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A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 12:49:14 AM

straponwings

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So... Maybe it seems odd, maybe I'm being too... direct, but an idea popped into my head that I'd love to try out! I've always loved the sight of two men together so I was thinking... What if I could control them both? Nothing would have to necessarily be sexual between the subs and myself, but they would do as I told them with one another. Is this a reasonable idea? Are there flaws in the plan? Anyone in the area who would be interested?! Well... I suppose I COULD turn this thread into a long and winded detailed fantasy, but... I'd rather just have it be blunt, as it's late. Sex isn't really a huge interest to me, but the idea of being able to control a gay guy, let alone two tugs at that inner domme that's hiding deep down inside. I'd like to test the concept with someone close to my own age but they would have to know that it's definitely not about sex. It's most likely that there wouldn't even be any of that between us...(meaning myself and the sub.) Anyway, it's late and I know I'm babbling, so if you want to bash, don't be too harsh. If you're interested or you have advice on the topic, then go right ahead!

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 12:55:26 AM

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Nothing wrong with the plan. Tons of topics/complaints about Doms wanting to control two bi-female subs, so it's only fair the inverse is fair. (Hello, Newton).

Good luck in your hunt. Depending on how deep you want to take this, finding your boys could be easier. If it's a one time thing to start, that's a plus for finding them. If you're less extreme in your Domination, that's another plus in regards to finding a couple. You'll probably find a couple that isn't huge into BDSM but find it kinky, or one is sub... Does it matter if one is sub to the other who becomes sub to you? Via the transitive property, it would be ok.

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 12:57:16 AM

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I dont think its odd:) I think it actually sounds like quite a good idea just hard work maybe ? If sex wasnt such a big deal for me I think I would like to see what would happen in this dynamic but I love having sex with my boy. And I wouldnt want to see him have sex with another boy , but in a different set up with two gay boys and me I think I would enjoy it

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 1:01:27 AM

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Yay! How would I go about seeking the subs though? Would this thread be enough? Should I just start... messaging the subs in my area? It seems easy enough for doms to find ME, so should I approach it the same way?

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 1:07:18 AM

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I'd state in your profile and also maybe look on gay bondage forums. Gaydar has a bondage section thoughyu may have to pose as a man to get a profile at first. I'm sure by talking about it on here you will spark some interest. Maybe start looking for one boy and then let him find the other he will know better where to look maybe :) Good luck I hope you work something out

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 1:10:24 AM

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<3 Thank you Canuple ^^

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 1:18:17 AM

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We had two submissive boys stay with us for three weeks in Cape Town - I took control of all their activities and disciplined them daily. Poor Barry was excluded from the fun as they considered him too straight and masculine.

I have some lovely pics of me in action with them

Email me at [email protected] if you would like to see them.

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 10:47:12 AM

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i can see if One has not interest in sexual play with their subbie at all, that would be a great way to know they are not going to be needy and pestering You about it.

or just bring in one gay subbie to suppliment the things You would like to have Your subbie experience for You would be an option as well.

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 10:57:56 AM

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Sounds like over all life plan.

I have had two male trainees or slaves before and yes they did play together on my orders.

I know that Fox would love to have a bi, sub "brother" in the house.

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 11:21:00 AM

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Hello straponwings

I really don’t think you will have a hard time finding men for your fantasy. Assuming 2 in every hundred men think of themselves as actively Bi... and 3 in every hundred as actively gay…and 4 in every hundred have thought about experimenting. That is around 1 in ten men under the right circumstances may like to join in your fantasy. Add to that the men that would not consider it on their own but would at the request of a Mistress and you have a large pool of applicants.

As stated above let your desires be known in your profile…. set back and wait. I’ll bet you will have many applicants.

The above statistics listed are a general average of estimated ratios found on line in multiple studies.
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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 12:06:41 PM

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Isn't that just Yaoi?

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 12:15:04 PM

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I always chuckle when this premise is present, right along with the Doms who want two lesbian female slaves.

What makes one think that if they are GAY, they want you horning in on their gig?

