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RE: Physical Attractiveness - 5/29/2007 7:39:09 AM

planomaid

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There is the natural inclination of humans to find certain body types to be attractive (curvy, tall, etc). But in today's society a lot of those 'natural' signals aren't the first thing that one finds attractive. Take, for instance, collarme. I'm sure there have been a number of successful relationships that started simply because someone found a post to be 'attractive' to them and they sought to get to know the poster better. And others have been completely turned off by someone saying something without ever having met the person.

In general I tend to think men like to find women who fall within their personally defined definition of beauty and intelligence. But a smile, or a voice or just something can quite conceivably be more than strong enough to overcome any other issues they may have - at least in the short term. Any long-term relationship is going to factor in the whole person, as I don't think you can be with someone (in love I mean) for years and years just because they have the sexiest earlobe in the universe.. :)

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RE: Physical Attractiveness - 5/29/2007 9:59:21 AM

tornaway

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Attraction ? Yes - there must be some for me . Though - I only need look back in my own personal history to see that what attracts me to someone can vary so greatly , even I can't predict what it might be initially !

However once attraction is established , like many others in these forums - there needs to be substance of personality , to keep me there .

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RE: Physical Attractiveness - 5/29/2007 10:55:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

I've met women I was initially physically attracted to. Soon after they started to speak, that ended it all for me and the attraction was quickly gone.

- pixel

A voice can definately do the attraction in for me. Have totally fallen for someone's words on the screen only to progress to a phone call where their voice is like nails on the chalkboard, and i think...can i really do this with this person??? Sadly some accents and a general lack of good verbal skills does have a way of turning me off.

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RE: Physical Attractiveness - 5/29/2007 12:13:03 PM

MistressDolly

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ORIGINAL: DrPleasure

How important is physical attractiveness to you in a partner be it dom/sub/top/bottom/slave/master...

While physical attraction can help create a relationship, it certainly won't maintain it. For me, spiritual, emotional and intellectual attraction plays a more important role, particulary in the long run.

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