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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 12:32:43 AM   
chiaThePet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Ok., chia, that's it!!!   Exactly where were you when I lived in the west?


Bowing at the bowl Mamm, awaiting Your arrival.

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 12:46:19 AM   
Calandra


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The little things are the cement that holds Me and My slaves together.
 
My beloved cubby, (bless his heart) will do things that he KNOWS I hate to do. I have a very weak stomach, and if one of the dogs or cats are sick, he cleans up after them without even telling Me. He never has to be told what needs to be done around the house. If anything, his expectations of himself are higher than Mine. I have to ramp him down on a fairly regular basis. He also gladly does the mundane things that would bore Me out of My skull...
 
I love his generous spirit...

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 12:53:57 AM   
littlesarbonn


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In a few days, I'm helping a dominant friend of mine move. I'm helping her because she's a friend, not because she is a dominant. I think that distinction gets lost on a lot of submissives who keep looking to be dominated rather than to be submissive and helpful.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 4:14:25 AM   
JeniferJuniper


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Being a slave is all about giving pleasure to their Master/Mistress – in ALL things, and at ALL times.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 4:24:41 AM   
VeryMercurial


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Sounds like something to strive for.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 6:25:47 AM   
nonu


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It's nice to see that all those little things that we do without being told are actually noticed and appreciated this way.

Doing something for a Dominant is a reward in itself - whether it is noticed and appreciated or not. After all, if we were to do something with the purpose of being noticed, then it wouldn't amount to submission or service at all!

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 6:37:19 AM   
MistressDolly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

As a Cosmetologist, and having been awarded the title Master Hair Designer,
(though the title makes me chuckle given my submissive nature) my day is
filled with the fortune of service and pampering of Wonderful Women, ahhhh
there is a God!  i take special note of the, later in the day clients, rushing in
during rush hour, adrenalin pumping, one more thing to accomplish before
They can head for home and a comfy couch. i have them sit first, offer something
to quench the thirst, or satisfy a caffine urge, all the while gently touching and
softly massaging Their neck and shoulders while confirming the plan for
uplifting Their appearance, and in the course of, spirits. When i sense Their
breathing has relaxed and Their muscles less tense, i escort them to the shampoo
basin, lining the cold porcelin with a soft inviting towel. i place my hand gently
mid-back and guide Them slowly into the cradle of the basin, allowing for
personal movement as They settle in, and as most will do, take that deep body
and mind cleansing breath. i speak softly to again comfort and relax the client,
gently placing my hand across Her hairline to protect Her from any straying
sprays of water. The bathing of hair and scalp at just the right temperature, tested
on the wrist much like an infants bottle, warm and soothing, pausing at the nape
to relax tense neck muscles. The cleansing shampoo is worked within the palms
of the hand to warm with friction before smoothly applying to the hair from
hairline to the ends, beginning with soft methodical motion as it is penetrated
into the hair. Slow sweeps of massage glide along the hairline to the temples,
pausing to rotate in gentle circles before slowly returning to the point of origin.
Fingers apply firm but pulsating strokes across and down the scalp, lifting the
hair and tense moments of the day up and away. i continue with massaging
movements until i sense the client is totally relaxed and calm. i begin again
with a warm rinse and follow the above technique as conditioning treatment
is lovingly applied. Most husbands or lovers should send me a note of thanks
as i release the days tension well before sending their mates back into their
world, absent the firey torments of the day. The passion to serve continues
with each glide of the comb, each turn of the brush, each sweep of warm
air as it bathes and creates movement about Her. They are small things in Her
day, small things to mere man, but here in the heart of a submissive, it is a
banquet of passionate servitude to behold. And i will confess to loving those
moments when a man is foolish enough to accompany Her to me, as my touch
will linger just a few moments longer, just to see his discomfort as i continually
run my fingers through Her hair, to watch his eyes as She closes Hers and tilts
Her head to meet my lead. Yes, it's the small things, it's a small world after all.

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)   


Ahhh, the key to a man's happiness ...  pity so few men are in the know.  ;P 

You're precious.   

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 6:38:31 AM   
MistressDolly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JeniferJuniper

Being a slave is all about giving pleasure to their Master/Mistress – in ALL things, and at ALL times.


Indeed, Ms. Juniper. :)

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m y s p a c e


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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 7:39:55 AM   
MissOchistic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

As a Cosmetologist, and having been awarded the title Master Hair Designer,
(though the title makes me chuckle given my submissive nature) my day is
filled with the fortune of service and pampering of Wonderful Women, ahhhh
there is a God!  i take special note of the, later in the day clients, rushing in
during rush hour, adrenalin pumping, one more thing to accomplish before
They can head for home and a comfy couch. i have them sit first, offer something
to quench the thirst, or satisfy a caffine urge, all the while gently touching and
softly massaging Their neck and shoulders while confirming the plan for
uplifting Their appearance, and in the course of, spirits. When i sense Their
breathing has relaxed and Their muscles less tense, i escort them to the shampoo
basin, lining the cold porcelin with a soft inviting towel. i place my hand gently
mid-back and guide Them slowly into the cradle of the basin, allowing for
personal movement as They settle in, and as most will do, take that deep body
and mind cleansing breath. i speak softly to again comfort and relax the client,
gently placing my hand across Her hairline to protect Her from any straying
sprays of water. The bathing of hair and scalp at just the right temperature, tested
on the wrist much like an infants bottle, warm and soothing, pausing at the nape
to relax tense neck muscles. The cleansing shampoo is worked within the palms
of the hand to warm with friction before smoothly applying to the hair from
hairline to the ends, beginning with soft methodical motion as it is penetrated
into the hair. Slow sweeps of massage glide along the hairline to the temples,
pausing to rotate in gentle circles before slowly returning to the point of origin.
Fingers apply firm but pulsating strokes across and down the scalp, lifting the
hair and tense moments of the day up and away. i continue with massaging
movements until i sense the client is totally relaxed and calm. i begin again
with a warm rinse and follow the above technique as conditioning treatment
is lovingly applied. Most husbands or lovers should send me a note of thanks
as i release the days tension well before sending their mates back into their
world, absent the firey torments of the day. The passion to serve continues
with each glide of the comb, each turn of the brush, each sweep of warm
air as it bathes and creates movement about Her. They are small things in Her
day, small things to mere man, but here in the heart of a submissive, it is a
banquet of passionate servitude to behold. And i will confess to loving those
moments when a man is foolish enough to accompany Her to me, as my touch
will linger just a few moments longer, just to see his discomfort as i continually
run my fingers through Her hair, to watch his eyes as She closes Hers and tilts
Her head to meet my lead. Yes, it's the small things, it's a small world after all.

