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RE: Black leather opera gloves, and a Dominant Lady smo... - 5/26/2007 12:41:21 AM

MistressRouge

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ORIGINAL: dawntreader

Greetings lateralist1,

i did not mean to imply that clothing made the person on either side of the kneel...i merely stated that it can enhance their persona particularly during play. It is just an added embellishment that would not work (particularly inregards to the Dominant) if the underlying dominance wasn't already there. to me anyway...

for instance, if i am meeting someone to play, and i am dressed as they wish and they are dressed in a manner that enhances their persona (or even nude) i am immediately in the head space. But, if they are in an old t-shirt or undershirt and a pair of shorts, socks and no shoes...well regardless of how dominant they are - i have to work a bit harder to get my mind into it. i am merely talking enhancing not creating something with clothing that won't be there when the clothes are on the floor

I agree dawntreader,
Fetishwear does indeed enhance the mood, scene, and the pleasure wrapped up in them. Many fetishes revolve around fetish wear: latex, feathers, corsetry, leather, pvc, heels/boots etc.

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RE: Black leather opera gloves, and a Dominant Lady smo... - 5/26/2007 12:42:53 AM

MistressRouge

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ORIGINAL: Griswold

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

An image I find alluring and sensual, even viewing other Dominant ladies in such scene.
A very Dominant and sexy portrayal for a Mistress, I feel.

In the UK we have a no smoking ban in process, for July.
I will tribute this ban with some new pics and maybe a short film, of Me smoking a cigar in My new elbow length leather gloves (when they arrive from Germany) :)

Before the non smokers start, this is for those that find smoking fetish alluring and excitable.

Ya'll have to quit smoking for exactly 30 days?

I think not Ya'll *giggles*

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RE: Black leather opera gloves, and a Dominant Lady smo... - 5/26/2007 12:46:40 AM

MistressRouge

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ORIGINAL: tatangel

I am sooo glad to see this thread! I recently got torn apart on here because I posted a pic of me smoking on my profile. So nice to meet other proud smokers!

Hello tatangel, great to see you fellow smoker

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RE: Black leather opera gloves, and a Dominant Lady smo... - 5/26/2007 12:49:32 AM

MistressRouge

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As they say "there is no smoke without FIRE"

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RE: Black leather opera gloves, and a Dominant Lady smo... - 5/26/2007 5:58:51 AM

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The long gloves are something I don't have in My accessories. Probably because I prefer the full use and impact of My nails. Something to think about though.

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RE: Black leather opera gloves, and a Dominant Lady smo... - 5/26/2007 6:12:55 AM

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Thankyou for the explanation Mistress Rouge.
The problem is that I don't play.
D/s is the way I conduct most of my relationships.
BDSM is the way I conduct almost all of my sexual relationships.
I don't do BDSM outside a D/s/partner/sexual type relationship.
Therfore I don't do it very often I'm afraid as it's difficult to find submissive men who are capable of a committed relationship.
Then if you add in the fact that I am picky about my lovers things get really difficult.
If I turn up on the first date looking like a pro Domme it doesn't give any backing to the fact that I don't play at this.
However I love dressing up so I dress up as a Domme in vanilla life and dress vanilla in my BDSM life.
Hope that makes sense.

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RE: Black leather opera gloves, and a Dominant Lady smo... - 6/24/2007 5:47:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

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ORIGINAL: lateralist1

I love fetish clothing and I wear most of mine in my vanilla life.
But when did what you wear make you a Dominant?
Given the choice I'd much rather be naked.
However some people seem to have a problem with that.

Naked is great , with a pair of killer heels or thigh boots!

And, of course, so is naked, thigh Boots, and black leather opera gloves..All essentials no optional!

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RE: Black leather opera gloves, and a Dominant Lady smo... - 6/24/2007 6:24:44 PM

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Different strokes for different folks. If you appreciate the sensual allure of such a visual image, more power to you.

Personally my interest in cigars is from the connoisseur's end. When I am savoring an aged Montecristo #2 with a good Cuban espresso, or a Cohiba Trinidad with a glass of old Armagnac, or a creamy, cedar-aged Romeo y Julieta #4 with a young, fruity Spanish brandy, the last goddamn thing I want is anybody staring at me and wanking, expecting me to wear sexy clothes for their benefit, bothering me to scene with them, or otherwise distracting me from my cigar.

Do not get between me and my cigars, or I'm *not* going to beat you. I don't smoke them very often, but when I do, they're serious enough cigars that they get 100% of my attention. I'd just be annoyed and distracted by any scening attempts or fetish nonsense while I was taking personal time to relax with a good cigar.

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