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BrutalMasterOne -> 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 5:21:04 AM)
OK, so I am new here. Perhaps I need help but I do find some things confusing to an extreme. For example as I read through things I found the following under one person's reply: quote: Posts: 8875 Joined: 4/19/2006 Now that is OVER 20 posts a day! Curious I went to the profile of that person and found: quote: On xx/xx/xx Daddy and I met for the very first time. I cannot believe a year has already gone by. So here is my question, does a person like this have any time for a real life? I mean really a full year to meet? All those posts? A meeting might have been much more profitable as I see it. BTW, this is just one example there seem to be many like this. So here is the question, with people like this abounding here is there any chance that there are "real" persons behind these posts? LOL for it might be thought of me the same way, except I won't be here all that long and/or often Oh yes, I also expect lots of flames for most here don't seem to be able to answer without getting all inflamed... but I really am curious about how things work and why.

bandit25 -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 5:23:02 AM)
Stick around...you'll see that posting gets addictive!

LadyPact -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 5:25:15 AM)
First, let Me say welcome. 20 posts in a day is not especially a huge time investment. There are both the lifestyle and non lifestyle sections where people are just having fun. The casual banter section, are not in-depth, and a quick chime in on these boards for fun can increase the number of posts. Actually, they are fun and a good stress reliever, say, after a long day at work. I hope that answers your question, and again, welcome.

mnottertail -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 5:28:02 AM)
I am one of those with some 8000 posts. I am on thruout the day, and I am real me. Now someone like LA---well she has worn out a few profiles here, so she might be in the 8000 or higher on just this one, she reads fast and types like a fuckin' typhoon, I know because we ganged up on her once and she threw us around like fuckin' rag dolls. Now she is pretty real, and has a life that seems to be rather full and not involving typing.........so I think the answer is that it varies person to person whether or not they have a life outside of the addiction to collarme. Ron

imthatacheyouhav -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 5:32:26 AM)
Yea...i have no life...and the matter with that is?

mstrjx -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 5:32:50 AM)
Posts happen. In my case, I have tried to employ the 'team of monkeys' randomly creating prose in hopes of posting something relevant here. However my monkeys are rather lazy on occasion, and I should think it a miracle that my presence here will even attain 4-paddle status. At least I pretend that life has greater meaning. Jeff

puella -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 5:34:14 AM)
You probably spent more time figuring out how many posts per day that person was making than the time it took for that person to post any number of his posts. Some posts are pretty quick one offs, some are very reflective and take a bit more time... but.. in the end.. what has you so fascinate by it?

HeavansKeeper -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 5:38:24 AM)
If the subject matter intrigues you, the words flow. When My Muse is with me, I can write novelas that keep her on the edge of her seat wanting more. When she isn't, I find myself sniffing the teddy bear that carries her scent for the motivation to move my fingers.

ennaozzie -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 5:45:54 AM)
Monkeys - damn i never thought of that, you get some handy tips here. beanie

MstrssPassion -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 5:50:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Now someone like LA---well she has worn out a few profiles here, so she might be in the 8000 or higher on just this one, yup... 11765 Posts

salilus -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 7:20:41 AM)
I've never understood this phenomenon either. I can't ever understand how a person can say they do this, that, and the other thing with and for their owner/top/daddy/mistress/etc and they're so heavy in the local bdsm community and yet they're online for what seems to be all day long at times. It doesn't click in my head. Or perhaps it's just that I wish I could sit on the computer all day long and shirk my Daddy and all of my responsibilities while I yammered on about my opinion for hours on end. Wait. No I don't. ;)

AquaticSub -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 7:27:21 AM)
Better question: Why the hell do you care enough to do the math? Shouldn't you have something better to do?

AquaticSub -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 7:31:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: salilus I've never understood this phenomenon either. I can't ever understand how a person can say they do this, that, and the other thing with and for their owner/top/daddy/mistress/etc and they're so heavy in the local bdsm community and yet they're online for what seems to be all day long at times. It doesn't click in my head. Or perhaps it's just that I wish I could sit on the computer all day long and shirk my Daddy and all of my responsibilities while I yammered on about my opinion for hours on end. Wait. No I don't. ;) Like other people have said - it's pretty easy. I'm here for a few hours a day and more on weekends while gaming on my laptop. I'm involoved with a local group that meets once a month. I go to classes several hours and day, go to karate a few hours a week and game for a bunch of hours. Considering your average week has 168 hours and most BDSM groups seem to meet once a week at the most, that leaves plenty of time.

