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softness -> How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 1:23:03 PM)

inspired by the TV show that gets women to see the inner sex starlet .. this is one primarily for the girls

i have never spoken to another woman in my life who couldn't criticise something about their body .. lumps ...  bumps ...  wobbles ... marks .. too bony .. too chubby .. we all have something ... but  we (sub/slaves) are here to be pleasing and part of that is presenting a beautiful, sexy secure person to please our Owners. i struggle to feel those things about myself  and know i am not alone .. so lets show a bit of solidarity hey girls?

what do you do to make yourself  feel good naked?

me ? ... big hair ... wet lips ... wide eyes



drawntothedark -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 1:32:54 PM)

Ummm..........freshly lotioned skin. Big hair....sparkly things on my ears. And a pretty sparkly necklace.




lonlyrossInNeed -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 1:38:52 PM)

i think i look great nakes LOL



slaveluci -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 1:42:06 PM)

i make sure to stand in my Master's gaze[:)].  It amazes me how i can be alone and see my body in the mirror and see all my flaws and then later i can be in Master's presence and not see them at all.  The key is that HE doesn't see them.  It's a chain reaction - the beauty He sees makes me feel totally better, forget those flaws i see, and find so much more confidence in my nudity.  This confidence becomes obvious to Him and He delights even more in me then.  It's just me, my beautiful collar around my neck, and a sense of being the most beautiful, pleasing slave in the world (to Him, that is).  That's the best way i've ever found of looking "good" naked.  As someone once wrote: "Beauty is in the eye of the key holder" and i could not agree more.........slave luci



Indemnis -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 1:44:32 PM)

I like myself a great deal.  I'm chubby and proud of that, and attractive, clean, I smell nice, I've always got a pen-- er, wait. 

However, when I want to give myself that extra something, like with my D, I will usually put on lip gloss, make sure I am shaven all over so I'm nice and smooth, and use the "I luff you :)" big puppy eyes.  Baby oil is a very nice addition to my skin, and a flattering, subtle scent.  I also like to scoop my hair over to one shoulder to show off my neck a little. :)

All in all, chances are that no matter what you look like, someone out there thinks you're the most perfect creature on the planet, (or at least very sexy) so why bother listening to that inner voice that tells you how imperfect you are?  We're beautiful.  Period.  We subbies are desireable because of who we are, and not always because of how we look! 



softness -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 1:54:05 PM)

it is amazing how much sexier and beautiful a girl can feel under the gaze of the One who owns her




slaveaurora -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 2:01:06 PM)

I have not been naked in front of Master in over 6 yrs, and I don't intend to be.  
 
I hate my body, I think it is ugly, and so does he.    
 
Sorry, this is not what the OP wanted for a response, but it is MY truth.   
 



drawntothedark -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 2:03:47 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveaurora

I have not been naked in front of Master in over 6 yrs, and I don't intend to be.  
 
I hate my body, I think it is ugly, and so does he.    
 
Sorry, this is not what the OP wanted for a response, but it is MY truth.   
 



Okay, first I don't know you. But I truely believe your not as "ugly" as you think you are. It seems your down in the dumps today.

Beauty comes from many places. the first place it should come from is inside.




softness -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 2:07:35 PM)

blinks at aurora ... sweetheart .. thankyou for sharing your truth with us, there is no need to apologise about how you feel about yourself, if i may ask though aurora why is it that you hate your body?




softness -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 2:10:37 PM)

agrees totally with drawntothedark ... the way your body looks is only part of what makes a person beautiful



Pheonyxx -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 2:14:13 PM)

I agree wholeheartedly with Drawntothedark on the comment that one must find beauty in yourself.  In that vein, I'd like to pose a second question which I will post as a new question rather than being rude and hijacking the OP's. 

For me, I have a hard time accepting that I can be beautiful, however, in my moments of acceptance, I think that it's my eyes, smile and lips that show off the true beauty that I possess.



MistressBastet -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 2:15:44 PM)

I am not a submissive. Well I don't classifiy myself submissive anymore. I started out that way. But anyway back to the thread at hand.

In my regular relationships or bdsm I have a very hard time showing my self naked (makes it easyer being top in bdsm If I choose I can stay clothed)

But when I look in the mirror fo me when my eyes are done up and my hair is done I feel so beautiful and can stand tall and naked.



slaveaurora -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 2:26:33 PM)

quote:

blinks at aurora ... sweetheart .. thankyou for sharing your truth with us, there is no need to apologise about how you feel about yourself, if i may ask though aurora why is it that you hate your body?


I hate my body because i am a bit on the "fluffy" side.   I happen to have a Master that does not like "fat" people, and I don't mean to talk badly about him, he is a great person, but his preference is petite and thin.    
 
He wants me around because he says I have a beautiful personality, and i am a nice person to be around.    But he is not sexually attracted to me.    
 
I guess as his slave, i just want/need to be pleasing to him, and I am not.   So, I hate my body.   
 
The hospital where I work has a employee discount at the gym, and i think I am going to start going.   I will never be thin enough, but it will be better than now.   
 
a~




MstrssScarlet -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 2:34:08 PM)

I'm in a Dom/Domme relationship, but I think I can contribute something here.  I am like the people the OP described....always complaining about something or other, especially as I age.  My husband always reminds me that to HIM, I am the most beautiful woman he knows and that's all that matters.  I know he's absolutely right, but I also know that I'll keep on complaining to myself inside.  Can't help it!!!
Mistress Scarlet



sleazybutterfly -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 2:55:19 PM)

I feel beautiful when M is looking at me.  In the end...isn't that all that matters??



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 2:55:54 PM)

how do i get beautiful and naked when Daddy visits? a day at the spa and treatment of course ...from getting my nails done to a pedicure to massage - i want to feel and look my "best".  it's wonderful knowing that i'm doing all this just for Him.  plus it pleases Him that i take great pride in beautifying myself from head to toes.



slaverosebeauty -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 3:04:33 PM)

I do everything naked. I clean house {when I actually clean it, lol}, I get my makeup on, I do my hair, I pay bills, I watch tv, I excercise, talk on the phone, get online, etc. After a while, it just becomes 'normal.' A few of my neighbors have asked me to 'cover up' not gonna happen, their husbands and boyfriends should NOT be looking in my place, tyvm; if they do, well, its not my problem.

I also know that I am my worst critic, at times I do think its the photogs I have worked with adn for, but for me, I like me naked, I look beautifull, streatch marks, a little 'extra' here and there, freckles, marks, scars and all.

Heck, I am naked right now. [;)]



SunNMoon -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 3:11:15 PM)

(fr)

When I’m with someone, just his/her reaction. Watching them get turned on, I know I’m sexy then.

When I’m by myself. Either one of two things: 1) Spending time being naked (mostly during the summer). Or 2 saying in a superman pose “Super Cubby Girl is off to save the world.” It makes me laugh and feel good about myself. It’s silly but actually works for me. [:D]



softness -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 3:17:10 PM)

loves SunNMoon's superhero pep talk



HydroMaster -> RE: How do you look good naked ...? (5/15/2007 3:21:20 PM)

Hmm, I try not to think about how I look naked.  Nothing good can come of it...only the nightmares again [sm=ugh.gif]



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