the nerves/muscles involved. Really deep anal can cause some issues though, what do you have in mind?

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RE: effects of anal - 5/14/2007 3:42:58 PM

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a good website for you to visit:

http://humansexuality.org

and

http://sexuality.org.

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RE: effects of anal - 5/14/2007 3:45:35 PM

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evalass seems to be the self proclaimed anal expert...

Does anal i.e. butt plugs for prolonged periods and anal sex effect the defication process?

This is MY EXPERIENCE (i love a good deep anal fuck taken hard)...so I only speak for myself.
I have never had need to TRAIN my ass with a fuckin butt plug.
So I havent a clue there.
When a 8 - 10in thick cock... greater than 2" in diameter... attaches itself to my sphincter and shoves in...yes, I feel like I have to defacate. But I never go for such a scene unprepared... and no I dont do enemas.
I am ass fucked at least once a week by my Sir and I neverfeelas if I have to defacate.
But the cumload likes to dribble out slowly and I get all fucking aroused/intoxicated as I hold it in as long as I can...

I am sorry but this IS a delicious topic for me... esp after I spent the afternoon being filled in each hole, double dipped from ass to mouth and then swollowed his load.
Do I rim? hell ya.. and I fuck with my tongue too.

It is beyond me that folk find it such a delicate subject.
Erotic and sensual and intoxicating...all the above, but an ass plug, WTF??

Lube and thrust... or pussy lube and thrust

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RE: effects of anal - 5/14/2007 3:54:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: masterofslaves13

Does anal i.e. butt plugs for prolonged periods and anal sex effect the defication process?

Two words.....

Um, no.

(Of course, you 'could' define 'prolonged', but the answer would probably still be the same.)

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RE: effects of anal - 5/14/2007 3:59:00 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: shyinini

evalass seems to be the self proclaimed anal expert...

Does anal i.e. butt plugs for prolonged periods and anal sex effect the defication process?

This is MY EXPERIENCE (i love a good deep anal fuck taken hard)...so I only speak for myself.
I have never had need to TRAIN my ass with a fuckin butt plug.
So I havent a clue there.
When a 8 - 10in thick cock... greater than 2" in diameter... attaches itself to my sphincter and shoves in...yes, I feel like I have to defacate. But I never go for such a scene unprepared... and no I dont do enemas.
I am ass fucked at least once a week by my Sir and I neverfeelas if I have to defacate.
But the cumload likes to dribble out slowly and I get all fucking aroused/intoxicated as I hold it in as long as I can...

I am sorry but this IS a delicious topic for me... esp after I spent the afternoon being filled in each hole, double dipped from ass to mouth and then swollowed his load.
Do I rim? hell ya.. and I fuck with my tongue too.

It is beyond me that folk find it such a delicate subject.
Erotic and sensual and intoxicating...all the above, but an ass plug, WTF??

Lube and thrust... or pussy lube and thrust

I don't know who evalass is, and no disrespect intended towards you, shyinini, but that paragraph in green has "written by a guy" all over it.

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RE: effects of anal - 5/14/2007 4:04:10 PM

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I'm glad I'm not the only one who was thinking that, windchymes.

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RE: effects of anal - 5/14/2007 4:08:32 PM

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quote:

Does anal i.e. butt plugs for prolonged periods and anal sex effect the defication process?

I'm an anal slut, I LOVE anal; answer to your questions, nope. If anything, it makes em relax and my orgasms are so intense I black out. I was with a Master once who insisted that I sleep with a medium plugg all night, then call him in the morning before removing it; the plug prepared me for that night when he would be using me. I have worn an xl size plug all day before and it never hampered anything; if anything, wearing a plug AFTER anal sex, had almost an enema effect, nbd.

If your sub is worried, have her deficate first, or have a bit of enema play first, then go for it. Be adults and remember, stuff happens.

And Rule # 1 of anal, lots of lube, patience and so slow, but lots of lube, Eros is the BEST out there. A little goes a long way.

Have fun.

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RE: effects of anal - 5/14/2007 4:11:22 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

But that paragraph in green has "written by a guy" all over it.

No. Can't be. This is the CM forums, for Gawdsake. No reason for a man to 'pretend' to be a woman around here. Uh-uh. No way.

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RE: effects of anal - 5/14/2007 4:12:59 PM

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Being a slave that is semi new to anal (maybe 10 times or so with my Daddy) and also as someone that is not "regular" i have found that it actually HELPS me in the bowel regularity area.

It can also make you feel as though you have to go, that is typical, atleast when you are new at it from alot of what i hear and from my own experience.

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RE: effects of anal - 5/14/2007 5:29:34 PM

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To the OP...just checking but the question WAS actually meant to be after the fact right? Like after prolonged? Not the during issue?
(i had to go do something so i couldn't edit my other post )

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RE: effects of anal - 5/14/2007 5:39:21 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: shyinini

I have never had need to TRAIN my ass with a fuckin butt plug.
So I havent a clue there.

