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Vendaval -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 12:42:57 AM)
The "block" and "delete" key are your helpers here. We all get random spam and nasty messages. You got your CM cherry popped, that's all. Welcome to the Forums. [:)]

Aileen68 -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 3:38:39 AM)
You have to make sure that when you deny deny deny that your dick is tucked away and out of sight.

Mercnbeth -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 6:56:35 AM)
And you took it seriously and it concerned you enough to leave the CM site? What would happen if you found a partner and declared yourself with no-limits concerning him. If someone challenged that position of 'no-limits' would you feel obligated to go on webcam and poke out your eye to prove it? This is the internet. You can't be attacked, dominated, submit, or experience any sensation unless you apply it to yourself. Enjoy yourself, don't feed the fools making demands of you. Don't give them any legitimacy by qualifying yourself based upon filling their demands. Whether you are a she-male or not, you don't need to prove it to anyone.

pinksugarsub -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 7:18:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kayora This has been upsetting me for sometime and is a reason why I left collarme the first time. I've been called by three different "doms" that I'm posing as a male or shemale because I wouldn't let them see me on webcam. They said that they wanted to because my features don't look feminine. The first one apparently made a thread on the message boards about me saying that I'm a shemale and posting my yahoo messenger name. There is a chance that all three could be the same guy as I've searched the boards and haven't found a thread that contains such information. If anyone does find it though could you please post a link to it? Kayora, posting personal information, such as a YIM nick, or stating (falsely or otherwise) that a particular poster is a TV/TS/TG or CD seems to me to violate the TOS for CollarMe generally and the specific TOS for the General BDSM Forum as well. You might want to contact support and report the poster, with the specific post included. Thing is, S/someone will have to help you if you don't already know how to reach the generally-applicable CM TOS, or the Support Team, because i can't seem to find either one. BTW, you certainly look feminine to me. This whole thing sounds like a scam by some 'nilla guy to get wanker material through yr cam.

LadyEllen -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 10:56:34 AM)
I think possibly the problem for such guys who see fit to accuse others in such a way, do so as a symptom of their neurosis at having a very tiny penis. Naming someone a "shemale", they are desperately trying to justify their own status as male, by pointing out that some other "male" is less male than they are. Its a similar problem for gals who undertake the same behaviour. The neurosis they feel at being unattractive both inside and out, makes them name others as "shemale" et al, in a pathetic attempt to bolster their own feminine identity, by claiming that some other female is less female than they are. So, to the pitifully endowed males and fugly females out there who behave in this way, all I can say is that I'm sorry. I'm sorry that I happened to have been well in front of you guys in the queue for genitalia and if it helps, more sorry for myself on that count. And I'm sorry too, for having been so far ahead of you gals in the queue for looks and personality. But hey, thats the luck of the draw I'm afraid. E

Suzykeu -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 11:06:02 AM)
LadyEllen's post made me laugh ^_^

Sinergy -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 11:11:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen I think possibly the problem for such guys who see fit to accuse others in such a way, do so as a symptom of their neurosis at having a very tiny penis. Naming someone a "shemale", they are desperately trying to justify their own status as male, by pointing out that some other "male" is less male than they are. So I should have gotten upset last night because I danced with somebody who had an Adams apple? My sexual self-image was not negatively impacted by the experience. She was not bad, although I am still working on leading my Lindy outside turns. I keep clotheslining my partners. Sinergy

LadyEllen -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 11:47:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sinergy quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen I think possibly the problem for such guys who see fit to accuse others in such a way, do so as a symptom of their neurosis at having a very tiny penis. Naming someone a "shemale", they are desperately trying to justify their own status as male, by pointing out that some other "male" is less male than they are. So I should have gotten upset last night because I danced with somebody who had an Adams apple? My sexual self-image was not negatively impacted by the experience. She was not bad, although I am still working on leading my Lindy outside turns. I keep clotheslining my partners. Sinergy I'm not understanding what youre saying Sinergy - and I fear you might have misunderstood what I said! I wont say any more in case people talk, but in my estimation you are one of the few here who wouldnt get upset about the likes of me. E

