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Question about Female Chastity - 5/18/2007 6:55:25 AM

MissOchistic

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I've looked at a lot of chastity devices, and all the men's talk about the ability to wear for a long time, or to be left in it. Female's never mention length of wearability, though...and from the looks of them, they cover EVERYTHING, like a weird leather sumo thong.

What i'm assuming here is that a female can't be left in these for a long time, unless you plan to make them hold everything in. That right? Or is there a neat trick I know nothing about that lets them go to the bathroom?

Also...they look tremendously easy to get around. Can it just be pulled a little to the side, like it looks like? Or are they really more secure than that?

I've never used one and don't think i plan to for these reasons (though the idea is hot), but i'm curious.

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RE: Question about Female Chastity - 5/18/2007 8:53:55 AM

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Hi,

This is website that focuses on female chastity, they have a forum and lots of pictures:

http://mm-media.net/cbtk/

This site is on female orgasm denial with some chastity here and there:

http://tantalism.org/

This is the blog of an elegant English woman who has worn a chastity belt for many years:

http://alison73.wordpress.com/

Tollyboy in the UK makes high quality steel belts:

http://www.tollyboy.com/new/intro.php

William Jones makes steel belts in the US

http://www.williamjoneschastity.com/FEMALEBELTS.html

Neosteel is a German Manufacturer

http://www.neosteel.de/Nsepcb.htm

Locked in Steel is another American manufacturer

http://www.lockedinsteel.com/?Cat=47&CatName=Female%20Chastity%20Belts

I hope this helps.

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RE: Question about Female Chastity - 5/19/2007 8:52:51 AM

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The key thing with Chastity Belts seems to be that they need to be custom fitted for each person and made very close fitting, it's that that gives them the 'comfort'. Not being a woman it's hard to comment, but having been a pervy sod for a long time and reads lots about it, it seems that they do take a period of getting used to and after that, they can become quite comfortable.

I've tried a NeoSteel belt myself and although it didn't fit perfectly, I can imagine you'd get used to it after a while - the feeling of being locked in steel is intensely erotic (to me, anyhow) and likewise, the thought of a partner being locked in steel and handing over the keys to you really gets me :-)

Going to the toilet is a bit messy, you basically pee through the belt and then clean up with toilet paper as best you can, more frequent showers are probably called for as is drying off properly with a hair-dryer after a shower. The general consensus seems to be that you get used to the inconvenience - and after all, isn't a part of the submission aspect? It seems like most people get used to this aspect of it more quickly than the actual wearing of the belt.

For ladies, that time of the month can be more uncomfortable and I think most tend to not wear their belts around this time.

Generally, it seems like it's the men who like to be kept in the belt 24/7, there seems to be very few woman who wear 24/7, perhaps for the reasons above...

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RE: Question about Female Chastity - 5/21/2007 11:54:20 AM

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I have to agree the idea is hot but I too have never been in one as long as I could go to the bathroom I know there is a hole to pee through...but not sure about an opening in the back so to speak.

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RE: Question about Female Chastity - 5/22/2007 4:48:21 AM

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Yeah... those huge leather chastity belts are junk, pretty much. Aubre summed up the bulk of the female chastity links that are of any quality.

Shame nobody makes a plastic female one, though. Guys have the CB-X series for when the leather ones are too short term, but extreme security isn't important. For girls, its the huge jump between the sumo strap and the Neosteel or Tollyboy.

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RE: Question about Female Chastity - 5/22/2007 7:07:33 AM

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It's a lot tougher for women. Women almost have to go with the metal belts like neosteel or tollyboy and usually have to be custom fitted. But I have chatted with women over the net that have done it and it figured it out how to do basically everything while wearing. They are pretty dedicated though and have gotten used to it.

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RE: Question about Female Chastity - 5/22/2007 8:39:25 AM

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Waterhole has experimented with a plastic women's belt:

http://www.water-hole.com/chastitybelt.html

But I am not sure they are selling it - for one, it looks ugly to me, and it looks like it would be very uncomfortable and would chafe.

You can check out bmezine, they are a paysite - if you are interested in chastity piercings. IMO if you go the piercing route it is simple enough functionally to use rings to close off the labia, but one also needs to have a "Clit shield". This is a piece of metal that surrounds, but doesn't touch the clitoris and is held in place by barbell piercings above and below their clitoris, basically surrounding the clitoris with air while not allowing it to be touched. It can't lay against the clitoris because if you do one can use a vibrator against the shield which invalidates the purpose of the shield to start with.

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RE: Question about Female Chastity - 5/22/2007 11:15:23 PM

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Chastity's always harder than anti-chastity.

Especially as a Hitachi magic wand cures viginity if it's held against the outside of a locked metal female chastity belt. The vibrating belt stimulates the areas it's supposed to be protecting, and any plugs fuck the holes they were supposed to be corking.

If your Dom ever feels like taking the other anti-chastity route and ensure your day is never empty. I've found you can assemble a rubber female anti-chastity belt for under $5, that'll stop most toys falling out.

The magic word's to Google are black rubber cargo strap

e.g.
http://www.mcminone.com/product.asp?catalog_name=MCMProducts&product_id=22-1893
available at most hardware stores

Once you've removed the hooks, you've got strong, stretchy, waterproof, easy to clean, smooth rubber straps, with holes at each end for locks.

It's typically narrow enough to fit between the outer labia lips, so walking is still an option. (unless you replace the one long crotch strap with two short ones so you have an anchor point for a humbler)
But it's wide enough to stop anything inserted like a vibe or ginger root, from falling out, no matter how much squirm-dancing goes on.

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RE: Question about Female Chastity - 5/22/2007 11:46:18 PM

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Rather unfortunately, I have to agree with what the posters. Female chastity is a niche thing in a niche lifestyle, unlike male chastity. There really isn't enough of a market for them for someone to create a really good one thats inexpensive without going back to the drawing board. Most of the current make metals ones are ineffective at best, really they only prevent insertion and that it, and like another poster said, not necessary for the vast majority of women. Female chasity belts are more of a pyschological tool rather than a physical one at this point.

If you had the money and the time though, a truly effective one could be completely custom made. Its not impossible if its highly desired, merely very difficult and expensive.

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