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ewasub -> are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/23/2007 11:39:23 AM)

i mean where he would essentially be taken and never seen again.  he would exist to serve and please his Domme and only her closest confidants.  i think the other option is OWK and it is a 100k entry fee if i am correct.
thank you for all of your responses.



earthycouple -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/23/2007 11:43:51 AM)

yes those people are out there.  If you can conceive it, someone will do it...(not me, but someone).



thetammyjo -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/23/2007 11:47:40 AM)

For me, part of my slave's job is to make my life easier.

My life for the most part is in the mundane, mainstream world. If he is to make it easier, he must be involved in that world as well.

I sure there are people out there who can and will offer you this, ewasub, but I'd urge you to be cautious about such people. I suspect they either have a greater fantasy then reality bent or they might not really be interested in Ds or BDSM or SM but only in abusing someone.

Good luck in your search.



LadyEllen -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/23/2007 11:52:35 AM)

Personally, I'd be equally suspicious of someone who wanted to disappear like that.....

E



chiaThePet -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/23/2007 11:54:20 AM)

Help me, i'm in a box in the........

"WHAT ARE YOU DOING THERE BOY!"

"TURN THAT DAMN THING OFF AND

GET YOUR HEAD BACK IN THE BOX

RIGHT NOW!"




MadameDahlia -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/23/2007 12:58:32 PM)

thetammyjo and LadyEllen both bring up excellent points about the scenario.

Someone who isolates another person may not be kinky... they may just end up being criminal. Those who abuse others often seek to isolate their victims, cutting off lifelines and support from family and former friends. They encourage the burning of bridges, so that the person they seek to control and manipulate has no one to turn to when the dust settles.

On the other hand... someone looking to completely vanish (not hold down a job, pay taxes or in any way report to the outside world) may have something nefarious to hide. Perhaps they've jumped state lines, leaving a handful of bodies behind in their previous state. Perhaps they owe heaps in unpaid child support.

In either case, it's a bit suspicious. Not everyone looking to suck someone out of circulation has villainous intent. But it's highly suspect if that seems to be a primary focus of theirs or if they seem overly eager. Likewise, someone who wants to simply vanish might just be hiding a mud caked shovel, some twine and tarp.



BeatMeDaily -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/23/2007 1:01:45 PM)

that is always a great fantasy but reality jumps in at some point.  Employment, missing
persons APB's, family, property...

I would love to. any takers !!  LoL



asubmissiveheart -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/23/2007 4:14:55 PM)

keep dreaming



littlesarbonn -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/24/2007 12:21:56 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Personally, I'd be equally suspicious of someone who wanted to disappear like that.....

E


I don't get suspicious over that at all. I've known a few submissives in the past that have actually become involved in such relationships. I've known a few that have actually sought after such a relationship, and when it was sprung upon them, they suddenly jumped up and ran away, realizing that the fantasy was far better than actually having that fantasy met. If I ever came across this situation in real life, if she was the right woman, I'd jump at it in a heart beat. There's nothing really all that substantial happening in my life other than my writing that would cause me to think that I need my regular status to continue as is. Once I found the person who represented my desire to serve and the ability to do just that, my outside life would be irrelevant to me. I don't think I'll ever find that, so I continue producing in my normal life. But I wouldn't be suspicious of people if they decided to disappear like that.

I think we are WAY too critical of the motivations of people. If someone desires to achieve an ultimate state of slavery, I'd applaud that person, not criticize him/her. Just because one person wouldn't do something doesn't mean that someone else shouldn't.



mantis65 -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/24/2007 1:47:12 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ewasub

i mean where he would essentially be taken and never seen again.  he would exist to serve and please his Domme and only her closest confidants.  i think the other option is OWK and it is a 100k entry fee if i am correct.
thank you for all of your responses.


yes! Every time I touch myself….

Seriously I believe what I have heard from some Dommes online that a lifestyle this intense in RL turns out for the most part to be unhealthy for both Dome and sub.
There could always be exceptions but I believe for the most part the sub would have to hold a job and interact with others unless the Domme is living in a huge mansion.
As an artist I could work from home so this idea/fantasy is plausible on some level.
yet i have my doubts



Lashra -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/24/2007 5:06:03 AM)

Dang, I guess I shouldn't have sold my remote castle in Transylvania...[:D]

~Lashra



chiaThePet -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/24/2007 6:04:31 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ewasub

i mean where he would essentially be taken and never seen again.  he would exist to serve and please his Domme and only her closest confidants.  i think the other option is OWK and it is a 100k entry fee if i am correct.
thank you for all of your responses.


