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Kitte9 -> What was your earliest experience? (5/18/2007 7:46:33 PM)
I don't necessarily mean sexual. For instance, when I was a young girl, perhaps seven or eight, my friends, brothers, sister, used to tell each other stories to the sensations we would draw on each other's back. All sensations were used: jabbing, featherlight, trailing fingers to indicate movement, scratches, sometimes letters, etc. I loved that! I believe it is my earliest indication of sensual masochism within myself. How about you?

HutchGarahl -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/18/2007 8:54:47 PM)
About the age of 10. Me and the girl down the street were gooing off, she scratched my back leaving marks....it turned me on. I asked her to do it again and she did. I had wierd felling flow threw I never felt before, but I really liked it. When mom saw the marks and asked, I just told her I fell down a hill. [8D]

earthycouple -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/18/2007 10:35:19 PM)
At age 7 I would tie my sister to the wooden rocker in the living room using jump ropes. I would get so frustrated when she would slip out of my rope. I don't have that problem anymore S

JpnsTigerrrlily -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/18/2007 10:43:20 PM)
I was never sexually abused or molested...but I can remember having sexual fantasies of being tied down or holding others down from...maybe 6 (give or take a year). Right around that age if I liked someone I either hit them or threw something at them... Thank god I've worked on my communication skills since then...now I don't hit someone after we've talked a little first. lol

ready4srvce4all -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/18/2007 10:45:10 PM)
I shared this as a humorous post on another thread, but I used to intentionally misbehave in school to the level I received a paddling. Being able to take the "hardest" paddler in school without crying was a badge of honor amongst some of my friends.

HarleyKitty69 -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/18/2007 10:49:10 PM)
when I found my fathers smud magazines....... I guess it runs in my blood ???

Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/19/2007 3:09:04 AM)
I was probably 6 or 7. A boy in the neighborhood (who was 10 or so) had a crush on me. I liked him as a friend, but not anything more, until he tried to kiss me...lol. He stuck his tongue in my mouth and I bit his tongue. I didn't want it there. But I enjoyed biting it and inflicting that pain on him. He liked it too. He kept trying to stick his tongue in my mouth many times after, with the same results...lol. Ah, that was fun. I wonder how he is.

earthycouple -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/19/2007 4:50:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JpnsTigerrrlily I was never sexually abused or molested...but I can remember having sexual fantasies of being tied down or holding others down from...maybe 6 (give or take a year). Right around that age if I liked someone I either hit them or threw something at them... Thank god I've worked on my communication skills since then...now I don't hit someone after we've talked a little first. lol Just curious as to why you prefaced this with "I was never sexually...." ?

Araven -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/19/2007 8:15:33 AM)
From the various games of cops and robbers, I somehow always found myself in childhood games that involved me surrendering control to the neighborhood girls. Being captured and tied up was great fun [:)]. This was probably around age 7-8. I have one experiance where I was wrestling around with this other girl that was in day-care with me. Naturally I was a bit fiesty, but then something inside, Im not sure what, made me want to give in. So I let her "pin" me, and I said so sweetly up to her "You win" and she gave me a little kiss [:D]. Im not sure why that sticks out so much, but that was probably around when I was 9-10. Those are probably some of my earliest memories and inklings into submission.

MistressLorelei -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/19/2007 8:23:10 AM)
When I was about 10, I had fantasies of tying up 2 famous male child celebrities. My fantasies expanded nightly for about a month at bedtime. I'd pick up where I left the night before. I remember wondering if this was a normal behavior. Don't ask who the child stars were, I loathe one of them as an adult. Aside from fantasy, my first sort of physical sort of 'bdsmy' (an early cuckold experience perhaps in retrospect) experience was while working in a store at age 15, there was a sweet boy who had a major crush on me. He would write me notes, and give me presents..... and then I dated his best. He continued to try to win me over... and I used to bring him along on dates, and tease him a bit. Sometimes he would call me crying, but he remained in my life for almost 3 years.... always met my boyfriends, was there for me at every break-up, and told me he loved me everyday. I kissed him once over those years... and yelled at him the other times when he tried to kiss me or touch me. I have wondered recently if perhaps he is a submissive who may have found this lifestyle. I never did tie up my first boy till I was well into my adulthood. It took me that long to get over feeling like something must be wrong with me.

SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/19/2007 1:26:19 PM)
quote: When I was about 10, I had fantasies of tying up 2 famous male child celebrities. My fantasies expanded nightly for about a month at bedtime. I'd pick up where I left the night before. I remember wondering if this was a normal behavior. Don't ask who the child stars were, I loathe one of them as an adult. OMG I could have written that myself. I did exactly the same thing. Created an ongoing fantasy story of what I would do to one of two very famous young adult males and eventually incorporating both into the same fantasy. LOL I always thought of it as my own personal little bedtime story. Now I'm wondering if they were the same ones. Can you message me on the other side just to satisfy my curiosity if they are the same people? How funny. I really did think I was the only person that did that for the longest time.

thetammyjo -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/19/2007 2:49:11 PM)
When I was four years old, my father took me to a Menards (it's a home improvement megastore). We walked by the sheds and then into the store and by the aisle where the big rolls of chaings were. I remember very clearly thinking to myself: "I'm getting the baby house and the chains and I'm locking all the boys inside until they agree to do what I say."

MistressLorelei -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/19/2007 4:27:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck OMG I could have written that myself. I did exactly the same thing. Created an ongoing fantasy story of what I would do to one of two very famous young adult males and eventually incorporating both into the same fantasy. LOL I always thought of it as my own personal little bedtime story. Now I'm wondering if they were the same ones. Can you message me on the other side just to satisfy my curiosity if they are the same people? How funny. I really did think I was the only person that did that for the longest time. I messaged you on the other side. I have no idea why those two... but oh well, I was young. I'm glad to know that I wasn't the only kid fantasizing about tying up boy child stars!

Trampler -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/19/2007 5:10:21 PM)
lol I am really curious who you both fantasized about! hmm. When I was about 10 or 11 I would walk all over a girl in my neighborhood, then she would walk on me. I remember feeling "squishy" when she would get to my little bits.

KaramelGoddess -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/19/2007 6:25:56 PM)
From age 10 I used to tie up one of my female friends. The act of doing it and seeing how she looked and then tickling her or touching her made me feel very warm and tingly inside. There was always the fear of being found out, but we never were. As a teenager I went very deeply into the Church, and I really believed I was a sinner and a deviant. But as an adult I found new freedoms (both mental and sexual) and thanks to the internet, was introduced to BDSM...and I realized there were others like Me, and that I wasn't so deviant after all. With kind regard, ~Kara

Lordandmaster -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/19/2007 6:26:45 PM)
I knew I was different as a kid when I used to dream about crucifying and torturing naked women.

AAkasha -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/19/2007 6:47:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei When I was about 10, I had fantasies of tying up 2 famous male child celebrities. My fantasies expanded nightly for about a month at bedtime. I'd pick up where I left the night before. I remember wondering if this was a normal behavior. Don't ask who the child stars were, I loathe one of them as an adult. Aside from fantasy, my first sort of physical sort of 'bdsmy' (an early cuckold experience perhaps in retrospect) experience was while working in a store at age 15, there was a sweet boy who had a major crush on me. He would write me notes, and give me presents..... and then I dated his best. He continued to try to win me over... and I used to bring him along on dates, and tease him a bit. Sometimes he would call me crying, but he remained in my life for almost 3 years.... always met my boyfriends, was there for me at every break-up, and told me he loved me everyday. I kissed him once over those years... and yelled at him the other times when he tried to kiss me or touch me. I have wondered recently if perhaps he is a submissive who may have found this lifestyle. I never did tie up my first boy till I was well into my adulthood. It took me that long to get over feeling like something must be wrong with me. As a kid I did the same thing at bedtime, but not with child actors. It was Batman and Robin from the TV show. Every day at 4:00pm on channel 13. I was glued to it. I also remember some scenes from movies on tv that I would replay in my head; I used to watch James Bond movies with my mom, who thought I was very "bright" for liking these adult movies (of course they were edited for tv), but I just wanted to see someone tied up. I remember Goldfinger and Live & Let Die as being huge to me. Akasha

onthenosetone -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/19/2007 10:19:31 PM)
I was seven or eight a little girlfriend stood for half an hour or so lashing me with a bit of hose pipe, we did the in the bushes thing after, i showed her mine then she refused to show me hers, i wonder as i'm now very much into tease and denial and punishment if this is what set it all off[&o]

SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/19/2007 10:53:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei quote: ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck OMG I could have written that myself. I did exactly the same thing. Created an ongoing fantasy story of what I would do to one of two very famous young adult males and eventually incorporating both into the same fantasy. LOL I always thought of it as my own personal little bedtime story. Now I'm wondering if they were the same ones. Can you message me on the other side just to satisfy my curiosity if they are the same people? How funny. I really did think I was the only person that did that for the longest time. I messaged you on the other side. I have no idea why those two... but oh well, I was young. I'm glad to know that I wasn't the only kid fantasizing about tying up boy child stars! Got it..and replied. I think you'll get a giggle out of it.

newsub4training -> RE: What was your earliest experience? (5/20/2007 12:40:07 AM)
When I was twelve a girl tied me up to a pole and made me smell her feet. Since then I knew I was a submissive.

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