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Fisting - 5/16/2005 7:39:17 PM

alix

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Can I talk to a woman who has an extended experience in this activity?
It looks and sounds so fascinating but a bit scary too.
Thank you

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RE: Fisting - 5/16/2005 8:29:20 PM

MaitresseEden

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if you do a search on the top of the screen you will find several detailed threads about it.. particularily in health and safety.

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RE: Fisting - 5/16/2005 8:31:06 PM

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While I am not a Mistress, I was recently given some very good advice on this subject. To date, I have been unsucessful in my attempts at being fisted. I can get to the knuckles and no further. A respected Dom told me his training method is as follows:
he has his subs obtain 4 dildos length 10-12" length (he says the deeper part of the vaginal canal is the harder to stretch) they should be 1 1/2"diameter, 2" diametr, 2 1/2" diamter, 3" diameter. Starting with the smallest diameter each dildo should be used to orgasm twice a day for two weeks each. He claims that within 8-12 weeks this stretches the area sufficiently for fisting. But he warned that the first time can still be mind over matter due to nerves. I find the thought of fisting extremely arousing, so am anxious to try this approach to stretching. Good luck dear.

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RE: Fisting - 5/17/2005 2:16:07 AM

MzBerlin

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Alix-
OOHHHH!! I absolutely ADORE being fisted.
But
I used to find it really scary and kind of icky.
There are a lot of threads on this board about fisting, and I'm sure that they will get pulled for you by the end of this thread
But
Here are the basics-
Make sure that the fister has clean hands and trimmed nails with no sharp edges. (I was scratched once on accident and it was freaky.)
Go SLOW. There is no hurry and there isn't a rush.
Use lots of lube. (I like Silicone lube, but some people have problems with that. I'd recommend a nice waterbased, glycerin free lube. Slyquid and Hydrasmooth are both excellent and glycerin free.)
Realize that it may take a while to work up to a whole hand. The first fisting partner I had was medium-sized and it took a couple of weeks with constant "practice" to work up to the whole hand.
Don't forget your clit!! Clitoral stimulation helped me immensely.
Relax, relax, relax. If you feel that it's too much for a moment, tell your Dom/me to give you a moment to relax. Once again, there's no race.
Good luck!!
Keep us posted!!
Use lube!!

MzB

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