salilus -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 7:39:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: salilus I've never understood this phenomenon either. I can't ever understand how a person can say they do this, that, and the other thing with and for their owner/top/daddy/mistress/etc and they're so heavy in the local bdsm community and yet they're online for what seems to be all day long at times. It doesn't click in my head. Or perhaps it's just that I wish I could sit on the computer all day long and shirk my Daddy and all of my responsibilities while I yammered on about my opinion for hours on end. Wait. No I don't. ;) Like other people have said - it's pretty easy. I'm here for a few hours a day and more on weekends while gaming on my laptop. I'm involoved with a local group that meets once a month. I go to classes several hours and day, go to karate a few hours a week and game for a bunch of hours. Considering your average week has 168 hours and most BDSM groups seem to meet once a week at the most, that leaves plenty of time. Indeed. If one is single there is lots of time in one's week. But I completely understand when couples work opposite shifts and things there is a need to 'pass time' sometimes. What I don't get is how people, in relationships, can work, be in a relationship, attend munches, parties, talks, and events, sometimes even be poly and still have enough time to play around on the computer from morning till night. The math doesn't add up - something is awry, I say. And that is all I'm saying. :)

realisticwish -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 7:44:06 AM)
When I first started reading posts I would see the handcuffs, the paddles, and then MY dreaded vanilla ice cream cone. Come on at least give me a butter pecan for a few nuts ( I have certainly met some). I would like to comment on the year to meet. We never know someone else's back ground. I can only comment on my own personal experience. The first person I ever met it was 6 months. However the first bdsm person was in a few weeks MAJOR mistake as I was a submissive then many many years ago. He was a sadist a little fact he failed to mention. Long story and not important only to have a learning lesson. These days being the person in control, I meet someone normally with in a few weeks. I see no reason for wasting time with countless emails and calls either you are real or you are not. Another thing I stay with local folks. I have no desire to collect air miles anymore. On the topic of being online, many times I leave the site up and come and go on the computer. As I would like to believe some do. At present I doubt I will reach the paddle status online anyway .. only in the toy bag and for this Domme that is what matters most to ME! ~J~

kyraofMists -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 7:44:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: salilus Indeed. If one is single there is lots of time in one's week. But I completely understand when couples work opposite shifts and things there is a need to 'pass time' sometimes. What I don't get is how people, in relationships, can work, be in a relationship, attend munches, parties, talks, and events, sometimes even be poly and still have enough time to play around on the computer from morning till night. The math doesn't add up - something is awry, I say. And that is all I'm saying. :) But it is only your perception that they are here from morning till night. It all depends on the person. Some people read and type very fast and making a dozen or so posts in an hour is a piece of cake. For others it may take all day... Knight's kyra

earthycouple -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 7:47:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BrutalMasterOne OK, so I am new here. Perhaps I need help but I do find some things confusing to an extreme. For example as I read through things I found the following under one person's reply: quote: Posts: 8875 Joined: 4/19/2006 Now that is OVER 20 posts a day! Curious I went to the profile of that person and found: quote: On xx/xx/xx Daddy and I met for the very first time. I cannot believe a year has already gone by. So here is my question, does a person like this have any time for a real life? I mean really a full year to meet? All those posts? A meeting might have been much more profitable as I see it. BTW, this is just one example there seem to be many like this. So here is the question, with people like this abounding here is there any chance that there are "real" persons behind these posts? LOL for it might be thought of me the same way, except I won't be here all that long and/or often Oh yes, I also expect lots of flames for most here don't seem to be able to answer without getting all inflamed... but I really am curious about how things work and why. These post can be one word or a thousand words. did you see the random stupidity category? I might make 20 posts there in an hour if we are all bantering back and forth. When someone else says a 40 liner that's in tune with how I feel I quote and "ditto" them. easy peasy. As for "real people" we are all bots. No humans here. What do you mean "real"? Give me a break...I have a family, I go to movies, I buy groceries, I interact with my weekly houseboi on the days he is here, I clean my house, I go to parties and clubs, I have lunch with friends, I am getting my MBA, I met and am bringing my slave to live here, I am teaching him about how life works in this family, I play with my UM's, I oversee 1st grade homework projects, I shuttle UM's to cheerleading and brownies and playdates, I could go on all day but my littlest UM needs breakfast. Nope no "real" person here....

MHOO314 -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 7:50:03 AM)
Less than an hour at night before bed or early in the morning when the house is quiet--will do it, however it CAN be addciting for some and sadly for some, this is the only real life they have---and don't be mislead and think those with a lot of postings know it all or those with few know little.

AquaticSub -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 7:51:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: salilus Indeed. If one is single there is lots of time in one's week. But I completely understand when couples work opposite shifts and things there is a need to 'pass time' sometimes. What I don't get is how people, in relationships, can work, be in a relationship, attend munches, parties, talks, and events, sometimes even be poly and still have enough time to play around on the computer from morning till night. The math doesn't add up - something is awry, I say. And that is all I'm saying. :) I'm in a relationship and somehow I still do all that. Frankly, it's still very easy. If you have an owner who doesn't want you on the computer, then you aren't on the computer. If you have an owner who also likes to spend time on the computer (be it writing stories, playing on photoshop, gaming, or anything) then you can probably be on the computer as well. Most healthy couples I've seen aren't glued to each other's side 24/7 and have some time apart where they persue their own interests. Now considering the wealth of knowledge we have here on collarme due to the vast amount and array of people we have here, why is it so odd that a person who is interested in furthering their own knowledge of BDSM as a lifestyle and about kinks, would spend free time here?

juliaoceania -> RE: 8800 POSTS? (5/26/2007 7:54:32 AM)
I feel so special, a thread about lil ol me? Edited to add, not that i feel I have to defend myself, but I was unemployed for a few months a while back, and I watch absolutely no tv. I work now. I have to tell the OP, I can definitely understand the fascination with me, I am pretty damn captivating[:D] Edited to add, I do not live with my Daddy, we spend time here online together posting in off topic. I do not attend any lifestyle functions. I have no desire to.

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