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Scene Suggestions - 5/23/2007 4:25:22 AM   
subsnow


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Status: offline 		What have you done in some of your scenes? How did they play out? Beginning, middle, and end.

i'm looking for ideas on scenes where my Dom is the recipient as well as scenes where i am the recipient. So far, we have only done scenes where i am the recipient. i don't think my Dom or i were aware of the fact that it could be the other way around as well. We are both still very new at this so we need a little help now and then.
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RE: Scene Suggestions - 5/23/2007 4:54:06 AM   
Schmerzmeister


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Status: offline 		Several ideas come to mind; however, for clarity sake I have put some questions to J under separate cover.

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RE: Scene Suggestions - 5/23/2007 5:34:59 AM   
Schmerzmeister


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Status: offline 		Ahh...now that I saw your other thread, the QBQ becomes clear.

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RE: Scene Suggestions - 5/23/2007 6:38:43 AM   
WhiplashSmile


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ORIGINAL: subsnow

What have you done in some of your scenes? How did they play out? Beginning, middle, and end.

i'm looking for ideas on scenes where my Dom is the recipient as well as scenes where i am the recipient. So far, we have only done scenes where i am the recipient. i don't think my Dom or i were aware of the fact that it could be the other way around as well. We are both still very new at this so we need a little help now and then.


It is difficult to suggest scenes without knowing what kinds of kinks you guys are into.  For instance I'm a Dom that has a masochistic streak, so I don't mind being the recipient of a little pain.  Not all Doms have a Maso streak.  Anyways, to come up with a scene take a basic idea and expand upon it using your known activities you enjoy.

Let's take a basic idea..  A Massage Parlor, where your Dom is the recipient and you are the top.   You start off topping him..rubbing him down with body oil, giving him a massage.   However, little did you know that it was a serial rapist that was visiting your parlor today.  Somewhere in the middle of the session, he grabs hold of you by the hair, forces you into doing body worship.  You are now on your knees in front of him.  The trick is for him to assume the role of being The Mean Forceful brut.. you might pretend to put up a little bit of a fight, where he slaps your face, and verbally humiliates you, to get you down on your knees.  

So far this scene incorperates; Massage, Hair pulling, Face Slapping, Verbal Humiliation, Forced Sex in the form of Body worship.  If these activities are not hard limits for either him or you, then this might be something to try.

Let's say you are not so coOperative in body worship, he might need to slap your face a little more, or pull your hair some more.. to force this activitiy along.

I don't know if you noticed this but the Dom has been mostly on the recieving end of this scene so far.  All this without even breaking out any bondage gear.

Now what happens next in the scene?  Does he decide to kidnap you or does he proceed to ruff you up a little more.. Tear off your clothes... perhaps pull out a knife and cut off your clothing and tear it into strands of frabic to bind your hands and feet with.   This all depending upon the activities you are comfortable with.    If your Dom has never cut and torn up clothing to make it into strands of frabic for binding... it might be an awkward moment in the scene.   The strands need to be narrow and long enough to be used like rope would be.   Something to think about the next time you're looking to toss out old beat up clothing (great practice material).   People often speak about practicing how to use floggers, however there are plenty of other skills to practice up upon as well.  Shredding clothing into make shift rope or strands for binding requires a little skill. 

You might not want to have your clothing torn up, or even see the sight of a knife come out into play.  You might want to consider using Bondage tape and pretend it's a roll of duct tape.   Hell, some people will go as far to rip off lamp cords.  Then again you might not want to deal with replacing the cords in your lamp later.  All depends upon how realistic you want to get with this.  I know I've replaced my share of lamp cords in life or otherwise fixing up things after scene play.

I'm trying to not only outline an idea here, but also how to come up with an idea and outline your own scenes.

Hope this helps you some.


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RE: Scene Suggestions - 5/23/2007 6:51:18 AM   
canupleaseme


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Status: offline 		I always plan my scenes down to the last detail.  I have a start a middle and an end. I like to plan things that start off slowly and build up so I can watch him at his best and then bring him back down and finish off slowly.  I always have everything laid out that I need for each scene so that everythings to hand.  Nine times out of ten at some point something ive not thought of will happen too , sometimes it doesnt follow to plan at all lol.  I love the planning of it all and then watching it work out.  I wish sometimes I was more spontanious with it but we have limited time together so planning is essential, especially with an u.m to take into consideration.

When you say you want him to be the recipiant too in a scene what do you mean by that ? Do you mean recieving a spanking type thing or being bound? Its hard to suggest something because I'm not sure what you are into etc.


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RE: Scene Suggestions - 5/23/2007 7:19:04 AM   
WhiplashSmile


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Status: offline 		Here's another tip for you.  Many of us used to role play out things as children.
You know things such as Cowboys and Indians, Army, Doctor, and whatnot.
It helps if you can step back inside your childhood imagination at times to
come up with basic scene ideas.


Here's a tip for coming up with quick simple scenes...

Also, think of childhood games/activities you used to do.  Twister, Hoola
Hops and other things.  You'll find you can often combine these with a little
BDSM.

For example: 

Take the Game of Twister, Two slaves (clothed) and a flogger.
Each slave has to forfiet a piece of clothing everytime they fall,
Once naked each slave gets a lash of the flogger everytime they fall.
This makes things fun, painful and a little humilating.

