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RE: A sub with two Doms - 8/17/2007 9:02:02 AM

PureAmbrosia

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well to add to this i have two Doms,,, but both are married so have other commitments which doesn't allow the time reqired spent with me so both agreed taking on a second was a good idea..and they dont cross each others paths or get involved in the others sessions...and it works out just fine...especially as one is a bondage Master and one is not so i get the best of all worlds i guess...how ever it does have its down side...can get lonely of a night time...so still searching for the single one lol and both of them are well aware of that fact....also i don't think in this situation that a sub can be collared to one or the other...Doms have pride as well and it would automatically create issues....ok that's my two bobs worth lol
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RE: A sub with two Doms - 8/17/2007 9:25:08 AM

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I would not say that i have two Doms. I serv only one, but i do have a training Dom who assist Master with some of the finer points of training that Master is not expert in. they are friends and talk constantly ( sometimes they talk to each other more than me.lol) i must say it has been an enlightning experience and i hope it continues for a long time to come.
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RE: A sub with two Doms - 8/19/2007 10:09:55 AM

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Thank you for reviving this thread. .. Though the particular situation has changed, I am still examing this possibility in my life.

Thank you all for your contributions.

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 8/19/2007 10:43:31 AM

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I'm also greatful this post got revived. Many great points have been made. As I read them I feel there is a defining difference between serving more than one person and having more than one Master. Doms/Masters can, and in many cases, do share there partners which I see nothing wrong with. Open communication and everyone having the same desires has been mentioned all over this post. Therein seems to lie the most important aspect to consider. Or am I off base?
I'm still very new to the lifestyle so in my eyes I cannot Master/own/collar anyone and fulfill all my sub's needs at this time. My desire is very much there but my experience/training/confidence in such responsibilities still need to be worked on.However in my current relationship I am also very much not okay with becoming the "second" Dom and be dictated by another Dom or Master's desire of her; mostly because we've been together for over two years. These are my limitations so I know that a scenario like this cannot work well with me. But that doesn't make it good or bad for anyone else. It's just my reality.

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 8/19/2007 1:54:37 PM

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I think the bible has it correct, not that I think it sacred or holy, it is just a very accurate observation of human nature.

But if you have a structured relationship, with clear lines of authority it can work.

E.g. a girl working here is 'mine' when she is in my office or the workshop or at an event I am running.

Or my wife's if she is in the house or at an event my wife is running.

Whoever recruited her has the final say whether she is in my office or the house ...

I works for us; but my wife and I have worked out how to always back each other up.

Without that knowledge and trust it is a recipe for chaos.

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