PUBLIC HUMILIATION

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Metman -> PUBLIC HUMILIATION (6/1/2004 2:03:09 AM)
My wife/mistress loves to humiliate me in public. She has scolded me and slapped me in shopping mall, restrauants, etc. Have others had the same done to them? We are in our mid 50's and have lived this lifestyle for over 30 years.

GoddessMarissa -> RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION (6/1/2004 4:43:20 AM)
I myself dont care for public humiliation, but i do like correcting behavior and showing sub how to be respectful in the right ways as well as using honorifics. I dont care to slap or physcically humiliate in public but do enjoy more discreet ways with training in public. When in public I dont believe it's right to do humiliation because children can see this and take it in a wronge way. So as far as public humilation goes I try to use more caution.

MistressDREAD -> RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION (6/1/2004 6:07:16 AM)
yes I have used public humiliation in many ways in the public eye and towards those whom desire to have public humiliation applyed. Of course those whom desire humiliation register this action sum times as a show of affection so one has to understand its reasoning and its wanted desire by those whom seek it. (sidenote) I see kids slapping.jumping.pulling down pants. pulling hair verbally cussing out others walking with pants falling off and underwear taking center stage, talking back and hitting grown folks in public and generally being VERY LOUD and obnoxious and this is VERY common. My humiliation towards those whom desire it would simply be a jumping board for a parent to discussion issues with the child if they see it applyed in public and what manners are and teach them right from wrong so they would not end up being like the kids I see so much of in public now days whom humiliate WAYYYY more harsher and more commonly then what We are use to in Our daily lifes so I would tend to disagree a bit with your reasoning Marrissa but to each Their Own. Ive used both physical, and mental humiliation in public from slapping or pulling hair to making a slave carry his leash connected to his collar or wearing CD wear or bowing down to Me and kissing My feet or sitting next to Me on the floor in a restaraunt and being fed by Me amone other things. Remember its not just the person whom the humiliation is being applyed to but more importantly how and what the end reaction is by the recipient and how the One giving the humiliation is looked apon in doing so. So those whom are on the recieving end by choice remember after showing your humiliation ALWAYS return such with a smile or a show of sum kind of affection such as a cheek rub against the arm and a simple yes My Mistress to let those others around in the nilla society know that whats going on is sumthing YOU ACCEPT and the Giver of the humiliation in your eyes is NOT doing sumthing wrong for the TWO or more of you.

inyouagain -> RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION (6/1/2004 6:28:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessMarissa When in public I dont believe it's right to do humiliation because children can see this and take it in a wrong way. So as far as public humilation goes I try to use more caution. Precisely, and an excellent point Marissa. There are general public places, (shopping malls, restaurants, etc), where children are present and any physical humiliation acts should be avoided in common sense. There are also semi-public places (parking lots, large parks, etc) where the prevalence of children is much less, and a smack or act of humiliation would be less likely observed by children. You both as adults have a responsibility to safeguard your play from certain others in public, especially children. Having a gullible and innocent child observing someone's Grandmother slapping or verbally blistering the Grandfather in the Mall is totally uncalled for, and cannot be justified. Take this type of activity to the golf course, shuffleboard court, or any other place away from children's observations. Your public play may come to haunt you, as I personally witnessed an off duty military officer who was still in uniform wind up in deep legal shit, for slapping his child on the butt in public. This happened at a courthouse annex, where the officer, wife and child had gone to pay his auto registration fee, and his child was having a tantrum (to go to the Mall). The chastisement was witnessed by several Sheriff's Deputies, and a State Prosecutor. The prosecuotor instructed the Deputies to take the officer into custody and charge him with child abuse. This escalated to the military base, and to his Commander who charged him with a violation of the Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ), in conduct unbecoming of an officer. The long and short of it was the officer had to take time off from his military duties to attend counseling, was placed on probation and Anger Management, and had to pay court costs and fines, plus probation and Anger Management costs... while being Courts-Martialed by the military base Legal Office. He was found guilty, and reduced in rank from Captain to 1st Lieutenant, and subsequently shipped off to finish his hitch in Korea, alone. His wife was also blacklisted by the military wives at the base, and she ultimately started dating another Captain and filed for a divorce from the now 1st Lieutenant in Korea. All from a slap on the butt to his own 6-7 year old child who was having a fit in public. This example may seem out of context with regard to public humiliation, but I listed it to simply illustrate that what you understand to be, or find acceptable in public may in fact NOT be perceived as acceptable by those around you in public. When you chose to do public humiliation play, stay away from the courthouse! Inyouagain

