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littleone35 -> What's with this? (5/24/2007 1:21:36 PM)
Before i met Master i had a few play partners. When i decided i wanted to belong to Master i told them i would not play with them anymore. They seemed fine with it. Today after not hearing from any of them for months i get a call today he siad "Hi you still with your Master" i told him yes and very happy. He said want to get toghter and play? I told him i am not cheating on Master. And Not interested, he said we won't tell him. I told him I WILL tell him what you said. Then he hung up on me. So what's with this do they honestly think they can get us to so easily cheat on our Master/Mistress? Matt's littleone

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 1:27:25 PM)
They hope. This happens all the time. Are you owned? Does he share? Tell me when you're done with him. You know you need a real man. On and on.

mstrjx -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 1:28:16 PM)
For better or for worse, what I have found in a great many people in the Lifestyle is that there is a casual-ness in 'playing'. BDSM play is like a hobby, and the hobbyists get together and indulge their hobby. Of course in this case, their 'hobby' sometimes involves direct or indirect sexuality, and can be intense psychologically. There are those who value the ethos of 'relationship', and those that wouldn't let something so trivial be worth quibbling over. Jeff

KatyLied -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 1:57:42 PM)
What's with this? Probably they are horny. I wouldn't read much more into it beyond that.

ProlificNeeds -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 2:02:51 PM)
He was looking for a booty call.

rollinonward05 -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 2:24:17 PM)
At one time Masters wife tried this kind of thing. Saying she would not tell him if i did something that was against his rules or that i had not asked permission about. I guess she thought i would not tell Master or that i would just go against him. She has since found out how wrong she was. I guess she may of had a ulterior motive for trying this kind of thing. But it does not bother me because i realize it. :)

JeniferJuniper -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 3:21:57 PM)
Simple answer to a simple question..... Yes! lol

MagiksSlave -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 4:57:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rollinonward05 At one time Masters wife tried this kind of thing. Saying she would not tell him if i did something that was against his rules or that i had not asked permission about. I guess she thought i would not tell Master or that i would just go against him. She has since found out how wrong she was. I guess she may of had a ulterior motive for trying this kind of thing. But it does not bother me because i realize it. :) Guess she wasnt as ok with him haveing someone on the side as she thought she would be!!!! as for the op unfortunetly people want what they want and arent always honest about getting it, it isnt his relationship he'd be fucken up so why would he care?? its sad but true Magik's slave

imthatacheyouhav -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 4:59:34 PM)
Seriously....this is a shock how?.....

HeavansKeeper -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 5:37:18 PM)
<QR> When I took My Pet I knew she had a wild life aswell. I'm fine with her past, it made her the most wonderous creature I could ever imagine. I'm not offended when men (from her past or not) come onto her. I see it as an opportunity for her to make me proud. As for those men who try to convince women to cheat... They disgrace my gender. There will always be wolves sniffing the Alpha male's mate's butt when he's fighting off the lions for her. You handled it very well.

Celeste43 -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 6:30:40 PM)
He was horny and all he had to lose was a minute for a phone call. He asked and you refused.

Donnalee -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 7:20:46 PM)
You'd be surprised at how often it works. It's an effective tactic to at least ask....that's how people get what they want.

freyjasdottir -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 7:45:05 PM)
It must be in the air tonight or something. Someone from my past came calling tonight and is a bit stubborn when it comes to NO. I try not to discuss the details of my personal life with him (we've remained friendly) but today I had enough and told him I was involved with someone, told him who it is and that he had his chance with me and since I didn't cheat on him I wasn't planning on cheating on my love.

earthycouple -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 8:00:28 PM)
just to share a similar... a guy emailed me just yesterday idiot: do you still want to talk to me? Donna: depends on the subject idiot: I want to learn how to please a Mistress Donna: I suggest you read the forums, since all dominants are pleased in different ways idiot: honestly, I want YOU to dominate me. Donna: since you cloaked yourself in lies I have no use for you idiot: I guess you are right you teach me so well Donna: clicks on ignore button.

Lashra -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 8:44:23 PM)
Yes, some are misguided and believe that submissive equals pushover and an easy lay. You showed him that was not true, good for you! ~Lashra

corsetgirl -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 9:15:48 PM)
Kudos for calling his bluff and that you directed him to the Exit sign!

happypervert -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 9:54:15 PM)
If you're dumb enough to ask "what is with this?", you're dumb enough to fall for it. That poor guy just happened to call at the wrong time. Don't be so smug about what a good little cunt you are, because if this guy or another calls in another 6 months or what ever the right time is, it may not seem so silly to you.

minnetar -> RE: What's with this? (5/24/2007 10:58:53 PM)
i quote: ORIGINAL: happypervert If you're dumb enough to ask "what is with this?", you're dumb enough to fall for it. That poor guy just happened to call at the wrong time. Don't be so smug about what a good little cunt you are, because if this guy or another calls in another 6 months or what ever the right time is, it may not seem so silly to you. i guess i am naive and believe in the power of commitment. Thinking that this epitomizes D/s. i think that the question was based on this. i don't believe anyone is dumb more than confused about actions. Statements like yours would be the most dumbfounding by putting her down by not understanding others trying to use her. minnetar

earthycouple -> RE: What's with this? (5/25/2007 5:33:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: happypervert If you're dumb enough to ask "what is with this?", you're dumb enough to fall for it. That poor guy just happened to call at the wrong time. Don't be so smug about what a good little cunt you are, because if this guy or another calls in another 6 months or what ever the right time is, it may not seem so silly to you. Why was this necessary....if she's in a commitment when and IF she's exits that relationship then she will...when ready, post to her profile she's ready to move forward. THEN and only THEN is it ok for someone to call and troll. It would seem in your mind all married people should "keep their options open" for when that relationship inevitably fails because "she's not a good c***" and he will surely discard her soon enough.

slaveish -> RE: What's with this? (5/25/2007 5:57:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: happypervert If you're dumb enough to ask "what is with this?", you're dumb enough to fall for it. That poor guy just happened to call at the wrong time. Don't be so smug about what a good little cunt you are, because if this guy or another calls in another 6 months or what ever the right time is, it may not seem so silly to you. Good god. You certainly took it personally. Were you the caller?

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