LUCKY YOU! :) Alot of people do need that though, it is after all a muscle that needs to be trained to do something that is the exact opposite of what it was intended to do. (and i mean things going out not going in-i'm not suggesting that a cock is shit LOL)

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ORIGINAL: shyinini
It is beyond me that folk find it such a delicate subject.
Erotic and sensual and intoxicating...all the above, but an ass plug, WTF??

It can be a delicate subject for ALOT of reasons...A) Alot of us have been taught that it a huge taboo or that it is dirty/nasty (so there is the mental) B) It is a hell of alot tighter than a pussy- (there is the physical) C) Put the two of those together and alot of times they will team up and work against you when you are trying to do it. your mind won't allow you to relax a super tight area and this leads me to D) it can hurt a hell of a lot until you are accustomed to relaxing your muscles and having something there.

So for all of these reasons using something that will take away the stress of trying to be pleasing until you grow accustomed to the feelings of it all and learn to relax can give you a real leg up on your challenge. So that's WTF a butt plug.

(and NO i don't even try to pretend to be an expert on this, before if is said, it's just common sense/logic for alot of people)

Again, lucky you for not needing to do any of it and just being able to enjoy the sensations of it

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RE: effects of anal - 5/14/2007 7:23:49 PM

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To those who think I am a guy ~ a dude ~ a wannker ~ a CM pretender....

"written by a guy all over it" WTF !!

First I am told I am a peice of shit no good old woman who needs to go get fucked...then that I write like a dude?

ya right !! tink wat u liddo minds want to fink

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RE: effects of anal - 5/14/2007 7:51:11 PM

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I agree with charismagirrl, a lot of people need help with the mental and physical aspects of it. I personally don't think I can do it without first using a butt plug and getting used to the feelings of having something in their and helping stretch it a bit. As to the OP I am new to anal but it makes me feel like I need to use the bathroom when I have the butt plug in and also afterwards sometimes it takes a while for me to have to use the bathroom.

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RE: effects of anal - 5/15/2007 1:31:24 AM

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I'm definately not an expert, having only done anal three times so far with my Master (love it, not really his thing though). But like with the vaginal walls i would guess with long term use the anal muscles would become more relaxed and stretched over time possibly causing some minor problems such as leeking if she has loose stools or the inability to squeeze herself shut if sudden bouts of "oh no, i gotta gooooo" arise..Course this is probably very easily countered with kegal excersizes, and would only likely occur if she was required to constantly wear some kind of anal plug.

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RE: effects of anal - 5/15/2007 1:28:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrjx

quote:

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But that paragraph in green has "written by a guy" all over it.

No. Can't be. This is the CM forums, for Gawdsake. No reason for a man to 'pretend' to be a woman around here. Uh-uh. No way.

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That's my opinion and I'm stickin' with it.

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RE: effects of anal - 5/15/2007 2:49:59 PM

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quote:

Does anal i.e. butt plugs for prolonged periods and anal sex effect the defication process?

The only thing i have noticed is that constipation isn't as painful as it once was.

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RE: effects of anal - 5/15/2007 7:39:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: masterofslaves13

I just had a quick question to all the sub/slaves out there.
Does anal i.e. butt plugs for prolonged periods and anal sex effect the defication process?
I have a subbie who is really concerned that it is going to effect her bowl movements in someway.
Anyone who experince please comment.

From what I've read, buttplugs of excessive girth can cause the sphincter to loosen over time, if used for extended periods of time; this from some anal dilation forums, though.

As I recall, though, the diameter required to cause a lasting effect would be quite significant.

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RE: effects of anal - 5/16/2007 12:41:57 AM

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I met a gay submissive once who had to have a drawstring doodad surgically added because the anus had been stretched to much and finally gave up staying closed when it was supposed to be closed.

From what he said, it was not items of penis dimension which cause that, it was repeated anal assaults with things like wine bottles and the like.

Could have been a load of crap, in a manner of speaking, I was not willing to verify his story for myself.

But there ya go.

Sinergy

p.s. What was amusing to me is the person still enjoyed the hell out of being anally violated by Maglites and Baseball bats.

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RE: effects of anal - 5/16/2007 4:03:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

From what he said, it was not items of penis dimension which cause that, it was repeated anal assaults with things like wine bottles and the like.

While wine bottles sound like a lot of fun, I doubt they are a good idea to use on a regular basis, at least for extended periods of time.

It's certainly possible to cause that kind of damage. Indeed some subcommunities actively try to. Kind of like with prolapses and the like. Me, I prefer it tight so I can enjoy using it more.

quote:

p.s. What was amusing to me is the person still enjoyed the hell out of being anally violated by Maglites and Baseball bats.

For those of us who are into that kind of thing, it's a big turn-on. Personally, though, I draw the line at hands and feet, unless the recipient actively wants me to go for wine bottles and the like.

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