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RE: Pride in a sub/slave - 5/22/2007 12:46:20 PM

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as a non super model. im not a trophy. Sir loves me for me. what others think is irrelevant.

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RE: Pride in a sub/slave - 5/22/2007 7:19:46 PM

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While Aqua is far, far more to me than arm candy, I do enjoy a bit of preening when someone gets into a "anything you can do, I can do better" BDSM contest. It's really more of a party trick than anything else, but I still usually end the contest. In addition, I'm apparently "delicious" according to Aqua and a bisexual male acquaintance, so I'm sure that she enjoys showing me off, a bit.

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RE: Pride in a sub/slave - 5/22/2007 8:19:27 PM

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There is nothing I have that I take more pride in than beth. I show her off at every opportunity. I present her as a reference to anyone who asks for information. she does not represent "real" or "true". The only 'dogma' she considers absolute is between us in our relationship. she is 'naked' even when fully dressed. she represents honesty, integrity, trust, dedication, and commitment. she 'glows'. she represents me, she represents us.

I have no idea what she looks like to others, and have reason to care. To me her beauty isn't represented by her appearance. It is however beyond compare and will be there every time I look regardless of how much time has passed.

In answer to your question, I doubt my pride is "healthy". It is too obsessive to be so. But I have no desire to be cured.

Absolutely beautiful!

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RE: Pride in a sub/slave - 5/23/2007 4:20:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

There is nothing I have that I take more pride in than beth. I show her off at every opportunity. I present her as a reference to anyone who asks for information. she does not represent "real" or "true". The only 'dogma' she considers absolute is between us in our relationship. she is 'naked' even when fully dressed. she represents honesty, integrity, trust, dedication, and commitment. she 'glows'. she represents me, she represents us.

I have no idea what she looks like to others, and have reason to care. To me her beauty isn't represented by her appearance. It is however beyond compare and will be there every time I look regardless of how much time has passed.

In answer to your question, I doubt my pride is "healthy". It is too obsessive to be so. But I have no desire to be cured.

That is incredibly beautiful. Lucky you. Lucky beth. Thank you for sharing your heartfelt words with us.

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RE: Pride in a sub/slave - 5/23/2007 7:28:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
In answer to your question, I doubt my pride is "healthy". It is too obsessive to be so. But I have no desire to be cured.

Amen. As much as ours wish to please and take care of us, I think the energy spent in return can be labeled as "obsessive" - but I see nothing wrong with it either.

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RE: Pride in a sub/slave - 5/23/2007 11:57:44 AM

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Dear ProlificNeeds, Ladies and Gentlemen;

In my mind's eyes I see, there is more than pride at work when I have the honor to introduce my slave to others and my admiration for their services. It is in my mind's eyes; my intent to profess my love for that slave as much as my happiness in the slave's personal growth and our special relationship.

Indeed, it is easy to only see negatives but, it takes resolve to push the positives to the fore.

As a Master/Mistress reflects upon their slave, so too a slave reflects upon their Master/Mistress. Too often false positives, which are for public consumption leads others to believe the relationship is happy and growing. I've seen many deem themselves experts on relationships that are happy, only to see them without their slave and or Master within two years or less.

Some Masters/Mistresses do 'thump' their chest as to show their latest arm charm as it is to create attention to themselves, often for political, social and or personal agendas--the slave really is the vehicle but not really in the partnership, thus some feel used and have been the power behind some success which alone these 'thumpers' would never have aspired to on their own. The same can be in reverse.

Public and private behaviors are often never the same with those who use public posturing of power and expertise as to fool the whole community. I personally do not look at the public figures as prime examples of leadership. I look to those quiet and unassuming couples who do not attract much attention to themselves but, their eyes flood with their love, devotion, honor and committment to each other.

It really goes to the person's "spirit of intent" behind their words to an assembly of individuals. Some may be inspired by how good intentions of drawing attention and acknowledgement to their other half; as to inspire others. Again, its all in the spirit of intent / intensions of the person behind the attitude, behavior and the words.

Just some thoughts.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
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RE: Pride in a sub/slave - 5/23/2007 4:07:51 PM

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I have always tried to be a good slave for my Mistress. That way She can be proud of me and take pride in showing me off, in any fashion She chooses too.

Sometimes those ways have been fun. Sometimes being shown off can be "interseting" as well.

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RE: Pride in a sub/slave - 5/23/2007 5:08:35 PM

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I have taken mine with me to events, do I deliberately do anything to show her off, no. Still, she is looked on as a wonderful sub and I have been told that by others and that they always look forward to my bringing her with me, Is some of the idea of showing you off because of your age and how you look, probably, especially if it is an older Dominant. Is it unhealthy, I sincerely doubt if your being shown off and told you are good, even if indirectly, can be unhealthy to a sub.

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