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pinksugarsub -> RE: My last word on this subject (5/22/2007 5:05:19 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Shylahgirl
I have noticed a few things regarding the post on this web sight… and I will be the first to admit that I do not go through every post to check this… but it seems to me that for almost every post there are the same 3-4 people who always respond with something negative about the posters problem.
Personally whenever I post something regarding an issue I’ve been having with something involving BDSM and ask for advise I always get one or all of these people chiming in with their $.02 telling me how my Master or I are doing something wrong or we are in some way bad players or bad people.
Of course I try to give more info, because I assume that I wasn’t clear in what I was asking. The problem with that is that I can never give enough info to clearly show why I am asking this question or what is really involved in the situation Every time I do this something else in what I said is picked out and torn apart as Master or I being bad people and I, of course, feel very attacked and start to get defensive.
The odd thing is that these 3-4 people who are always poking holes in others posts and saying negative things about the poster or what ever don’t seem to be starting threads them selves (at least I haven’t seen any). I wonder why they don’t post threads.
How do they find the time to go around and chime in on all of these other threads? Are they just a wealth of unlimited knowledge and it is their purpose in life to go to the collarme posts and point out something that is wrong with people?
Should I get down on my knees and bow to these peoples years of online experience?
I say that they have online experience because out of all the mean remarks I have not yet had a hint that they have experienced BDSM in real life.
Out of all the responses I have received for these people I have not yet been help by anything they have had to say, I have been upset by it. I have felt attacked. I have been confused as to why they think that saying, indirectly, that my Master or I are bad people would help me with my problem. But I haven't read anything from these people that has helped me in any way.
I know that I’m going to get a lot of pissed off people responding to this with angry words… I don’t care. If people have the right to be negative to me and say needlessly mean things about my Master or I, then I have the right to bitch and moan about it.
Go ahead and yell and bitch at me… no matter how much you type... no matter how big your caps are I will not change what I believe on this and I still will not care from this point forward. when you post something that is just pointlessly mean I will just laugh at you ;)
Shylah
First, thank yr lucky stars that yr self-image is not dependent on being able to be cutting on these boards.
Second, go ahead and use "block". Better a little confusion than 'net stress.
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