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)   


Dressers like you, my friend, are the very reason the smell just inside the door of a hair salon is my favorite smell, and I always pay the little extra for the shampooing, even when I don't need it.

I swear, you provide one of the greatest legal services in all of Vanillaland.



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is more than two, but less than three."

"Submission is a potlatch."

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 9:48:12 AM   
canupleaseme


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Ohh I love having my hair washed and dried by my boy
He somehow manages to get it so curly for me and its so sweet. 
I think the nicest little thing he has done for me that springs to mind is him stroking my hair till I fell asleep.  I had really bad tooth ache and couldnt get to sleep properly it was lovely and made me feel all loved and looked after


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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 1:56:27 PM   
MissHarlet


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All of the above suggestions are wonderful and rarely thought of. Other things for me are takeing the car to have the oil changed, bringing home a basket of fresh berries for my dinner, reading to me on a night I cant sleep, keeping wood split for the fireplace, makeing sure my favorite scented candles are in the house and lit, stroking my hair to help me unwind, picking wildflowers .. so many little things make a submissive invaluable to me .. much more so than the once in a while grand gestures

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 1:57:51 PM   
MissHarlet


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And Chia ... I will pick you up at the airport in a few hours lol

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To be respected you must be respectful, to be loved you must be willing to love,
to be trusted you must be willing to trust.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 2:03:58 PM   
Unrepentant1


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Papmering your Mistress, has got to be the best part of being a sub1 What is better than seeing the one you love happy and contented? You get back 10 times what you put in.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 3:48:10 PM   
VeryMercurial


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All these activities sound wonderful.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 9:34:51 PM   
Kitte9


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Chia, I had tingles running across my scalp just reading your reply. Having my hair washed at the barber's is one of my self-pampering indulgences. Hell, if they're good I ask if I give them 5 dollars will they do it again!

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 10:29:55 PM   
chiaThePet


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Dearest Ladies,

NakedGirlScout, LadyPact, MistressDolly, MissOchistic, MissHarlet, Kitte9,

Thank You so much for the kind notice, why i think i'm even blushing, ah heck,
i blush all the time when in the presence of Beautiful Women, They just have
a way of bringing out the boy in me! Hmmmm, maybe a traveling RV complete
with Hair station, manicure-pedicure chair, and of course the must have massage
table. chia*'s "Winnebeggo Of Pampering pets For Persons Of Power". Coming
soon to a city near You. <SLAP> "Keep your eyes on the road boy, you almost
flattened a Dom back there by the Dairy Queen!" "Yes Mistress" Varoom Varoom

With Love and Respect, chia* "submissive running with scissors"  (the pet)





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Love is a many splendid sting.

You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 10:36:12 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Little things are the ones tat have the least amount of forethought put into them, which is why they are usualy the best.  Things that come straight from the heart without planning. Angel loves to brush my hair. I miss it, every time I came to visit before I moved, that was our morning thing. I showered and he brushed my hair. *sigh*
And on our first meeting, Truitt helped me with folding laundry.  Granted it took twice as long with help as it would have alone, but the thought was what counted. I know it was his excuse to spend more time with me, becasue I had originally said we had to part ways becasue I had a few chores to finish. It was stil sweet.

DV

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/22/2007 12:00:33 AM   
MsCece2u


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I have to agree with all of the Ladies.  It is the little things that mean so much.  It shows that they were thinking of you.  And chia reading your post made me want to run to the nearest hair salon

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/22/2007 6:50:06 AM   
chiaThePet


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ORIGINAL: MsCece2u

I have to agree with all of the Ladies.  It is the little things that mean so much.  It shows that they were thinking of you.  And chia reading your post made me want to run to the nearest hair salon


Dearest MsCeCe2u,

Yes, sometimes the smallest packages contain the greatest gifts.

And by way, i have the fortune to include in my glorious Clientele,

many wonderful Women of Color. Part and parcel of my

"No Domme Left Behind Act". Have a good hair day!

With Love and Respect, chia* "Dyeing To Please You" (the pet)  

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Love is a many splendid sting.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/30/2007 12:13:50 PM   
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we're women that's why we love feeling loved and cared for, i think that we think about those things and appreciate it so much because care and love are deep in us.

i'm a slave and on occassion my Owner will do something out of the ordinary, there's been a few times when He's even made me cry out of happiness.  One thing I absolutely love like the OP says is when my Owner will have me turn around when i'm facing Him in the shower and He'll wash my hair, or He'll draw a nice hot bubble bath for me in the jacuzzi tub, there's so many things and even though i'm the slave it just feels so nice to know that He does think of me too. 

alot of people say that i shouldn't have those feelings or thoughts but i do.  i dont see it as selfish and i hope no one else does either it's just nice and this post made me think of those situations and appreciate them more because i dont get the caring side of my significant other that often.

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