MistressDREAD -> RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION (6/1/2004 7:19:35 AM)
sorry Inyou but your sample goes to show just how stupid the laws have gotten that a parent cannot punish a child whom is actiing out of bounds. Sorry but I absolutly disagree with this whole sinerio and this is why now there are no kids whom obey rules or manners or laws for that manner at a disaporpreate rate. The father was right a slapping on the butt in public by a parent to a child whom is unruly is doing their job as a parent to teach. The laws in place are wrong and extream to one side in their causes to protect children OVER adults. This was not abuse, this was punishment and done in front of the authorities eyes which would tell Me that Im sure what the slap was or could not of been nearly close to abuse and this is why the laws sumtimes that are put in place go way overboard of whats needed for protections sake. Sorry but I believe in corporal punishment for wrong deeds. and Ive seen the differance in a generation that believed in it and one that does not and I can even see where its going to take Us in the future and Im sure time will set this one straight. He should of been given a medal for correcting his child instead of being ruened for life for it. I dunno but am I the only One here whom sees this as a Man being totally Wronged? Or am I that Outdated?

MistressDREAD -> RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION (6/1/2004 7:32:03 AM)
quote: When you chose to do public humiliation play, stay away from the courthouse! hahah funny You would say that Inyou I actually was going thru the check point at the front of a courthouse with one of My slaves to attend a tax deed sale off and he dident remove his contents while passing thru and had to go back thru and I slapped him upside the head. No one said a word to Me about it and there were about 11 officers looking on at Us then. LOL I guess My actions dont look like jail bait to sum.

January -> RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION (6/1/2004 1:31:58 PM)
Public humiliation like slapping in a D/s context doesn't seem to SSC to me. One party hasn't given consent. The unwitting, innocent vanilla public observer hasn't. Vanilla adults are just as innocent as their children. I don't see it as a legal problem for the slapper/slappee as much as an ethical problem. I know some folks regard any compromise in public D/s behavior as PC, and that may be true. But at the same time, I think those who believe they can humiliate their properties in public shouldn't complain about the consequences, like bdsm "witch hunts". Writing from the underground (and closet), January

proudsub -> RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION (6/1/2004 3:49:22 PM)
quote: Ive seen the differance in a generation that believed in it and one that does not and I can even see where its going to take Us in the future and Im sure time will set this one straight. Ain't that the truth!!!

ShadeDiva -> RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION (6/1/2004 10:21:49 PM)
I'd agree, but that being said - there are ways to do public humiliation without the public ever seeing or knowing a thing. Wearing little accessories (undergarments, chastity devices, painted toenails, curled hair, vibes, clamps, plugs, etc etc etc) and then reminding them where theyare and feeding them little scenerios while manipulating them to jostle said things (plugs can be made quite noticable by pressing subtly but firmly down upon someone's shoulders, vines turned on, a close brush of bodies or against a wall, like in a crowded area where they have to brush against a wall to get by and having that affect the equipment, etc - I'm tired so not thinking too creatively, but you get the gist) can do a world of public humiliation without ever affecting or being in view of the nonconsenting public or making them even remotely aware. Being in public doesn't have to equate being in the spotlight or even noticed, after all. ~ShadeDiva

MistressDREAD -> RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION (6/2/2004 8:02:04 AM)
interesting thoughts January but the SSC goes for the partisapants and if the partys agree to such activities it is not the business of any outside of the activity if such activitys seem to be enjoyed. Of course there is the fine line and this is where training comes in and learning how to react to situations while in the public eye positivly so that those whom happen with in site of the humiliation know it is done concensually and it is desired. Like the suplicant thanking the giver for such activities so that those whom witness it know it was desired. Give Adults and kids sum credit, They are smarter then the average bear. Actually if you go to any mall on any given day I can assure you that if you take a seat and watch the people for a hour or so can count many humiliating acts performed out by vanilla that are totally over looked as well. Sum shouldent be even but are and most are nnot concensual as We are. JMO

MistressDREAD -> RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION (6/2/2004 8:07:12 AM)
true diva but for sum its the public humiliation thats the stimulating factor. Its way better to keep it in a controled manner then to have the say * flashers* out and about trying to gain the same ffeelings and attentions by their actions. How one acts and reacts to the situations posed is how the pubic eye views it as either being positive or negitive and today society accepts way more then it use ta. diva GO TO SLEEP! goodness dont cha know waiting till the body is exhausted will cause wrinkles on that purdy face!

sub4hire -> RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION (1/31/2005 2:59:49 PM)
quote: My wife/mistress loves to humiliate me in public. She has scolded me and slapped me in shopping mall, restrauants, etc. Have others had the same done to them? We are in our mid 50's and have lived this lifestyle for over 30 years. The only humiliation Doug and I have done, was the humiliation like Shade described. No one could detect it but us. We're big on non consentual scenes, well not big on them. However we do not want to put an innocent bystander within our scene. So, we try our absolute best to protect the innocent. It is hard enough rasing kids in today's day and age. Let alone to have complete strangers do something unsavory in front of them. Possibly corrupt them for life.

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