This is America where one is innocent until proven guilty, but here you go;

http://news.aol.com/topnews/articles/_a/wealthy-couple-charged-with-slavery/20070523190809990001?ncid=NWS00010000000001

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)



thetammyjo -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/24/2007 6:17:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn

I think we are WAY too critical of the motivations of people. If someone desires to achieve an ultimate state of slavery, I'd applaud that person, not criticize him/her. Just because one person wouldn't do something doesn't mean that someone else shouldn't.



I have a question: Is this really the "ultimate state of slavery"?

Why or why not?



lateralist1 -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/24/2007 6:19:30 AM)

It's my fantasy. Always has been. One woman in a household of men all doing my bidding. I have almost achieved it in vanilla life a number of times for short spells.
So I think I must be polyamorous.
Unfortunately things are far easier in one's imagination than in the real world.
But you never know. I live in hope lol.



nonu -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/24/2007 6:27:42 AM)

Quite an interesting question, but the most common answer seems to be 'no'.

I guess everything remains a possibility until proven otherwise. Likewise, only a person who has actually been through such an experience can say for sure, whether there are indeed Dommes who would take them out of the vanilla circulation.

Sounds like something out of a fantasy (a very interesting one that too!), but not too likely to come true, because of the many realities involved. Anyway, those who've been through it can best enlighten us A/all with their experience.



ewasub -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/24/2007 10:56:33 AM)

thanks for all of the replies.  also, the lady in the photo certainly looks mean.  i would drop to my knees in front of her.  :)



Politesub53 -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/24/2007 12:28:29 PM)

Ewasab..... Wishing to be a slave and out of circulation, could be more than you bargain for. You need to be cautious whom you choose.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/americas/6688825.stm

Regards.....politesub



kinkyATL -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/24/2007 12:34:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Ewasab..... Wishing to be a slave and out of circulation, could be more than you bargain for. You need to be cautious whom you choose.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/americas/6688825.stm

Regards.....politesub


Note there is no indication that the situation referenced in the above story has anything at all to do with BDSM.

Certainly everyone needs to be cautious when meeting anyone and doubly so if you intend to be with them in a situation from which you can't extricate yourself.  I think examples of tragic situations arising from BDSM play are remarkably infrequent considering the population of players.





Politesub53 -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/24/2007 12:39:06 PM)

Sorry KinkyATL, i  was merely pointing out what may happen if getting involved with the wrong people/person. Not everyone who claims to be genuine is. im aware for many this a fantasy but at the end of the day we are all responsible, at least initially, for our own safety.

[;)]



LdyScarletDomina -> RE: are there any Dommes that truly take a slave out of vanilla circulation? (5/24/2007 1:01:55 PM)

I was kept a prisoner for 3 months in 1999.  I was abused by a very sick individual who believed himself to be a dominant.  I was lucky to escape with my life.  I have spent most of the last few years talking ALOT at various BDSM gatherings about the importance of safety, safe calls, and always having SOMEONE who knows where you are and can give that information to the authorities.  Now, the difference between BDSM and illegal detaining is a totally seperate post that I don't think the OP is trying to debate.

If I understand you OP you are wondering if there are any ladies out there who are willing to take a WILLING victim and absorb him in a totally choiceless situation in which he never has to make a single decision, have a single responsibility or even go to the grocery store.  I am sure there are Dommes out there that are like that.  But I have never personally met them.  Here's the reason (IMHO)

***WARNING.  ALL MATERIAL FROM THIS POINT IS ONLY THE POSTER'S POV and is not meant to be read as anything other than that! 

A slave's reason for living is to make the life of his owner easier.  His/her duties include (often) domestic service, S&M play and often times either sexual service or chastity.  However, in my experience, every Mistress/slave couple I have ever met the slave worked a job in order to contribute to the finances of the household.  After all, this is a hard world to live in without everyone in the household working at least part time.  Those slaves were intelligent, thoughtful, and responsible people who were not seeking to be completely absolved from the "problem" of having responsibilities but were seeking to give up certain choices so that they didn't interfere with their true joy - serving the pleasure of their owner. 

Every time I receive a letter saying "I want to be removed from vanilla life, no choices, no outside contact. Just slavery" the first thing I wonder is if the slave is really seeking that or just doesn't want to work anymore.  Perhaps that is judgemental of me, but as I honor hard work and abhor laziness that usually is the first turn off for me.  The second is that if someone wants to live a life free of any responsibilities or duties, how can s/he serve?  If you can't decide what to eat for yourself or what color looks good with orange, how can you lay out you're Owner's clothes in the morning or cook her a meal? 

I don't want an automaton.  My vibrator works just as well and doesn't complain about over use.  I want a living, breathing, intelligent slave whos hard working and willing to go to parties or the grocery store with me, or for me if I'm sick.

OP, please dont' think I'm being judgemental.  I'm just trying to give you some insight into the mind of One Domme.

Lady Scarlet



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