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not Stripping - 5/17/2005 11:02:54 AM

tieme

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I have question I have talk to some Doms on the ** Net ** i was told they like to see the Sub nude before submisson that would make me really up set make me wounder if they just getting off to a nude body . I will not strip of any one that not may Master I dont have master i still will not go NUDE why is that some want this before even talking to the person? I have only been in the life style for a little while I dont think i am wrong holding my ground ?

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RE: not Stripping - 5/17/2005 11:31:56 AM

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Greetings tieme -

I think I should be blunt - I have one word for you -

troll.

You just stick to your guns - if its sends up bad vibes, don't do it. Be true to yourself, and follow your own decisions until you decide to submit. Nakedness doesn't show submission and is anyone who tries to push this onto is just plain wrong.

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RE: not Stripping - 5/17/2005 1:41:22 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tieme
I have question I have talk to some Doms on the ** Net ** i was told they like to see the Sub nude before submisson that would make me really up set make me wounder if they just getting off to a nude body . I have only been in the life style for a little while I dont think i am wrong holding my ground ?

Oh Tieme,
You are absolutely not wrong for holding your ground... Stripping for jerkoffs online is a huge waste of time unless you are specifically getting joy from being used online that way by men who never intend to reveal selves in real life to you or show you any respect.
I'm not against doing things online if you get some kick out of it, but to me it is an absolute waste of time, and degrading because if he is too lazy/cheap to put in time/effort to meet with you, why would you want to help him jerk off anyway?... JMO, M

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RE: not Stripping - 5/17/2005 2:13:10 PM

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Any one who demands stuff like striping for them or the right to grope you as I had in one case or to know personal information that's not pertinant to your submission are most likly trolls trolling. And in my opnion not someone I'd want to know.

I was talking to one guy and he's like when we meet I demand you will show me your breasts and let me touch them, I was like hah you wish, not in this lifetime.

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RE: not Stripping - 5/17/2005 2:47:22 PM

MaitresseEden

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Allow me to shed a little bit of light on this topic.. Often time Dommes. in particular pro's but even non pro's will have a sub strip before they ever touch him. The reason is because they fear solicitation charges. If you are nude first then technically she could file indecency charges against you and hence it is often away to sort out those who are serious from those who are just out to make a bust. However, recently Texas just passed a law saying Vice can get naked, and so I'm not sure that practice would be applicable.

In a non-prodommes case. ( please bear in mind I'm referring to in person encounters only) Many dommes will confinscate clothing and require a sub to strip as a matter of safety. If he is naked he is less likely to have a weapon hidden in a pocket, or run off after stealing my car, etc.. I know the rational is full of loopholes, and doesn't alway make a lot of sense. But psychological it some times levels the playing field.

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RE: not Stripping - 5/17/2005 3:16:18 PM

FelinePersuasion

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ME That's a valid point but most men who're demanding that are trolls looking for a cyber jolly.

You could just as easily hand cuff them an pat someone down there for verifying there's no wepons as striping them.,

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