Sinergy -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 12:38:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen quote: ORIGINAL: Sinergy quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen I think possibly the problem for such guys who see fit to accuse others in such a way, do so as a symptom of their neurosis at having a very tiny penis. Naming someone a "shemale", they are desperately trying to justify their own status as male, by pointing out that some other "male" is less male than they are. So I should have gotten upset last night because I danced with somebody who had an Adams apple? My sexual self-image was not negatively impacted by the experience. She was not bad, although I am still working on leading my Lindy outside turns. I keep clotheslining my partners. Sinergy I'm not understanding what youre saying Sinergy - and I fear you might have misunderstood what I said! I wont say any more in case people talk, but in my estimation you are one of the few here who wouldnt get upset about the likes of me. E No worries, LadyEllen, I understood what you posted and I agree entirely with your post and have no issues with people of whatever flavor works for them. It was a feeble attempt at a joke on my part, and a self-deprecating comment about my (lack of) dancing ability. Sinergy

Kayora -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 2:46:29 PM)
Thank you all very much for your opinions they are helpful. I won't let this bullshit get to me anymore, who really cares about the remarks of some jackass who can't get a girl even if they were covered with flowers and chocolate? The minute I see anyother so called "dom" that pulls that again I'll give them a good piece of my mind then promptly use my block and delete buttons.

Sinergy -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 3:05:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kayora Thank you all very much for your opinions they are helpful. I won't let this bullshit get to me anymore, who really cares about the remarks of some jackass who can't get a girl even if they were covered with flowers and chocolate? The minute I see anyother so called "dom" that pulls that again I'll give them a good piece of my mind then promptly use my block and delete buttons. The problem I have with giving people a piece of my mind is I have so little mind to begin with, I cannot afford to just be going around giving it away to every Tom, Dick and Harriet CHUDWAH that comes down the pike. I figure they can get their own if they really want one. As Danforth Quayle pointed out "What a waste it is to lose one's mind mind, or not to have a mind, how true that is." Sinergy

NakedOnMyChain -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 3:10:46 PM)
That really sucks. I would recommend ignoring him and/or reporting him to the powers that be for slander. Also, block him. I was once asked if I was a man or a woman in a gay bar on drag night. I laughed, considering that I'm very obviously female, my husband was with me, and the man in question said he found it hard to tell anymore since he'd just gotten out of prison after 25 years. (Eek! In the words of my husband, "25 years?! He probably killed someone!")

Arpig -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 3:18:23 PM)
quote: Pretty sure most of us have been called a man atleast once at one time or another. Funny...nobody ever called me that on here...asshole, jerk, tool of the ruling class, but never man...I am jealous[:D]

Sinergy -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 3:23:53 PM)
I will take one for the team, Arpig, and officially call you "Man." Sinergy

akisha -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 7:42:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig quote: Pretty sure most of us have been called a man atleast once at one time or another. Funny...nobody ever called me that on here...asshole, jerk, tool of the ruling class, but never man...I am jealous[:D] LOL i knew atleast one guy would have to comment on that [:D] thanks Arpig and yes gasp your a man giggles

Arpig -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/23/2007 7:49:58 PM)
Thanks Sinergy & akisha...now I feel so.....manly [:D]

LadyEllen -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/24/2007 1:38:28 AM)
Nah. Arpig is definitely a woman - the brow ridges, jawline and beard are dead giveaways. E

Masque66 -> RE: Being Called A Shemale (5/24/2007 5:52:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kayora Thank you all very much for your opinions they are helpful. I won't let this bullshit get to me anymore, who really cares about the remarks of some jackass who can't get a girl even if they were covered with flowers and chocolate? The minute I see anyother so called "dom" that pulls that again I'll give them a good piece of my mind then promptly use my block and delete buttons. Later on I'll have to cover a girl with flowers and chocolate. It might not make it easier but it'll be fun. ...someone's blocking and deleting me now, aren't they?

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