You and your Dom could play this game together, where you have forfiet
pieces of clothing first, however have to take a lashs of the flogger after that.
This only works if both you guys are into pain.  It's a little hard to present
ideas to you, not knowing what he's into recieving.

Does not have to be a flogger, it can be a paddle, a crop or whatever else
your heat desires.

I'm just trying to give you some food for thought here.  Scenes can be really
simple to being really elaborate.

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RE: Scene Suggestions - 5/23/2007 7:19:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Knowing your situation, I'd say start out slow and easy, make it stuff that you already do and put a fun kink twist to it.

Otherwise, go read some good kink porn and see what you get from that.

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RE: Scene Suggestions - 5/23/2007 2:28:51 PM   
subsnow


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the suggestions. i didn't think of roleplaying honestly. i liked the serial rapist massage parlor scene.

i am open to anything at least once so all suggestions would be helpful. J isn't into pain but i am. Someone suggested that we try a scene where my Dom was the recipient but i'm not sure exactly what that would entail so i thought i would see what i got. J and i have tried a lot of different things so far so i think it would be ok for us to do some riskier scenes.

What have you yourself done in your scenes? If you don't mind sharing, tell me a scene or two that you did. How did it go?

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RE: Scene Suggestions - 5/24/2007 12:53:30 AM   
WhiplashSmile


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ORIGINAL: canupleaseme
I always plan my scenes down to the last detail.  I have a start a middle and an end. I like to plan things that start off slowly and build up so I can watch him at his best and then bring him back down and finish off slowly.  I always have everything laid out that I need for each scene so that everythings to hand.  Nine times out of ten at some point something ive not thought of will happen too , sometimes it doesnt follow to plan at all lol.  I love the planning of it all and then watching it work out. I wish sometimes I was more spontanious with it but we have limited time together so planning is essential, especially with an u.m to take into consideration.

I have been thinking about this post on/off the biggest part of today.  A lof of work can go into planing and preparing a detailed scene and pulling it altogther.  Where it actually turns into special occasion of sorts, just like a suprise birthday party.  Other things might be planned in tandum with a special detailed scene such a candle light dinners and whatnot.  I know there were a few times I wish I could have had a tempory service slave for helping prepare everything.  Instead I had to slowly prepare and bring it together.  Actually in a sense it's kinda romantic, this is stirring some fond thought and memories.. even a few funny moments when I was almost busted... moments when my scheming plans were almost discovered.

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RE: Scene Suggestions - 5/24/2007 1:28:16 AM   
WhiplashSmile


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Status: offline 		Here's something else to consider doing, is reading up on the different BDSM activities people do and experiment with them a little.  You don't have to get carried away to extremes while exploring these things.   You might just make a Great night of trying some new activities together, or something new in an activity itself.

For instance Body Art.  Then can be a very sensual and pleasurable activity.  I know I love the Hell out of feeling somebody simply draw on my back, arms and many places on my body.

I Love this activity so much, that I've actually talked women into drawing on me while I was out at clubs or bars.  Interesting to see what kind of Tatoo concepts somebody comes up with.   This actually approach somebody with drawing on me.  The last time this happened, I noticed the Girl next to me drawing on napkins.  I asked her what she was drawing.. she showed me! It was really awesome the things she was doodling out, I said hey that would make for an interesting Tatoo.. how to you think that would look on my arm here?  Then we got to talking about what would cool on me.  I said draw it on me!  She was a little amazed or stunned for a moment.  However she took the pen and started right to work on it.. Ahhhh.. I felt like I was in heaven.

Anyways, you might explore this activitiy together.  It's interesting to see what kinds of things you can come up with for Tatoo ideas and draw them out.   You could draw it out on paper, then move to skin.  I gives me tingles feeling somebody draw on me.  I take delight in seeing what the others artwork as well.  Going into the bathroom looking in a mirror to see my back. 

I find the use of the word tattoo sparks people's imagination.  If I just ask them to draw on me they tend to have a more difficult time coming up with shit.   Tattoos can be some many things, simple Tribal designs work are easy to do.  So you don't need to be highly artistic to do this.   Half the experience is the sensation the person feels being drawn upon, it's not the goal to create an artistic master peice.

You could take pictures of your body artwork using a camera.  You could start keeping an album of it all.  In time this album will grow along with memories of this activity.  You might find yourselves a year later flipping through pictures and having great conversation about remember this.

You might simply want to do BDSM activities together with trying to turn it into a heavy scene.  Sometimes just doing a lot of simple BDSM activities together through out the week can make a big difference, instead of trying to cram everything in a major scene at the end of a week.  

I'm trying to offer some alternatives to the typical dungeon play scenes, or what I call "Virgin at the scarifice Alter" scenes.  A lot of the BDSM porn online tends to focus on Dungeon themes.  

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RE: Scene Suggestions - 5/24/2007 6:50:28 PM   
subsnow


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Status: offline 		Anybody else? Tell me your story. Describe some of the scenes you've done. How do you play? i'm surprised that more people aren't willing to share what they've done.

Whiplash, thank You for Your ideas. i sent my Dom a message about them. We'll see where He takes it now. Thank You for Your suggestions.

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