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Seeking advice on profile - 5/23/2007 10:54:18 PM

spartacuse

Posts: 10
Joined: 2/17/2007
From: Melbourne, Australia
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Hello

Please don’t think that my motivation is driven purely to get you to look at my profile, but I am at the end of my wits.

I joined Collarme.com at the beginning of this year with the hope of finding a new owner. Unfortunately I am getting more and more frustrated and disillusioned with my inability to attract that special Lady.

Looking at the “Who’s Viewing Me” section, I have only two Dominant Woman from the city I live in, numerous other from fare away geographical areas of Australia, eight from all over the globe and a large sprinkle of submissive woman, Dom &sub males, switches and transsexuals.

May I impose on some of the Mistresses reading this forum to view my profile and be so kind and comment on what I am perhaps doing wrong and suggest how I could change it to increase my chances?

O/K I am not a spring chicken at 59 years of age but I am starting to believe that perhaps this is the crux of the matter. Who wants a 59 years old slave when a Mistress could have a pick of much younger males? But I personally would rather serve a woman in my own age group, as I believe that too great an age gap is not helpful to develop a long-term relationship. But then again, perhaps the majority of Ladies are more into “play” rather then relationships?
Thank you for reading this fare…I really appreciate your effort and help.

Regards,
john

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RE: Seeking advice on profile - 5/24/2007 5:31:05 AM

MsKatHouston

Posts: 1909
Joined: 6/7/2006
From: Houston, TX
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I really enjoyed your profile. Perhaps it does have something to do with your age as you are also wishing to have a relationship with another in your age group. I did a search on dominant ladies in Australia aged 50-70 and came up with a whopping 11. I think perhaps the pool from which to choose is just a little bit smaller. Good luck in your search, though. I am sure you will find someone eventually and she will be a lucky lady to have such a great submissive. Be patient. :)

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RE: Seeking advice on profile - 5/24/2007 5:36:13 AM

BOUNTYHUNTER

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I see nothing wrong with your profile,it may be a bit long for those just breezing thur.THOSE that are truly seeking one such as you will take the time to read it all.bounty

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RE: Seeking advice on profile - 5/24/2007 10:35:17 AM

MstrssPassion

Posts: 2444
Joined: 1/1/2004
From: West Palm Beach, FL
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quote:

search on dominant ladies in Australia aged 50-70 and came up with a whopping 11

seeing that the demographics are not in your favor this could be the big reason

FYI... the who's viewed me link only shows the members who have opened your profile to the full size view. There are two views available. The size you see when you sign on is the standard size & if you notice, when you click on it it will open up to a large view.

Now the question I have... did you simply create the profile & sit back to wait & see if the dominants would contact you? Most women do not search profiles, some do, but for the most part they already have enough email coming in that they don't go out searching.

Now lastly, I have a comment... 6 months is nothing. Some people search for YEARS. You need to network yourself better. Get involved with events that will give you a chance to meet others out in the real world. You could also join a few of the many discussion groups found all over the place online.

Lastly, never give up because giving up guarantees failures

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