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Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 5:59:10 PM   
Kayora


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Status: offline 		This has been upsetting me for sometime and is a reason why I left collarme the first time. I've been called by three different "doms" that I'm posing as a male or shemale because I wouldn't let them see me on webcam. They said that they wanted to because my features don't look feminine. The first one apparently made a thread on the message boards about me saying that I'm a shemale and posting my yahoo messenger name. There is a chance that all three could be the same guy as I've searched the boards and haven't found a thread that contains such information. If anyone does find it though could you please post a link to it?
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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 6:01:22 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Sure, in the meantime ignore dumbass guys posing as doms.

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 6:02:42 PM   
ToysAndTies


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Status: offline 		That just sounds like a pathetic attempt on their parts to get a naked photo out of you.  Sorry if it hurt your feelings, but until collarme comes with an Asshole filter, they'll keep sneaking in.  Best of luck.

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 6:07:00 PM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		I ditto the first two posters....who cares what random people think?  If they want to question you then say good bye and find someone with whom you are compatable.



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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 6:12:54 PM   
CrimsonMoan


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Status: offline 		Some guys are dogs by nature sometimes and sometimes Doms are BIG DUMB DOGS. its as simple as that. 

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 6:21:25 PM   
Masque66


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Status: offline 		As a big dumb dog enthusiast I find it offensive that you've gone and compared these kind and gentle animals with such repulsive attempts at humanity.  *pets his big dumb dog.* It's ok, buddy.

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 6:32:12 PM   
Sirandlittle1


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Status: offline 		And putting more of your very precious time and energy into a waste of time and energy is benificial to you how?

People will only ever treat you as you allow them to. Use your block, delete buttons and the 'force' will be with you.
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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 6:34:06 PM   
MstrssPassion


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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 6:49:35 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		Um there would be no such thread as the ops would have deleated any thread containing someone elses or anyones personal info aspecially one directed at a person in order to be mean or discredit them. Its against TOS. So dont worry about that, also dont let creeps get to you some guys just get pissed when you wont bow down to them and give them nude photos or cam with them so they can get their rocks off.

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 7:22:00 PM   
akisha


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Status: offline 		Don't sweat it and don't take it personally. Pretty sure most of us have been called a man atleast once at one time or another.

My second time in over two years was today. Yup cause i won't dance naked for some moron on a web cam I'm a guy. Funny how I have multiple pictures on my profile but whatever

LOL who the heck cares what some jackass with the iq of an knat thinks?  How does this effect your life or better yet why are you letting it effect you? By doing so then you are giving said moron control which is even dumber to be honest.

My response to my particular moron today was " If your opinion mattered to me then I would care, good thing it doesn't" 

You might want to think about it in those terms. What some idiot thinks about you doesn't matter in the least. It's what you think of yourself.

< Message edited by akisha -- 5/22/2007 7:25:11 PM >

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 7:30:08 PM   
CrimsonMoan


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Masque66

As a big dumb dog enthusiast I find it offensive that you've gone and compared these kind and gentle animals with such repulsive attempts at humanity.  *pets his big dumb dog.* It's ok, buddy.


Because even the dumbest gdog is still smarter than the average jerk off here on cm.

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 7:42:12 PM   
Aubre


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Status: offline 		This is pretty standard dumbass behavior. Just move on.

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 9:17:02 PM   
stella40


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sirandlittle1

People will only ever treat you as you allow them to.

little1


Now I don't quite get the logic behind this statement. So you're telling me someone gets their car stolen because they 'allow' it? A woman gets raped because she 'allows' it?

IMHO just as with theft and rape, there is NO justification for rudeness or insulting someone. Just because someone lets you insult them doesn't make it okay.

To the OP - I'm TS and I get called a man quite often not just by men but also women. I understand where you're coming from because not long ago I got hounded off another BDSM website by several rather nasty and hostile individuals. It got to the point where I thought 'online or not, if this is the BDSM community is becoming then I want out'.

Every so often I also get nasty messages from people who just have to pass comment, but then again I get nice and kind messages too, particularly on Collarme from not just other Dommes but also male Doms.

It's easy to say you shouldn't let it bother you. I know I shouldn't, but sometimes I can't help it. I'm a thinking, feeling, emotional human being. I have my sensitive issues, and because of this yes I can be hurt and I can be offended. I am not a stone, I am a person.

But I know who I am, so do my doctors and the people who know me, and this for me is enough. If someone's prepared to challenge this without even bothering to get to know me well I'm sorry, but they're the idiot.

Remember that people will always judge you within the limits of their own intelligence and the remarks they make about you say much more about them than they do about you.

Don't quit.

< Message edited by stella40 -- 5/22/2007 9:20:41 PM >

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 9:19:25 PM   
Masque66


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Status: offline 		That is kind of an odd idea.  But it is true that if you throw logs at a fire it'll only burn longer.  Best thing is to just keep ignoring them and deleting them.  When it comes down to it they didn't have anything worth saying in the first place, did they?

Same for you, Stella.  I'm sorry you've had such a bad experience with it.  There are decent people out there, really.

((edited because I wrote the wrong word)) 

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 9:26:42 PM   
stella40


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Masque66

Same for you, Stella. I'm sorry you've had such a bad experience with it. There are decent people out there, really.

((edited because I wrote the wrong word))


Thank you. I'm no different from the rest, everyone has bad experiences. I just feels it's important to dwell on the positive experiences.

I'm lucky, I have a truly wonderful Domme. Some people don't have that. All they have is a monitor, keyboard and mouse.

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 9:34:44 PM   
Gauge


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Status: offline 		Hey, don't feel bad.

I was accused of posing as a kinky 41 year old, balding, slightly overweight guy.

Wait...

Nevermind.

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 10:00:53 PM   
slaverosebeauty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Masque66

As a big dumb dog enthusiast I find it offensive that you've gone and compared these kind and gentle animals with such repulsive attempts at humanity.  *pets his big dumb dog.* It's ok, buddy.


Don't insult dogs....

To the OP.. you had an encounter with a troll, its normal around here. Welcome to the club.

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 10:14:56 PM   
Masque66


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty

Don't insult dogs....



Oh don't be like that.  If she weren't so dumb she might realize I'm just a lowly mortal.  Then I'd be out one puppy.

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/22/2007 10:22:06 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Laugh!

quote:

ORIGINAL: Gauge

Hey, don't feel bad.

I was accused of posing as a kinky 41 year old, balding, slightly overweight guy.

Wait...

Nevermind.

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RE: Being Called A Shemale - 5/23/2007 12:35:38 AM   
Sinergy


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I asked somebody to dance this evening.  She was tall, wore a lovely dress, had a deep sultry voice, and as I spun her into a Lindy outside turn I noticed she had an Adams Apple.

Oops.

I thought about it for a minute, then realized I was enjoying the dance and thanked her when the song was over.

I remember my dance instructor (male) coming over to me in class one day and asking me to show him how I lead my sugar pushes.  We got into closed position, I looked at him and asked "who leads?"

The internet allows idiotic people to have their 10 minutes of fame in cyber anonymity and be the obnoxious jerk who should have their head pinched in 3rd grade.  I would suggest you simply ignore the ignorant and rude.  Any response you give them simply feeds their bile.

I know a few Shemales.  Nice people.  Probably a lot nicer than the mental midgets calling you one.  You could be compared to far worse.

Sinergy


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