Clue: Their focus isn't on YOU. You would be merely a prop.

Hell, it'd be like someone 'forcing' me to eat a Hershey Bar! ROFL!

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 12:30:03 PM

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It's not nessisarily a question of them wanting her 'horning in on their gig' as you put it. It is, after all, FANTASY. The OP stated she wasn't nessisarily interested in direct sexual contact with the couple - just that it would amuse her, as a dominant, to keep a couple of attractive young men to serve as submissives and to entertain her, among presumable other duties, by periodically going at it like a couple of crazed weasels. I mean, hell, that's just entertainment.

I've known any number of queers who like to have an audience. Why wouldn't one or two or more agree to such a proposition? It's much easier if you take yourself out of the equation (the typical guy-owning-two-lesbians fantasy is intrinsically flawed, in that the guys who want that sort of thing don't really want lesbians. Once you alter the semantics - usually by bopping the guy in question on the nose with a rolled up newspaper until he figures out the difference between lesbian, bi, and bi-for-my-amsement - this scenario, too becomes feasable)

Actually, Yaoi has been argued to be one of the most perverse kinks on the planet, simply because it absolutely negates the sexuality of the kinkster indulging in it, in favor of absolute and unadulterated voyerism. I'm not sure if it's all that, but god knows if I'm not involved in the sex I'm fantasizing about, it's time to turn on the TV and do something else for a while.

(edited for syntax)

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 12:31:51 PM

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sounds like fun !! I hate to mention craigslist ... but that
could be a source of boys for that.

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 12:36:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Suleiman

I've known any number of queers who like to have an audience. Why wouldn't one or two or more agree to such a proposition?

You have validated my point. It's the "queers" desire. It takes no domination then, just availability of the prop.
The only thing I'm trying to say here is, there is no domination in this regard :) But who cares :)

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 12:37:32 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Suleiman

It's not nessisarily a question of them wanting her 'horning in on their gig' as you put it. It is, after all, FANTASY. The OP stated she wasn't nessisarily interested in direct sexual contact with the couple - just that it would amuse her, as a dominant, to keep a couple of attractive young men to serve as submissives and to entertain her, among presumable other duties, by periodically going at it like a couple of crazed weasels. I mean, hell, that's just entertainment.

I've known any number of queers who like to have an audience. Why wouldn't one or two or more agree to such a proposition? It's much easier if you take yourself out of the equation (the typical guy-owning-two-lesbians fantasy is intrinsically flawed, in that the guys who want that sort of thing don't really want lesbians. Once you alter the semantics - usually by bopping the guy in question on the nose with a rolled up newspaper until he figures out the difference between lesbian, bi, and bi-for-my-amsement - this scenario, too becomes feasable)

Actually, Yaoi has been argued to be one of the most perverse kinks on the planet, simply because it absolutely negates the sexuality of the kinkster indulging in it, in favor of absolute and unadulterated voyerism. I'm not sure if it's all that, but god knows if I'm not involved in the sex I'm fantasizing about, it's time to turn on the TV and do something else for a while.

(edited for syntax)

Yes, I would have to say that yaoi is a wonderful way of passing time. And I suppose it is rather like a man wanting to watch two women together, but this side of it isn't nearly as common.

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 12:53:34 PM

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It is always about YOURSELF…there is no other reason. The trick is to find others… dom or sub…. who are willing add YOURSELF to their little island in the universe.
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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 12:58:58 PM

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I don't rightly care who is "in charge" of the scene as long as I get a good view of the action. The whole scenario sounds hot.

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 1:01:06 PM

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Well find a gay part of town and look for the effeminate sissyboys lol, I don't think it'd be easy to find a pair that's already a couple, which would be similarly as rare as finding a lifestyle couple who are both switches, there are certainly exceptions, good luck

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RE: A pair of submissive gay boys? - 5/25/2007 1:25:31 PM

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We all hide behind masks…and feel different ways at different times…. There are a lot of sissy boys that would kick your ass or mine if they were in the mood.
I would think it would be more fun to find two men that were not a couple and direct them to perform your wishes.
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